u/Lee_Lee_and_Lee

Me and and girlfriend have been heavy smokers for a while and we have been dating for just over a year. We also live together. I have quit smoking a few months ago and my smell and taste is back.

We bonded over smoking a pack a day, smoking in bed, in the car, everywhere.

My girlfriend still smokes heavily and I hate that I can't stand her cigarette breath. She said she plans on never quitting smoking.

I ask her to brush her teeth and it smells like a mix of cigarettes and toothpaste. I tell her to brush a little better and yet the smell is still there.

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I have told her her breath doesnt smell good when we try and get intimate and she retracts and gets sad and doesnt feel sexy anymore. I compliment her and tell her she's beautiful and sexy, I feel awful commenting on her breath.

Its gotten to the point that I have stopped kissing her frequently having sex frequently

I feel like a dick but Im also growing impatient, suddenly smell is a supper important thing for me when it comes to attraction.

I dont know what else to do, she's so sweet and kind and beautiful and i feel so safe around her.

We used to have such amazing sex, but my body just closes up now I dont like her smell.

Its every day. I know I'm meant to be strong and pave the way for the younger women STEM.

But I'm so tired of being belittled and treated like I know nothing because I'm the only woman in the room.

I'm not writing this to have a dig at men I'm just asking if any other women out there feel the same... just exhausted of old fashioned thinking and values.

Would love to dive into something like that, thank u very much <3

With everyone I've slept with, I get so wet and turned on when I give and take charge. Literally my fav past time is eating pussy and wearing the strap.

But my partner wants to give too and so sometimes I receive, but have to fake how good it feels (ik i shouldn't do that but the sooner I orgasm the sooner can get back to pleasuring her :3 ).

This honestly doesn't bother me, I just want to know if there are any others out there that only want to give?!

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There's a bit of a lull right now with the amount of work I have. I cant open reddit because on my computer it doesn't look like work it looks like reddit. But as a transmission engineer I have to use Google maps pro a lot and look at the street view, so this is more believable. I love looking at every corner of the world and have found some funny street views.

Any advice on other things I could do to pass the time?

So I call myself a lesbian when people ask because it avoids this whole conversation. I'm in an AFAB lesbian relationship. My relationship is open and i date more than AFAB lesbians. I am attracted to others who are trans masc, non-binary, etc. I'd say im attracted to all people, but I only desire intimacy with someone who has a vagina. Thats just the type of intimacy that I enjoy.

I find transwomen (who haven't undergone specific surgeries) so beautiful and attractive, but I just dont want that type of intimacy.

For me it matters what's in between the legs, i dont want to be like this but I guess its how I feel. Im attracted to both masculine and feminine traits so im not a gynosexual.

What would you call this sexuality?

So I call myself a lesbian when people ask because it avoids this whole conversation. I'm in an AFAB lesbian relationship. My relationship is open and i date more than AFAB lesbians. I am attracted to others who are trans masc, non-binary, etc. I'd say im attracted to all people but I just only desire intimacy with someone who has a vagina. Thats just the type of intimacy that I enjoy and desire.

I find transwomen (who haven't undergone specific surgeries) so beautiful and attractive, but I just dont want that type of intimacy.

For me it matters what's in between the legs, i dont want to be like this but I guess its how I feel.

What would you call this sexuality? And am I wrong for feeling this way?