u/Kvaratskhelias

Buenas tengo 19 años, mido 1,80 cm y peso 68 kg, el problema que tengo es que luzco joven de cara para mi edad creo yo, porque para otras partes del cuerpo si luzco que tengo más edad.

He pensado que podría ser un problema de testosterona porque mi novia me lo comentó, pero si eso fuera cierto, no me crecería tampoco el pelo tan rápido como en otras partes del cuerpo, realmente después de afeitarme unos pocos días después vuelve ese pelo a mi.

Sin embargo en la cara hay incluso algunas zonas como en los cachetes que todavía no me sale la barba, y encima los tengo un poco gorditos y da apariencia de que soy más joven.

Creéis que pueda ser un problema de salud? O quizás es que todavía no me haya llegado la pubertad bien? Mi padre me dijo que a él también le costo que le saliera barba, pero no sé si esto es normal con mi edad.

I know that the title sounds so bad, but today i was talking with my gf, and then she told me that she doesnt feel like she is 18.

I mean i though it is normal as in she turned 18 some weeks ago, but she told me she feels like she is 15, that she really looks like a kid and even other people has told her that she doesnt seem like her age.

I asked her why she feels like that and she told me that she does a lot of faces, she makes a lot of expressions and sometimes she talks with pitch voice on purpose.

I told her that i dont really understand what she means, and she told me that "she sees the world really bubbly too while for me i see it grey".

I told her that i kept without understand, and she told me that this stuff it is only show when we met for the first time.

Now what im more worried about is that im not into women who are so childish, i dont want a really serious woman, but for my relationship i would like to find someone mature and someone who is responsable too, but she telling me she feels like she is 15, it really scares me.

Maybe im mostly scared because i have had a bad experience with one family member who isnt good mentally and she feels that she is a teenager being in her 50's, and i remember i needed to take care of she when i was 10 years old, because she would break ramdonly stuff around the house and her behaviour was horrible.

It is true that my friends have seen photos of her and they told me she looks younger too, and it is true i noticed it more the first time she decided to send me a video about herself, that i even started to feel bad to m4sturb4te with her because i found her a bit younger too.

Im a bit lost and maybe im worrying so much for past experience with my aunt, if there is anyone who could tell me an advice it will be welcomed, thank you.

Tengo 19 años, soy hombre, mido 1,80 y peso 66 kg, la verdad que soy una persona que yo creo que soy delgado, porque incluso se pueden ver un poco de mis abdominales.

El tema es que por alguna razón la mayor parte de la grasa se queda en mi cara, incluso parece que tengo papada de una persona con un poco de sobrepeso mientras que las otras partes de mi cuerpo se ven un poco atléticas.

No tengo mandíbula retraída ni nada por el estilo, pero por ejemplo mi línea de la mandíbula es muy poco notoria casi invisible, y también tengo los cachetes un poco gordos, y sinceramente es algo que odio.

He intentado probar a dejar de comer sal, el problema llega cuando mi madre cocina que siempre se pasa con la sal y tampoco voy a tirar la comida solo por eso, pero me gustaría saber si hay alguna manera de solventar esto.

Realmente no me gusta nada verme en fotos por esto e incluso mi madre me ha llegado a decir que tengo papada de gordo mientras que incluso he intentado hacer déficit y no funciona.

Que debo de hacer? Muchas gracias

Hello, i have been dating with this woman for a long time, but before we were talking she got mad once and she started to tell me some phrases that i dont understand.

She told me to dont translate these and when i asked her for explanations she told me that it was phrases that she heard in her family and she doesnt knows well what does that means, but she decides to use because she was mad.

These are the phrases:

"Du-te la gară nesimțire ce ești"

"Ți-oi da papucii la un moment dat și-i vedea tu atunci"

"Vezi tu vezi că la mâna mea ajungi"

"Da sigur so crezi tu"

"N-ai obraz pfui"

"Să fi sănătos că mi-o ajuns"

"Ai de capu meu ăsta nu știe nimic"

If anyone could explain in english it would be so helpful, thank u so much.

We have been dating for 9 months, i have seen her in a lot of photos, but she still is really worried about how she is gonna be when i met her.

The other day she confessed to me, she has hormonal acne, she never told me before and then while she was telling to me she started to talk bad about me, she told me that im so lucky i dont have it, she knows that guys only care about looks, and she told me she will start to get breakouts when we met.

