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Okay so , my friend '18/F'and my other friend ' 18/M ' were dating for some time. They dated for 7 months altogether.

Last week , he broke up with her totally out of the blue. He just told her that he didn't have romantic feelings about her anymore , but they could still stay friends.

She was very upset naturally and was texting me lots of very long messages about how her ex was everything and she doesnt understand. I was fine with this as it was clear she needed to vent.

But recently , I think she doesnt understand the "we can still be friends" thing. Usually people say that to soften the blow which i believe is the case here. My reason for this :

She asked him to hangout 1 on 1 , seeing as she believed he still wanted to be friends. He ignored her for some hours and then replied saying he had plans on all the days she suggested.

After that , he turned off his location for her which she was distraught about.

Then , last night she asked him to call at about 8 o'clock and he didnt reply at all and she said his "snapscore went up by a hundred in this time"?

I have tried to explain that sometimes people say they wabt to stay friends just because its the nice thing to say, when they dont really mean it but she does not want to hear me out about this and she said he keeps promising her that he wants to he friends.

I also think this may be because they work together so he needs to atleast make it not awkward

Okay so this is not my relationship but i still need advice because my friend keeps dragging me into it.

My friend '18/F'and my other friend ' 17/M ' were dating for some time. They dated for 7 months altogether.

Last week , he broke up with her totally out of the blue. He just told her that he didn't have romantic feelings about her anymore , but they could still stay friends.

She was very upset naturally and was texting me lots of very long messages about how her ex was everything and she doesnt understand. I was fine with this as it was clear she needed to vent.

But recently , I think she doesnt understand the "we can still be friends" thing. Usually people say that to soften the blow which i believe is the case here. My reason for this :

She asked him to hangout 1 on 1 , seeing as she believed he still wanted to be friends. He ignored her for some hours and then replied saying he had plans on all the days she suggested.

After that , he turned off his location for her which she was distraught about.

Then , last night she asked him to call at about 8 o'clock and he didnt reply at all and she said his "snapscore went up by a hundred in this time"?

I have tried to explain that sometimes people say they want to stay friends just because its the nice thing to say, when they dont really mean it but she does not want to hear me out about this and she said he keeps promising her that he wants to he friends.

I also think this may be because they work together so he needs to atleast make it not awkward .

The reason I'm asking this is because she keeps telling me weird things about him that I don't want to know. Like for starters , she told me about their intimate lives and how many times they were intimate with eachother which I dont want to know about?? she also keeps telling me that he needs to come to his senses and realize shes the one for him and that he loves her and that he is just confused about how he feels towards her , which i dont think is the case because he was very clear about how he DIDNT have feelings for her during the breakup.

Anyway , she keeps venting to me but not taking any advice , and also becoming increasingly weird about it , so what do I do ??

I feel like , from my personal experience, the two often go together in media. It might be because of the death note references throughout the show but I just noticed this as i am a big fan of both !!

edit : i meant to say saiki k fans are usually death note fans also in the caption

Okay so I know I'm probably not pregnant but I'm super worried because I'm not really experienced in this so can someone help.

I went to visit my long distance boyfriend last month and we had sex 3 times. Each time , he used a condom and pulled out before he even came close to cumming so he did not cum inside me. I also don't believe I was ovulating during this.

Anyway, the following weekend after I came home from my boyfriends house I got me period which was a few days later , on the day it was due to come.

Now , a month later , I decided I wanted to be 100% sure , so I took 3 pregnancy tests yesterday and each one showed a very clear negative. I was happy with this until i saw many people online telling me all kinds of horror stories about pregnancy tests so I just need advice and a bit of help with this.

My next period was due 2 days ago and still hasn't come. Im freaking tf out

Okay so I know I'm probably not pregnant but I'm super worried because I'm not really experienced in this so can someone help.

I went to visit my long distance boyfriend last month and we had sex 3 times. Each time , he used a condom and pulled out before he even came close to cumming so he did not cum inside me. I also don't believe I was ovulating during this.

Anyway, the following weekend after I came home from my boyfriends house I got me period which was a few days later , on the day it was due to come.

Now , a month later , I decided I wanted to be 100% sure , so I took 3 pregnancy tests yesterday and each one showed a very clear negative. I was happy with this until i saw many people online telling me all kinds of horror stories about pregnancy tests so I just need advice and a bit of help with this.

My next period is due today and if hasn't arrived yet so I'm not sure what to do from here.

Hi so , I am just home after a visit to see my long distance boyfriend. I went to visit him for a week.

During this week , we had protected sexual intercourse 3 times. Each time , he wore a condom , he did not finish inside me or even come close to it , and he didn't do it for longer than 20 minutes each time.

I checked the dates we had sex on my flo app , and I was ovulating none of the 3 times we had sex.

I am just a very anxious person and would like to know what the deal with this is. I am always very anxious about this after sex and am worried I may be pregnant.

My period is due in 2 days.

Also , for reference, we used condoms as protection.

Okay so I know i already posted on here about how my boyfriend has cheated on me in the past. Yada yada. If you want to know what happened you can check my other post

But i also have very bad jealousy issues because of it and its very stressful. I'm not really sure what to do.

He wants to go meet his distant cousin for drinks this Sunday , and not only that , but its kind of clear she doesn't like me.

I feel bad for being jealous or feeling weird about this and I can't tell anyone.

Please don't attack me in the replies I just kind of want to know if anyone is in a similar situation and what to do because i feel like a total weirdo

For context , I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend and have been for around 3 years.

But , we did date for about a year before that and broke up because he excessively cheated on me.

He would cheat on me a lot , disrespect me and basically play in my face with these girls.

I always took it for months and months and months but eventually I grew tired of being cheated on and we broke up.

I gave him another chance awhile after we broke up and ever since , it's been great. He never acts the way he used to and its like hes a completely different person.

I have forgiven him , but my feelings are still very hurt even after all this time and I want to get rid of them because I love him.

I am very insecure about girls he hangs out with or talks to because im afraid to be hurt again and it puts a strain on my mental health.

I know a lot of you are going to blame me for this and rightly so , but I really don't want to be flamed I just want some advice. Im not sure how to deal with this and I dont know anyone else who's gone through this.

I constantly feel insecure and often spend ages looking up the girls he cheated with or lied to me about , comparing myself to them in every way.

So , just to start off , this post might disgusted a few people so if you are sensitive to that I don't recommend reading.

Anyway , since I was about 12 I've had extremely bad mental health and it's affected my hygiene and habits greatly. Only now, a few years later , I am discovering proper hygiene , like when to shower or how to use conditioner correctly ect.

One of the main hygiene problems I had was brushing my teeth. I was terrible at it.

I could go days without brushing them , and I would not brush them correctly if I even bothered at all.

This has affected me very much. I now have stained yellow teeth and sometimes my gums feel weak or they bleed.

I take care of my teeth very well now , I brush them a lot and use mouth wash , but recently ive encountered another problem.

I constantly have bad breath no matter what I do , if I brush them it still stinks , if I have a mint it still stinks , if I use gum it still stinks. It is very irritating and uncomfortable for me.

I am trying to take control on my life again and have better hygiene so ive booked a dentist appointment but it is a few days away and I am wondering what I could do to ease this bad breath thing?

I've tried a few things like gargling warm salty water and using gum but it doesnt work.

If there's anything I can do to help ease this for the few days I have to wait for the dentist that would be amazing.

Also any advice or tips would be great

I am really hoping for some responses because I am struggling quite a bit. Any feedback is appreciated