u/KnownZucchini640

The recent bike taxi crackdown has made commuting so much harder 😭 Rapido/Uber Bike are taking forever to find a rider now, and even then there’s no guarantee someone will accept.
I understand there are legal/regulatory issues around bike taxis, but for people who actually use them for daily office commute, this is a HUGE inconvenience. Autos/cabs are either expensive or just take forever, especially during peak hours.
Does anyone know how long this crackdown is expected to last? Is there any realistic timeline for bike taxis to become properly available again?
Also, **if anyone is travelling from Doddanekundi towards HSR Layout on weekdays**, I would genuinely appreciate a lift/carpool for a few days until this mess settles 😭 Happy to split fuel costs.

Nah frrrr. If you tell them to explain you something, they make you feel like you are dumb and cant get simple things. It’s infuriating. Asked some colleague for help with something at work and instead of explaining how things are and can be done, he made me feel like all the mistakes i am making are rookie mistakes. Making mistakes is a part of learning whatever.

Idk if its their insecurities of looking “less-intelligent” than others but its so annoying.

Living alone has made me realize that so many of my issues started with my childhood.

When I developed a health problem as a student, I begged my mom to take me to a specialist. Instead, she refused and kept pushing homeopathy. Years later, I finally saw a doctor on my own, and the condition had gotten much worse.

She constantly compared me to my loud, rude cousin and made me feel like I wasn’t enough, always pointing out how I was too quiet or shy compared to other kids.

On my 16th birthday, all I wanted was a cake and a small gift. Instead, she told me that at my age I’d just “go around sleeping with men.”

She stopped me from joining extracurriculars for no reason, made every decision for me, and now that I’ve learned to stand up for myself, she acts like the victim.
Sometimes I grieve the childhood I never got to have. The kid I was deserved so much better.

I’m in my 20s and have been dealing with really bad anxiety lately. It’s affecting me physically too. Right now, I honestly just want to focus on my mental health, travel a bit, and get my life in a better place.

I’ve been single most of my life, and my interest in relationships or sex has always been pretty low. But lately, seeing other people in relationships or talking about sexual desires makes me feel like I’m missing out on something.

What hurts more is how people react when I talk about it. One friend told me that everyone has desires and they’ll grow with time. I know she meant well, but it made me feel like there was something wrong with me.

Another friend looked at me strangely when I said I’m not very sexually inclined.
I’m not judging anyone else’s choices. I just feel confused, unheard, and honestly kind of broken sometimes. Is it normal to not really want a relationship or sex at this stage of life? Has anyone else felt this way?

Hello everyone, ive recently started working out, ive been stressed a lot and that really helps BUT uh my periods were supposed to arrive like 2 days back, im not sure if its because of working out? im sorry if this is a dumb question because most ppl im asking this to is saying thats not normal and sh 😭😭 did anyone exp this?

Hi!

Ive started watching one Malayalam movie and a loop began lol. Malayalam movies are so beautiful and real. Also, the actors are amazing.

Ive watched quite a few : Premam, Sarvam Maya, Hridayam, Aavesham, Kumbalangi Nights, Pachuvum Athbhtha Vilakkum

yeah all were suggested to me by my mallu friends hehe. All are gems. All movies are a work of art yo😔♥️

Are there any feel good movies that i can watch?

I have a friend for like 10+ years. I had to get this off my chest because im a coward when it comes to confrontation - she will escalate things more

She would call me up only to tell about her day and dont get me wrong. She is caring towards me and values me and all - and someone being there who cares for you is a blessing

The problem is she doesn’t know when to stop yapping about her day that i really never asked for. If i rant about something to her, my rants would get some cold replies or some generic comments but somehow she will focus all the light on her and will keeeeeep on yapping yapping yapping. She would tell me whatever she had during lunch THAT I never asked for

It seems like she uses me as an emotional dumping ground and nothing else. I would get angry at first but then again getting angry would not solve anything

She is the self victimising kind. If i call her out, there is gonna be some heated argument because she cant and would never take advices lol

How do you even deal w such people without cutting them off lol