I told her that i really dont care about that, and she showed me photos of her with acne and later i tokd her thar she looked pretty anyways, and the first thing she told me was that i was defect, and that im autistic, tbh i was kinda hurt because she told me really bad stuff to me when i was just trying to make her feel better.

Then we agreed a date to met too, it was gonna be the first time that we were gonna met in person, i said i was gonna go to her town and then she started to put a lot of excuses and she told me that she doesnt want me to met her now, because she feels ugly, and im not a woman so i cannt understand it.

I told her a lot of times she is super pretty but still she is super worried and she told me she preffers the next year to met up because then she will lock in more and she will be more fit and all. But this made me so sad because i saved a lot of money to met her and even i went to work in summer to get the money just to lose the chance like this.

She is even now refusing to do face calls (we only did 1 of 20 minutes and she wanted all time to leave) because she doesnt feel pretty, she tells me she feels like a pig when im tired to tell her she isnt, and i dont really know what more to do, i told her that when we live together she isnt gonna be some days at her best and i will love her anyways, and she told me so confident that she will never look bad when she is with me.

I dont really know what to do, i feel so lost with she and im so worried if maybe the next year she will say the same, because she already told me she will workout and put pretty for when i go this year to met she, and she said she didnt do anything.

I just wanted to see her and hug and kiss her for the first time, but i really cannt do more.

Thank u for read all this any kind of help, it is helpful.

Estábamos hablando tranquilamente por mensaje, y ella decidió mandarme unas fotos sexuales sobre ella, el tema es que me dijo que me las pasaba si yo luego le enviaba una foto de mi semen, entonces pues acepte hacerlo.

El tema es que ella me dijo que estaba muy cansada y que se iría a dormir, entonces pues me masturbe con sus fotos y pues tenía pensado mandarle la foto de mi semen justo antes de que yo me fuera a dormir, porque tenía que hacer un par de cosas, y tengo la costumbre de escribirle cosas bonitas antes de dormirme yo, entonces pensé que ahí era el mejor momento para mandarlas.

El tema es que al parecer ella no se fue a dormir, y me dijo que estaba muy enfadada que no se la hubiera mandado justo cuando yo me hubiera masturbado porque se tarda 3 segundos en subir una foto, y yo le dije que tenía pensado como otras veces hacerlo todo a la vez y que luego le mandaba foto.

El tema es que ella parecía que seguía enfadada, y le dije que iba a estar un rato más despierto si ella quería hablar, pero ya pasó 40 minutos y yo mañana me tengo que levantar dentro de 4 horas, además no sé si ella realmente se fue a dormir o no.

Debería de irme yo a dormir?

I have been dating with she for 8 months, but i keep missing she so much when we dont talk, she has been in a ldr relationship before and she had the same problem as me, she was obsessed talking with her ex.

The problem is that i think im the one obsessed now, she has her stuff too and i understand she wanna spend time with herself too.

For example yesterday i waited her for 3 hours when she was sleeping (she didnt tell me), and yesterday i didnt even decided to go to swim a bit in the beach and i dinner so fast just to talk with her.

Even now im in holidays and i cannt be so active on my phone, and i start to become so anxious when i think about that i cannt talk with her. Because i keep thinking she may lose feelings of me.

I even sometimes decide to not hang out with my friends only for that, because maybe i could be some minutes with she.

I really need some advices, any kind of help, i will be so grateful.

It is only that i miss her, she probably went to sleep, maybe i should go to sleep too, i really cannt wait to be cuddling and hugging she.

Soy una persona con 19 años de edad, la verdad que muchas veces una chica durante mi adolescencia me llego a llamar muchas veces que era una persona inmadura, simplemente era por algunas bromas que hacía, cuando ella me decía eso yo le decía que era porque estaba en contra de Nicolás Maduro (Mi nombre también es Nicolás), al final cuando acabamos la secundaria me dijo que había madurado bastante y estaba orgullosa de mí.

Bueno, la verdad que lo primero no tiene nada que ver pero me parecía siempre gracioso que me llamará así, ahora en serio, me gustaría saber como podría ser un poco más maduro, porque realmente a veces no me encuentro así.

Cualquier consejo es de ayuda, muchas gracias por leer mi post y espero vuestras respuestas.

