30M - EST - Looking to build a long term friendship

Hey there, I recently got a new job so the days I work/go to the gym I'll most likely be available after 8pm EST so hopefully we can find time to talk and play games. I'm a chill and grounded guy. I can be unhinged and like dark humor, but I know when to be mature. I'm the type of guy who likes to check in and get to know someone. I can be quite the yapper as I get to know someone. I can also be a good listener to what ever you need to talk about, so if you want an ear to be lent, I gotchu (Not my left one though, lost a bit of my hearing on it while I was working out).

I like to take my time when it comes to building friendship. I don't like rushing through it, crossing boundaries, make someone uncomfortable, trauma dump out of no where, etc. If something is making either of us uncomfortable, I want us to speak up. Communication goes a long way with me and I don't have mind reading powers lol. I don't mind if you're flirty, I'll be flirty too, match your energy. I don't expect someone to message me right after I message them, we both got lives and priorities. What I want is accountability and attendance. When we say we'll play something, great, let's actually play instead of just flaking and saying nothing. I understand if plans don't work out but it if happens consistently, I'd say we just go our separate ways cause I'm not here to waste time.

I don't expect you to be good when we play games. The only time I'd get mad or annoyed is when someone runs it down on purpose, especially in a competitive game.

The games I play now are:

- Diablo 4.

- BG3 (I'm trying to start a group for this, I want to start fresh on Balanced or the next difficulty. Going through every nook and cranny/dialogue)

- Borderlands 4 (I haven't started this yet since I'm waiting for this to be optimized more

- Apex Legends (Gold rank)

- Lost Ark (Currently 1731 Ilvl)

- League of Legends (Currently Emerald 3 Jungle player but don't mind playing norms/aram mayhem)

- Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex player, I don't mind playing other modes)

- Slay The Spire 2

- I also have a lot of co-op games like Lethal, Split Fiction, It Takes Two, We Were Here, etc.

Other than gaming, I wouldn't mind watching anything on VC or just talking in general.

Please at least 21 years old. ( PS, I'm looking to play with other Koreans (like myself). This is not a requirement nor am I exclusively trying to play with just other Koreans).

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u/LeeRising — 12 hours ago
▲ 21 r/AMBW

30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean, 5'10" with short black hair, dark brown eyes and 190ish pounds. I go to the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a CCA at the USPS. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. As of now, I do live with my parents.

Outside of work you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films. (Like the MCU, Gravity Falls, Adventure Times, Teen Titans, Code Lyoko, Pokemon, FMA Brotherhood, Arcane, Naruto Shippuden, and a lot more)
- Going to the gym.
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.)
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends.
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail).
- Going out and doing activities, like escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I really want to be clear with this, I want to start as friends, MEANING we’re still free to talk to other people. When we’re both ready to start dating, that’s when I’d be committed to you.

When it comes to a relationship, I want to build a healthy one. I want to get to know you at a pace we’re both comfortable with. Communication goes a long way with me so if it ever feels like we’re rushing, I want either of us to speak up. I like to build up intimacy, like holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling. I like the feeling of every step feeling like it was earned. For sex, I don’t mind having it early either, but only if we’re both fully on board and there is trust/communication. The one thing I’ll never rush though is I love you.

Here’s a little bit about me. I’m affectionate, dependable, empathetic, grounded, funny (try to be at least), honest, loyal, open minded, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I like to use all the love languages, depending on the day and time I change what I use. I pay attention to the little things. I can be spontaneous and be the one who plans.

I’ll show you appreciation every single day, giving you random forehead kisses, hugs from behind, saying hey cutie, beautiful, jagiya, gongju or a special nickname. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’ll listen to you (just not on my left side though, partially lost my hearing after not breathing as I was doing PR while I was working out). I’ll match your energy. I’ll be here through the good, the bad and the ugly. I don’t deserve someone if I’m only there for the good times.

