u/LavenderLatte29

(For people who became an LPN as a mom with a full-time job)

So im not dumb at all, lol but lately I’ve struggled sometimes with focus and even getting discouraged sometimes. I’m actively working on that though, through therapy, lifestyle changes, trying to build better habits, all of it. I really do want a career for myself more than you could imagine.

I already have caregiving experience, DSP work, I am a RBT. I genuinely enjoy helping people. I truly feel like a LPN could actually be a really good fit for me. I’d be doing the program part-time with night classes right after work, so I know it’ll take discipline and being mentally present.

I guess I just don’t want to bite off more than I can chew, but I also don’t want fear to stop me from trying something that could change my life.
So for people who’ve done LPN school, is it extremely hard, or is it more about consistency, focus, and really wanting it?

Please keep the comments positive and constructive only. I’m genuinely asking for insight, not negativity.

live in a small Southern town, and last year when I took my kid, hardly anyone was doing traditional trick-or-treating. Most families went to the big trunk-or-treat event around the town square instead. That’s pretty much what Halloween has turned into here the last few years, which I understand. I end up, driving a few cities over, where they were doing more door-to-door on a few streets.

Also, do you guys have fall festivals, Halloween festivals, pumpkin patches, or stuff like that for kids and families?

I don’t know why, but as a 30-year-old, I constantly crave the early 2000s. I genuinely wish I could’ve experienced that era as an adult. Life just seemed slower, warmer, more personal, and less overwhelming.

And yes, I know I’m probably romanticizing things a little and life isn’t literally a movie 🙄 I know no place is perfect or magically stuck in 2000 I’m just talking about a feeling/vibe.

Lately I’ve realized I want my 30s to feel like I’m living inside a 2000s romcom or a Norah Jones song 😂. Cozy coffee shops, local bookstores, simple routines, walkable neighborhoods, less overconsumption, less pressure, more actual living.
I know people are calling it “underconsumption” now, but I think I’m just craving a softer, slower lifestyle that feels more human and less modernized/corporate.
So now I’m curious..is there anywhere in the U.S. that still feels like that? A slower-paced, walkable town or city with local stores, older architecture, maybe places that haven’t been fully renovated into the modern gray aesthetic? Somewhere that still has that cozy early-2000s feeling?

I’m considering moving to Ohio next year and wanted honest opinions from people who actually live in or around Dayton. What are the pros and cons? How’s the cost of living, safety, jobs, traffic, schools, and overall quality of life? I’d love to hear real experiences before making a decision.

This may sound like a fairytale, lol but where would you go for a fresh start if you wanted somewhere affordable, diverse, safe, slower-paced, and maybe even a little whimsical?
I currently living in a very rural Southern area, and I just feel completely out of place here. It’s not even only about politics, I just crave more openness, creativity, community, diversity, walkability, local events, bookstores, coffee shops, nature… just more life. I realistically need somewhere affordable on around a $28/hr income, so I know places like Connecticut or Massachusetts probably aren’t realistic for me right now. I’d love a smaller city/town outside a bigger metro, diversity, decent schools, safety and a slower pace without feeling isolated.
I’ve considered Ohio firsthand. But every time I hear something about Ohio is negative EVERY SINGLE TIME… time… ☹️ So then I thought about Virginia, and North Carolina, but it seems like EVERYONE is moving to North Carolina, but I’m open to suggestions. I know nowhere is perfect, but I’m looking for somewhere that feels hopeful and like I can finally breathe.

My daughter, who’s 9 1/2, has the opportunity to go to summer camp for 30 days this summer. My INSTANT reaction was Hell no!!!! Because the thought of her being away that long honestly makes me nervous and scared. Especially with me not present. A family friend had offered it, because her children are going, but it’s hours away. They will be spending two weeks at the camp and then two weeks at the family friends home with her children But she’s so upset because she really wants to go, and now I’m torn. If you’ve ever been through this with your child, how did you handle it?