El tema es que he visto que hay muchos vídeos de mujeres que dicen que Bellingham es muy guapo y todo eso, el tema es que mi novia me mandó un video diciéndome que le parecía mono/cute ns como se dirá en latam.

El tema es que cuando hice eso decidí hablarlo con ella, y me dijo que pensaba que era gay que por eso le decía eso, y yo le dije que no.

El tema es que ahora veo que le da me gusta a muchos videos de historias de mujeres que dejan a su novio para estar con Bellingham, quizás estoy exagerando mucho, pero ver que mi novia le da me gusta a este tipo de vídeos no sé que me hace pensar sobre esto.

I have been dating her for 8 months, we havent seen eachother irl yet, we have had a plan to met up, she started telling me she would come to my country to celebrate her 18 birthday.

After that i told her that i was planning to go to her city anyways, then she stopped to talk about the plan to come to my city. I have been planing this for months, but then some problems come, and it started to be really difficult to make this.

Later i started to talk with she about this, and she started to put me a lot of rules if i was going to her city, like we should spend most time in a room, because she is scared that her family saw us, later she told me we cannt hang out more late than 21:00 and more rules.

I started to think that maybe it wasnt a great idea, because go to her city was really difficult, and she couldnt move to another city near, then another day in a call she told me that maybe she is so nervous to show up, after that i directly change my view to go there, and i decided not to go, because the only reason im going there it is for she.

I told her i wasnt gonna finally go, and she said thats better, because she hasnt prepared yet and she needs to work out and she is scared of her family.

Then after talk about this, she came with the idea she may come again to my country the last week of october, which tbh it didnt look a good idea because she has school and im with my uni too, but she told me didnt mind it.

Then 2 hours ago after we kinda plan it, she come to text me that she is so sad but she cannt be able to do it, i already know it was impossible, but idk why she insisted she could do it.

I told her i May go to her town again the next year but she told me again that she doesnt want me to go to her city, she preffers to come to my country.

I just feel really lost because she tell me a lot of stuff that she wanna do a lot, but at the end of the day it is only stuff she says she wanna do, she already do that all the time we have been dating and finally she didnt do anything and this week she has been driving me crazy telling me a lot of stuff she wanna do without even think well about it.

Im more afraid she already told me the next year she could come to my country this time for real, but i dont really know what to think about it because idk if i could trust she would do it after all this.

Yo tengo 19 años y ella tiene 18, ella proviene de una familia la cual es muy religiosa, su madre no le deja salir con nadie de su misma religión ni de su mismo país (tenemos una relación a distancia).

El tema no es ese, el tema es que mi novia me dijo que cuando fuera a conocer a su madre, ella iba a hacerme un tipo de pruebas para saber si soy una persona la cual merezca la pena para su hija, y entre estas estaba ayudarle a su madre a terminar de hacer su casa.

Al escuchar esto le dije que entonces me iba a presentar allí como que era un inútil, así su madre no tendría que forzarme a hacer estos trabajos, y entonces ella me dijo muy seria que no hiciera eso o iba a acabar mal.

Le pregunte por qué razón eso iba a pasar y me dijo que estaba hablando por hablar y que no prestará atención, segundos después me dijo que estaba caliente y que le enviara una foto, que seguramente li hizo para esquivar el tema.

Quizás suene que soy un egoísta, pero realmente no quiero tener que ayudar tanto a una casa la cual no estoy bienvenido, y mucho más para hacer el trabajo que sus hermanos y padre no quieren hacer porque son vagos.

Que debería de hacer?

Im a 19M and she is a 18F, we have been dating for 8 months, ik that her family is so conservative, her mom is a very religious pentecostal and she only wants her daughter to date with men for her country and her religion.

My gf told me that the when i go met her mom, she is gonna make me like a "test" to see if im a capable person, which it kinda annoys me, because my gf told me that it is to help her mom if she needs help to do Man work.

After this i told her that then i will show up as an useless person who doesnt know how to do any of these, so she will not force me to do extra work to finish her house, after that she told me that it is not a good idea and i should hear what she say if not stuff could go so wrong.

I decided to ask her why it would be so wrong? And she started to say that she is talking for talk and i shouldnt care it.

After that she told me that she is enough to talk about it and she is horny and she wanted to see my dick, which make me think she did that because she want to avoid the topic.