What I’m looking for in a partner is someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, has accountability. A gym buddy would be nice and someone who’s active is preferred so we can do activities together. My favorite notification. Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with/exploring new restaurants/cafes. A travel buddy (The furthest I've gone is LA). Preferably someone I can game with and watch videos with, like anime, cartoons, shows, movies, etc.

Together we cuddle on a couch on a rainy day and eat tteokbokki. Bring out our best qualities.  Go shopping, I’ll be your bag holder and enjoy helping you pick stuff that looks good on you. Send each other songs and memes daily. Have deep conversations, even sit together in silence while we do our own things. Savor every moment, even the slow ones. Playfully roast each other, belly laugh (even during intimate moments) till we're crying. Be our true selves around each other without being afraid of being judged. Karaoke in the car (Imma apologize in advance since apparently I’m tone deaf).

For preference, I don’t really have a preference for any race. I’m a pretty big guy, I’d like someone who’s as big or smaller than I am. I don’t mind if you are more muscular than me. 21+ only.

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. Your age, what you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. One lined sentences or just a dry message will be ignored. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I’ll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don’t mind being friends. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard. 

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u/LeeRising — 1 day ago
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30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

When I’m not working, you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.
- Going to the gym.
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.)
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends.
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail).
- Go out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

When it comes to starting a relationship, I want to start as friends. MEANING we’re still free to talk to other people. As we get to know each other more and we’re both ready to start dating, that’s when we’d be committed to each other. I'm looking for a mono slow burn which means getting to know each other at a pace we're both comfortable with. If it feels like we're moving too fast, I want us to speak up, communication goes a long way with me. I want anyone I'm with to feel safe and comfortable. For intimacy, I like to build it. From holding hands, hugs, kissing, all of it earning its place. If the trust and chemistry are genuinely there though, I'm not stiff about the order. Sex included, as long as there's communication, trust and we’re both fully on board, I don’t mind having it earlier. One thing I won't ever rush is "I love you." That one gets said when it's true and earned.

My goal in a relationship is to fall in love when it’s earned. Life is short but I want to spend it with someone who craves deep conversations, even sitting in silence while we do our own things. I want to be able to be ourselves without being afraid of being judged, where we can playfully roast each other, belly laugh (even during intimate moments) till we're crying, cuddle, do goofy things, share the sad moments that are too heavy to carry alone. Savor every moment, even the slow ones. 

Here’s what you can expect from me. I’m affectionate, dependable, empathetic, grounded, honest, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I’m the type of guy who’d try something at least once (DEPENDS ON WHAT IT IS THOUGH). I’ll check in on you because I genuinely want to know how your day was and more about you. When you need space, I’ll give it to you and welcome you back with open arms when you’re ready to come back. If you ever need affirmation or reassurance, I’ll give it to you without ever getting annoyed.

I’ll be your hype man, push you to meet your goals when you need it, be there for you when you need someone to talk to or listen to you. (Not the left side though, partially lost hearing there after pushing for PR while holding my breath). If you want to spill some tea, I will attentively listen. If you want someone to yap at you, I gotchu. I’ll cuddle with you on the couch and eat tteokbokki with you on a rainy day. We can leave plans early just so we can slip into comfortable clothes and just relax together. I’ll appreciate you every single day out loud. Giving you random forehead kisses, hugs from behind, saying hey cutie or beautiful, especially when I see you in your pjs with your hair rolled up in a bun. I’m a sucker for natural beauty and prefer it over make up (of course I always will appreciate it that you do your make up).  I’ll send you songs and memes daily. Be your player two. I’ll match your energy, if you’re freaky I’ll be freaky too. While we go shopping, I’ll be your bag holder and genuinely help pick stuff that looks good on you. I’ll pay attention to the little things.

I’m looking for someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, has accountability. A gym buddy would be nice or someone who’s active is preferred. Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with/exploring new restaurants/cafes. A travel buddy (The furthest I've gone is LA). Preferably someone I can game with and watch videos with, like anime, cartoons, shows, movies, etc.

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.
- Actively seeking attention/validation from others 

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. What you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. If you end up sending one sentence or just a dry message, I’ll most likely ignore it. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I’ll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don’t mind being friends. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard.