Prefer smaller towns & not big cities or busy/expensive areas. What are some places that you would suggest to someone in their 30s?

I know this isn’t the “typical” way to do things but I’m putting it out there anyway. I’ve always had my own place, so this isn’t something I desperately have to do but with how expensive everything is right now, I’m trying to be smart about how I move. I was fully prepared to do this on my own, but I started thinking about better, more strategic ways to maybe GET AHEAD and this idea made sense.

And before anyone jumps in: yes, I’m aware of safety. I’ll be taking precautions, properly vetting, and not meeting just anybody. My daughter’s safety comes first nd always. So no need for the “this is dangerous” comments.
I’m 29, divorced single mom, and I’m ready for a REAL fresh start. Right now, I’m deciding between living just outside of Columbus, Ohio or just outside of Richmond, Virginia. (so I will post in both)
A quieter, slow pace town or suburb but still close enough to a city to rebuild a social life outside of just being a mom. Because it’s time lol
I would like to room with another single mom (with one child around my daughter’s age 9) who might be open to teaming up for about a year.
The goal is: split a 3 or 4 bedroom, save money, get ahead, and build stability.
If we become great friends, that’s amazing, but if not that’s fine too, but I do value our support for each other. It’s important that we both still have our own lives, routines, and space while creating a peaceful home.
RESPECT & RESPONSIBILITY IS MUST! Not looking for anyone who likes to party and have people in and out their home.
Our kids are at a good age where they’re gaining independence, but still young enough where this setup makes sense before the teenage years hit.
If this sounds like something you’ve been thinking about too, message me and let’s see if it could be a good fit 😊😊
Also, if you know any other places that I could post this besides places like Facebook, please share lol

I know this isn’t the “typical” way to do things but I’m putting it out there anyway. I’ve always had my own place, so this isn’t something I desperately have to do but with how expensive everything is right now, I’m trying to be smart about how I move. I was fully prepared to do this on my own, but I started thinking about better, more strategic ways to maybe GET AHEAD and this idea made sense.

And before anyone jumps in: yes, I’m aware of safety. I’ll be taking precautions, properly vetting, and not meeting just anybody. My daughter’s safety comes first nd always. So no need for the “this is dangerous” comments.
I’m 29, divorced single mom, and I’m ready for a REAL fresh start. Right now, I’m deciding between living just outside of Columbus, Ohio or just outside of Richmond, Virginia. (so I will post in both)
A quieter, slow pace town or suburb but still close enough to a city to rebuild a social life outside of just being a mom. Because it’s time lol
I would like to room with another single mom (with one child around my daughter’s age 9) who might be open to teaming up for about a year.
The goal is: split a 3 or 4 bedroom, save money, get ahead, and build stability.
If we become great friends, that’s amazing, but if not that’s fine too, but I do value our support for each other. It’s important that we both still have our own lives, routines, and space while creating a peaceful home.
RESPECT & RESPONSIBILITY IS MUST! Not looking for anyone who likes to party and have people in and out their home.
Our kids are at a good age where they’re gaining independence, but still young enough where this setup makes sense before the teenage years hit.
If this sounds like something you’ve been thinking about too, message me and let’s see if it could be a good fit 😊😊
Also, if you know any other places that I could post this besides places like Facebook, please share lol

I was handed down a 2012 Honda Accord with 189,000 miles. I can tell the previous owner didn’t maintain it the best. It’s still running and driving, and I’m hoping to get a couple more years out of it. I’d also like to take it on a small four-hour road trip next month. What maintenance should I focus on the specific car to keep it in good shape and improve reliability?

I was handed down a 2012 Honda Accord with 189,000 miles. I can tell the previous owner didn’t maintain it the best. It’s still running and driving, and I’m hoping to get a couple more years out of it. I’d also like to take it on a small four-hour road trip next month. What maintenance should I focus on now to keep it in good shape and improve reliability?