Im kinda lose about this, maybe i sound egoist but i dont wanna go to help in a house which im not welcomed and even more if it is to do hardwork because his siblings and his dad doesnt wanna do it.

I have already made a plan to met her for the first time, where some friends are gonna come with me to go to her small city, the problem was that one of my friends couldnt come with me and it was kinda late to search for planes and all.

I finally found plane to go to there, the problem was that she lives in a really small city, so after take the plane i needed to wait for 12 hours to be able to take a bus to her place and later i needed to make the bus ride which was 5 hours, i was really thinking to do it, but later i came across with some stuff.

First it was that the trip was kinda expensive because i was gonna be in her city only 1 day and half, later she told me that her mom doesnt allow her to go out later than 21:00 pm, which i didnt like so much because i wanted to be with she a lot of time.

The other problem was that i was gonna need to be all time in a room locked with she, something that maybe for some hours sounds nice, but i would have liked more to take a walk or she show me her city, but a lot of people there knows she, so it was risky to go out.

Then the other day she told me that maybe she wasnt gonna show up if she doesnt feel so comfortable, which it kinda puts me mad because i was gonna make all this to met her and maybe she doesnt show up either.

So considering all this, i think that it is not such a good idea to make this trip yet, because if she could even go to another city so we could be not only inside a room and dont be afraid of anyone knowing her, it would be nicest, but i kinda understand that her mom control her so much and she cannt do really anything about it.

Hopefully the next year she is gonna go to work to Germany and it would be easiest to go there and she will have more freedom too, so it would be easiest to met her, but i kinda feel sad about this, because i was really hyped about it, but everytime i tried it there was another obstacle in the path.

Anyone has any idea how i could fix this error in my Canon printer?

It happens always after try to print something, and it says that i need to contact with Canon because they need to repair it.

We are thinking to buy another printer but i would like to know if this error it is fixable or not, as in i didnt find any video how to fix it.

Thank u so much.

I was thinking to go there only for 1 day and a half, as in i dont really have more time to go there and i wanted just to met her for the first time.

Im kinda afraid for the fact that it is my first time travel alone to another country and taking a plane too, anyways i have already decided that whatever it happens im gonna try to do it, but i kinda feel anxioys about it.

Another thing im afraid it is that i need to lie to my parents about where i am and that im gonna be with some friends, so i gotta find a lie to do this.

For go to her city i need to take a plane and then a 6 hour bus ride to go to her city, so if anyone has any advice how i could relax a bit about this too, it would be so helpful.

Thank u so much for any help, and sorry for my bad english.

Buenas, estoy saliendo con una chica la cual ella es de Rumanía, esto no tiene nada que ver con el tema, pero estuve hablando con ella el otro día y me dijo que tenía pensado irse de su casa recién cumpliera los 18 años por x razones familiares.

El tema es que me asusta un poco eso de que ella se haya planteado tan rápido esto de irse de su casa, me dijo que lo tenía pensado hacer en un mes, y me dijo que el alquiler de la habitación al mes es de 150€ y que ella iba a compaginar ir por la mañana al colegio y después por la tarde irse a trabajar todos los días 4 horas, y me dijo que ganaría 300€ al mes.

El tema es que a eso no le suma los otros gastos, y me dijo que contando eso si conseguía vales de comida en el supermercado podía acabar el mes con 20€ restantes, pero que si nos los conseguía quizás necesitaría hacer horas extras.

Realmente me asusta que ella vaya a vivir en esta situación hasta que ella acabe los estudios que es dentro de 10 meses o algo así, ya sé que es su decisión y todo eso, pero me asusta que planteé irse casi sin ahorros y me asusta que tenga algún imprevisto o algo.

El plan se le ocurrió ayer pero esta anticipando muchas cosas, tampoco le va a decir nada a su madre hasta que se mude, y me dijo que hoy ya fue con su madre para que ella le comprara cosas útiles para cuando se mude sin que ella lo sepa, me dijo que le compró bastantes cosas por lo cual no está mal.

No sé si realmente debería de estar preocupado del tema este o no, tampoco sé cómo es la situación en cuanto a vivienda y trabajo allí, que quizás es el mayor problema.

Gracias por leer mi post, querría saber que pensáis ustedes sobre esto.