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u/LeeRising — 6 days ago
▲ 6 r/AMXFs

30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean, 5'10" with short black hair, dark brown eyes and 190ish pounds. I go to the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a CCA at the USPS. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. As of now, I do live with my parents.

Outside of work you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films. (Like the MCU, Gravity Falls, Adventure Times, Teen Titans, Code Lyoko, Pokemon, FMA Brotherhood, Arcane, Naruto Shippuden, and a lot more)
- Going to the gym.
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.)
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends.
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail).
- Going out and doing activities, like escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I really want to be clear with this, I want to start as friends, MEANING we’re still free to talk to other people. When we’re both ready to start dating, that’s when I’d be committed to you.

When it comes to a relationship, I want to build a healthy one. I want to get to know you at a pace we’re both comfortable with. Communication goes a long way with me so if it ever feels like we’re rushing, I want either of us to speak up. I like to build up intimacy, like holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling. I like the feeling of every step feeling like it was earned. For sex, I don’t mind having it early either, but only if we’re both fully on board and there is trust/communication. The one thing I’ll never rush though is I love you.

Here’s a little bit about me. I’m affectionate, dependable, empathetic, grounded, funny (try to be at least), honest, loyal, open minded, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I like to use all the love languages, depending on the day and time I change what I use. I pay attention to the little things. I can be spontaneous and be the one who plans.

I’ll show you appreciation every single day, giving you random forehead kisses, hugs from behind, saying hey cutie, beautiful, jagiya, gongju or a special nickname. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’ll listen to you (just not on my left side though, partially lost my hearing after not breathing as I was doing PR while I was working out). I’ll match your energy. I’ll be here through the good, the bad and the ugly. I don’t deserve someone if I’m only there for the good times.

What I’m looking for in a partner is someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, has accountability. A gym buddy would be nice and someone who’s active is preferred so we can do activities together. My favorite notification. Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with/exploring new restaurants/cafes. A travel buddy (The furthest I've gone is LA). Preferably someone I can game with and watch videos with, like anime, cartoons, shows, movies, etc.

Together we cuddle on a couch on a rainy day and eat tteokbokki. Bring out our best qualities.  Go shopping, I’ll be your bag holder and enjoy helping you pick stuff that looks good on you. Send each other songs and memes daily. Have deep conversations, even sit together in silence while we do our own things. Savor every moment, even the slow ones. Playfully roast each other, belly laugh (even during intimate moments) till we're crying. Be our true selves around each other without being afraid of being judged. Karaoke in the car (Imma apologize in advance since apparently I’m tone deaf).

For preference, I don’t really have a preference for any race. I’m a pretty big guy, I’d like someone who’s as big or smaller than I am. I don’t mind if you are more muscular than me. 21+ only.

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. Your age, what you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. One lined sentences or just a dry message will be ignored. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I’ll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don’t mind being friends. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard. 

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u/LeeRising — 7 days ago

30 [M] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to make a realistic relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

When I’m not working, you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.
- Going to the gym.
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.)
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends.
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail).
- Go out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

When it comes to starting a relationship, I want to start as friends. MEANING we’re still free to talk to other people. As we get to know each other more and we’re both ready to start dating, that’s when we’d be committed to each other. I'm looking for a mono slow burn which means getting to know each other at a pace we're both comfortable with. If it feels like we're moving too fast, I want us to speak up, communication goes a long way with me. I want anyone I'm with to feel safe and comfortable. For intimacy, I like to build it. From holding hands, hugs, kissing, all of it earning its place. If the trust and chemistry are genuinely there though, I'm not stiff about the order. Sex included, as long as there's communication, trust and we’re both fully on board, I don’t mind having it earlier. One thing I won't ever rush is "I love you." That one gets said when it's true and earned.

My goal in a relationship is to fall in love when it’s earned. Life is short but I want to spend it with someone who craves deep conversations, even sitting in silence while we do our own things. I want to be able to be ourselves without being afraid of being judged, where we can playfully roast each other, belly laugh (even during intimate moments) till we're crying, cuddle, do goofy things, share the sad moments that are too heavy to carry alone. Savor every moment, even the slow ones. 

Here’s what you can expect from me. I’m affectionate, dependable, empathetic, grounded, honest, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I’m the type of guy who’d try something at least once (DEPENDS ON WHAT IT IS THOUGH). I’ll check in on you because I genuinely want to know how your day was and more about you. When you need space, I’ll give it to you and welcome you back with open arms when you’re ready to come back. If you ever need affirmation or reassurance, I’ll give it to you without ever getting annoyed.

I’ll be your hype man, push you to meet your goals when you need it, be there for you when you need someone to talk to or listen to you. (Not the left side though, partially lost hearing there after pushing for PR while holding my breath). If you want to spill some tea, I will attentively listen. If you want someone to yap at you, I gotchu. I’ll cuddle with you on the couch and eat tteokbokki with you on a rainy day. We can leave plans early just so we can slip into comfortable clothes and just relax together. I’ll appreciate you every single day out loud. Giving you random forehead kisses, hugs from behind, saying hey cutie or beautiful, especially when I see you in your pjs with your hair rolled up in a bun. I’m a sucker for natural beauty and prefer it over make up (of course I always will appreciate it that you do your make up).  I’ll send you songs and memes daily. Be your player two. I’ll match your energy, if you’re freaky I’ll be freaky too. While we go shopping, I’ll be your bag holder and genuinely help pick stuff that looks good on you. I’ll pay attention to the little things.

I’m looking for someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, has accountability. A gym buddy would be nice or someone who’s active is preferred. Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with/exploring new restaurants/cafes. A travel buddy (The furthest I've gone is LA). Preferably someone I can game with and watch videos with, like anime, cartoons, shows, movies, etc.

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.
- Actively seeking attention/validation from others 

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. What you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. If you end up sending one sentence or just a dry message, I’ll most likely ignore it. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I’ll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don’t mind being friends. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard.

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u/LeeRising — 7 days ago
▲ 0 r/r4r

30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to make long term gaming friends

Hey there, I'm a chill and grounded guy. I can be unhinged and like dark humor, but I know when to be mature. I'm the type of guy who likes to check in and get to know someone. I can be quite the yapper as I get to know someone. I can also be a good listener to what ever you need to talk about, so if you want an ear to be lent, I gotchu (Not my left one though, lost a bit of my hearing on it while I was working out). I recently got a new job so the days I work I'll most likely be available after 6pm EST so hopefully we can find time to talk and play games.

When I play games with people, I don't expect you to be Faker or Shroud lol. You don't have to be good so please don't sweat. Even with competitive games the only reason why I care is when someone runs it down on purpose.

When looking to build a friendship, I like to take my time with it. I don't like rushing through it, crossing boundaries, make someone uncomfortable, trauma dump out of no where, etc. I don't expect someone to message me right after I message them, we both got lives and priorities. What I want is accountability and attendance. When we say we'll play something, great, let's actually play instead of just flaking and saying nothing. I understand if plans don't work out but it if happens consistently, I'd say we just go our separate ways cause I'm not here to waste time.

Outside of games I like to watch shows, movies, videos with other people.

The games I play now are:

- Diablo 4.

- BG3 (I'm trying to start a group for this, I want to start fresh on Balanced or the next difficulty. Going through every nook and cranny/dialogue)

- Borderlands 4 (I haven't started this yet since I'm waiting for this to be optimized more

- Apex Legends (Ranked)

- Lost Ark (Currently 1721 Ilvl)

- League of Legends (Currently Emerald 3 Jungle player but don't mind playing norms/aram mayhem)

- Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex player, I don't mind playing other modes)

- Maplestory (Reboot server)

- Slay The Spire 2

- I also have a lot of co-op games like Lethal, Split Fiction, It Takes Two, We Were Here, etc.

Other than gaming, I wouldn't mind watching anything on VC or just talking in general.

Please atleast 21 years old. ( PS, I'm looking to play with other Koreans (like myself). This is not a requirement nor am I exclusively trying to play with just other Koreans.)>!​!<

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u/LeeRising — 11 days ago
▲ 6 r/AMXFs

30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

When I’m not working, you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics. 
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films. 
- Going to the gym. 
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.) 
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends. 
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail). 
- Go out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to start as friends, we’re still free to talk to other people, and move to dating, then commit fully, when we're both actually ready for that. I'm looking for a slow burn which means getting to know each other at a pace we're both comfortable with. If it feels like we're moving too fast, tell me, communication goes a long way with me. I want anyone I'm with to feel safe and comfortable. Intimacy's the same, I like to build it. From holding hands, hugs, kissing, all of it earning its place. If the trust and chemistry are genuinely there though, I'm not stiff about the order. Sex included, as long as there's communication, trust and we’re both fully on board, I don’t mind having it earlier. One thing I won't ever rush is  "I love you." That one gets said when it's true and earned.

Here’s what you can expect from me. I’m affectionate, dependable, empathetic, grounded, honest, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I’m a type of guy who’d try something at least once (DEPENDS ON WHAT IT IS THOUGH). I’ll check in on you because I genuinely want to know how your day was and more about you. I’ll be your hype man, push you to meet your goals when you need it, be there for you when you need someone to talk to or listen to you. (Not the left side though, partially lost hearing there after a gym mishap.) If you want to spill some tea, I gotchu, and if you want someone to yap at you, I gotchu too. I enjoy having deep conversations and small talks. I’ll sit with you through silence while we do our own thing. When you need space, I’ll give it to you and welcome you back with open arms when you’re ready to come back. I’ll cuddle with you on the couch and eat tteokbokki with you on a rainy day. I’ll send you songs and memes daily. Be your player two. I’ll match your energy, if you’re freaky I’ll be freaky too. While we go shopping, I’ll by yo hag holder and genuinely help picking stuff that look good on you. 

I don't need someone perfect or put together 24/7, if you're ever worried that you might be "emotional baggage", don't be. I don't see it as something that will stop me from wanting to get to know you better, to build a relationship with you. I want to be with my partner through her lowest and her highest, since I don't deserve her if I'm only with her through her highest. If you ever need affirmation or reassurance, I'll give it to you without ever getting annoyed at you. I just want boundaries in place, so if I ever need a breather and need some space, I can show you that I'm coming back. I'm also not looking for someone who has PHDs and is a doctor/lawyer, for someone who looks like Florence Pugh. I'm looking for someone who wants a mono relationship that's a slow burn, someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, and is emotionally mature. A player two would be nice, but if gaming's not your thing, that's alright, same goes for watching shows or videos together. I want someone who pushes me toward my goals, and I'll do the same for them. A gym buddy would be nice and someone who's active (This is just preferred). Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with/exploring new restaurants/cafes. A travel buddy (The furthest I've gone is LA).

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.
- Actively seeking attention/validation from others 

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. What you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. If you end up sending one sentence or just a dry message, I’ll most likely ignore it. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I’ll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don’t mind being friends. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard. 

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u/LeeRising — 15 days ago

30 [M] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to make a realistic relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

When I’m not working, you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics. 
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films. 
- Going to the gym. 
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.) 
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends. 
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail). 
- Go out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to start as friends, we’re still free to talk to other people, and move to dating, then commit fully, when we're both actually ready for that. I'm looking for a slow burn which means getting to know each other at a pace we're both comfortable with. If it feels like we're moving too fast, tell me, communication goes a long way with me. I want anyone I'm with to feel safe and comfortable. Intimacy's the same, I like to build it. From holding hands, hugs, kissing, all of it earning its place. If the trust and chemistry are genuinely there though, I'm not stiff about the order. Sex included, as long as there's communication, trust and we’re both fully on board, I don’t mind having it earlier. One thing I won't ever rush is  "I love you." That one gets said when it's true and earned.

Here’s what you can expect from me. I’m affectionate, dependable, empathetic, grounded, honest, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I’m a type of guy who’d try something at least once (DEPENDS ON WHAT IT IS THOUGH). I’ll check in on you because I genuinely want to know how your day was and more about you. I’ll be your hype man, push you to meet your goals when you need it, be there for you when you need someone to talk to or listen to you. (Not the left side though, partially lost hearing there after a gym mishap.) If you want to spill some tea, I gotchu, and if you want someone to yap at you, I gotchu too. I enjoy having deep conversations and small talks. I’ll sit with you through silence while we do our own thing. When you need space, I’ll give it to you and welcome you back with open arms when you’re ready to come back. I’ll cuddle with you on the couch and eat tteokbokki with you on a rainy day. I’ll send you songs and memes daily. Be your player two. I’ll match your energy, if you’re freaky I’ll be freaky too. While we go shopping, I’ll by yo hag holder and genuinely help picking stuff that look good on you. 

I don't need someone perfect or put together 24/7, if you're ever worried that you might be "emotional baggage", don't be. I don't see it as something that will stop me from wanting to get to know you better, to build a relationship with you. I want to be with my partner through her lowest and her highest, since I don't deserve her if I'm only with her through her highest. If you ever need affirmation or reassurance, I'll give it to you without ever getting annoyed at you. I just want boundaries in place, so if I ever need a breather and need some space, I can show you that I'm coming back. I'm also not looking for someone who has PHDs and is a doctor/lawyer, for someone who looks like Florence Pugh. I'm looking for someone who wants a mono relationship that's a slow burn, someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, and is emotionally mature. A player two would be nice, but if gaming's not your thing, that's alright, same goes for watching shows or videos together. I want someone who pushes me toward my goals, and I'll do the same for them. A gym buddy would be nice and someone who's active (This is just preferred). Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with/exploring new restaurants/cafes. A travel buddy (The furthest I've gone is LA).

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.
- Actively seeking attention/validation from others 

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. What you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. If you end up sending one sentence or just a dry message, I’ll most likely ignore it. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I’ll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don’t mind being friends. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard. 

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u/LeeRising — 15 days ago
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30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to make long term non/gaming friends

Hey there, I recently got a new job so the days I work I'll most likely be available after 6pm EST so hopefully we can find time to talk and play games. I'm a chill and grounded guy. I can be unhinged and like dark humor, but I know when to be mature. I'm the type of guy who likes to check in and get to know someone. I can be quite the yapper as I get to know someone. I can also be a good listener to what ever you need to talk about, so if you want an ear to be lent, I gotchu (Not my left one though, lost a bit of my hearing on it while I was working out).

When I play games with people, I don't expect them to be Faker or Shroud, you can not be experienced or not just be "good" I don't mind lol, the only time I "care" is when I play competitive and want to win. But even then I'd not be mad if someone isn't doing well, only if they run it down on purpose.

When looking to build a friendship, I like to take my time with it. I don't like rushing through it, crossing boundaries, make someone uncomfortable, trauma dump out of no where, etc. I don't expect someone to message me right after I message them, we both got lives and priorities. What I want is accountability and attendance. When we say we'll play something, great, let's actually play instead of just flaking and saying nothing. I understand if plans don't work out but it if happens consistently, I'd say we just go our separate ways cause I'm not here to waste time.

The games I play now are:

- Diablo 4.

- BG3 (I'm trying to start a group for this, I want to start fresh on Balanced or the next difficulty. Going through every nook and cranny/dialogue)

- Borderlands 4 (I haven't started this yet since I'm waiting for this to be optimized more

- Apex Legends

- Lost Ark (Currently 1706 Ilvl)

- League of Legends (Currently Emerald 3 Jungle player but don't mind playing norms/aram mayhem)

- Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex player, I don't mind playing other modes)

- Maplestory (Reboot server)

- Slay The Spire 2

- I also have a lot of co-op games like Lethal, Split Fiction, It Takes Two, We Were Here, etc.

Other than gaming, I wouldn't mind watching anything on VC or just talking in general.

Please atleast 21 years old. ( PS, I'm looking to play with other Koreans (like myself). This is not a requirement nor am I exclusively trying to play with just other Koreans.)

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u/LeeRising — 18 days ago

30 [M] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to make a realistic relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

* Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

* Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

* ⁠Going to the gym.

* ⁠Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

* Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

* Hanging out with friends.

* Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

* Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

* I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

* I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

* ⁠I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

* I'll communicate with you

* ⁠I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

* ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles.

* If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

* ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

* ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

* I’ll send you songs and memes.

* I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

* I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

* ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who communicates.

* ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

* ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

* Someone who’s emotionally mature.

* ⁠Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

* ⁠Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

* ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

* ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

* ⁠Lack of communication.

* ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

* ⁠Cheating.

* ⁠Lack of accountability.

* Flaking.

I will not be replying to any dry messages. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 27 days ago
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30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

* Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

* Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

* ⁠Going to the gym.

* ⁠Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

* Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

* Hanging out with friends.

* Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

* Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right and a little spanking here and there. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

* I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

* I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

* ⁠I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

* I'll communicate with you

* ⁠I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

* ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles, and playful intimacy like spanking.

* If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

* ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

* ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

* I’ll send you songs and memes.

* I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

* I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

* ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who communicates.

* ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

* ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

* Someone who’s emotionally mature.

* ⁠Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

* ⁠Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

* ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

* ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

* ⁠Lack of communication.

* ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

* ⁠Cheating.

* ⁠Lack of accountability.

* Flaking.

I will not be replying to any dry messages. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 27 days ago

30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

* Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

* Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

* ⁠Going to the gym.

* ⁠Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

* Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

* Hanging out with friends.

* Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

* Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

* I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

* I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

* ⁠I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

* I'll communicate with you

* ⁠I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

* ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles.

* If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

* ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

* ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

* I’ll send you songs and memes.

* I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

* I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

* ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who communicates.

* ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

* ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

* Someone who’s emotionally mature.

* ⁠Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

* ⁠Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

* ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

* ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

* ⁠Lack of communication.

* ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

* ⁠Cheating.

* ⁠Lack of accountability.

* Flaking.

I will not be replying to any dry messages. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 27 days ago
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30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

* Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

* Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

* ⁠Going to the gym.

* ⁠Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

* Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

* Hanging out with friends.

* Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

* Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

* I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

* I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

* ⁠I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

* I'll communicate with you

* ⁠I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

* ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles.

* If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

* ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

* ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

* I’ll send you songs and memes.

* I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

* I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

* ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who communicates.

* ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

* ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

* Someone who’s emotionally mature.

* ⁠Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

* ⁠Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

* ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

* ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

* ⁠Lack of communication.

* ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

* ⁠Cheating.

* ⁠Lack of accountability.

* Flaking.

I will not be replying to any dry messages. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 27 days ago
▲ 8 r/AMXFs

30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

* Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

* Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

* ⁠Going to the gym.

* ⁠Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

* Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

* Hanging out with friends.

* Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

* Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right and a little spanking here and there. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

* I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

* I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

* ⁠I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

* I'll communicate with you

* ⁠I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

* ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles, and playful intimacy like spanking.

* If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

* ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

* ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

* I’ll send you songs and memes.

* I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

* I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

* ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who communicates.

* ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

* ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

* Someone who’s emotionally mature.

* ⁠Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

* ⁠Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

* ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

* ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

* ⁠Lack of communication.

* ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

* ⁠Cheating.

* ⁠Lack of accountability.

* Flaking.

I will not be replying to any dry messages. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 1 month ago

30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

- Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

- Going to the gym.

- Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

- Hanging out with friends.

- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

- Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right and a little spanking here and there. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

- I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

- I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

- I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

- I'll communicate with you.

- I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

- ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles, and playful intimacy like spanking.

- If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening.

- If you need someone to listen to you, I'll lend an ear and be attentive. Not my left one though, that one was damaged after going to the gym so I can't hear that well out of it.

- ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

- ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

- I’ll send you songs and memes.

- I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

- I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

- ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

- ⁠Someone who communicates.

- ⁠Preferably someone who is active and/or goes to the gym.

- ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

- Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

- Someone who’s emotionally mature.

- Someone who's looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

- Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

- ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

- ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

- Lack of communication.

- ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

- ⁠Cheating.

- ⁠Lack of accountability.

- Flaking.

I will not be replying to any messages with no effort. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 1 month ago
▲ 1 r/r4r

30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

* Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

* Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

* ⁠Going to the gym.

* ⁠Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

* Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

* Hanging out with friends.

* Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

* Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right and a little spanking here and there. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

* I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

* I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

* ⁠I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

* I'll communicate with you

* ⁠I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

* ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles, and playful intimacy like spanking.

* If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

* ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

* ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

* I’ll send you songs and memes.

* I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

* I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

* ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who communicates.

* ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

* ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

* Someone who’s emotionally mature.

* ⁠Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

* ⁠Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

* ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

* ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

* ⁠Lack of communication.

* ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

* ⁠Cheating.

* ⁠Lack of accountability.

* Flaking.

I will not be replying to any dry messages. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 1 month ago

30 [M] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to make a realistic relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

- Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

- Going to the gym.

- Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

- Hanging out with friends.

- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

- Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right and a little spanking here and there. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

- I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

- I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

- I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

- I'll communicate with you

- I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

- ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles, and playful intimacy like spanking.

- If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

- ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

- ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

- I’ll send you songs and memes.

- I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

- I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

- ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

- ⁠Someone who communicates.

- ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

- ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

- Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

- Someone who’s emotionally mature.

- Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

- Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

- ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

- ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

- Lack of communication.

- ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

- ⁠Cheating.

- ⁠Lack of accountability.

- Flaking.

I will not be replying to any messages that have no effort. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 1 month ago
▲ 22 r/AMBW

30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

* Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

* Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

* ⁠Going to the gym.

* ⁠Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

* Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

* Hanging out with friends.

* Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

* Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right and a little spanking here and there. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

* I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

* I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

* ⁠I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

* I'll communicate with you

* ⁠I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

* ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles, and playful intimacy like spanking.

* If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

* ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

* ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

* I’ll send you songs and memes.

* I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

* I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

* ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who communicates.

* ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

* ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

* Someone who’s emotionally mature.

* ⁠Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

* ⁠Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

* ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

* ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

* ⁠Lack of communication.

* ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

* ⁠Cheating.

* ⁠Lack of accountability.

* Flaking.

I will not be replying to any dry messages. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 2 months ago

30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - INFJ Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

* Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

* Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

* ⁠Going to the gym.

* ⁠Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

* Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

* Hanging out with friends.

* Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

* Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right and a little spanking here and there. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

* I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

* I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

* ⁠I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

* I'll communicate with you

* ⁠I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

* ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles, and playful intimacy like spanking.

* If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

* ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

* ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

* I’ll send you songs and memes.

* I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

* I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

* ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who communicates.

* ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

* ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

* Someone who’s emotionally mature.

* ⁠Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

* ⁠Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

* ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

* ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

* ⁠Lack of communication.

* ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

* ⁠Cheating.

* ⁠Lack of accountability.

* Flaking.

I will not be replying to any dry messages. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 2 months ago

30 [M] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to make a realistic relationship

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

- Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

- Going to the gym.

- Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

- Hanging out with friends.

- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

- Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right and a little spanking here and there. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

- I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

- I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

- I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

- I'll communicate with you

- I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

- ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles, and playful intimacy like spanking.

- If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

- ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

- ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

- I’ll send you songs and memes.

- I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

- I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

- ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

- ⁠Someone who communicates.

- ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

- ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

- Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

- Someone who’s emotionally mature.

- Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

- Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

- ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

- ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

- Lack of communication.

- ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

- ⁠Cheating.

- ⁠Lack of accountability.

- Flaking.

I will not be replying to any messages that have no effort. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

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u/LeeRising — 2 months ago