I asked god " Why can't she be mine?"
God replied "She never asked for it"
A very simple line to read but really deep when you start thinking about it!
I asked god " Why can't she be mine?"
God replied "She never asked for it"
A very simple line to read but really deep when you start thinking about it!
Most of my close friends have either moved out of Bangalore or gotten busy with their own lives. The remaining guys are all committed, and somehow I became that one permanently single friend in the group 😂🥲
So yeah, trying my luck here to meet someone genuine.
Not looking for casual stuff or timepass honestly. I’m more interested in meaningful connections — even if it starts with just friendship. I feel good things take time anyway.
I don’t drink or smoke. I’m more into long rides, nature, random cafés, bakeries, trying food spots, late evening drives, walks and runs, and exploring places around Bangalore without much planning.
Would be nice to have someone to share all that with. Could be rides around the city, conversations, finding peaceful places, or just talking regularly after a long day.
If you stay nearby, great. If not, I really don’t mind travelling.
I know this generation likes keeping things casual, but personally I miss the idea of people actually putting effort into knowing each other properly.
No pressure about where things should go. Maybe we become really good friends, maybe it becomes something more later, maybe not. I’m okay either way.
Just looking for someone real.
Most of my close friends have either moved out of Bangalore or gotten busy with their own lives. The remaining guys are all committed, and somehow I became that one permanently single friend in the group 😂🥲
So yeah, trying my luck here to meet someone genuine.
Not looking for casual stuff or timepass honestly. I’m more interested in meaningful connections — even if it starts with just friendship. I feel good things take time anyway.
I don’t drink or smoke. I’m more into long rides, nature, random cafés, bakeries, trying food spots, late evening drives, walks and runs, and exploring places around Bangalore without much planning.
Would be nice to have someone to share all that with. Could be rides around the city, conversations, finding peaceful places, or just talking regularly after a long day.
If you stay nearby, great. If not, I really don’t mind travelling.
I know this generation likes keeping things casual, but personally I miss the idea of people actually putting effort into knowing each other properly.
No pressure about where things should go. Maybe we become really good friends, maybe it becomes something more later, maybe not. I’m okay either way.
Just looking for someone real.
Most of my close friends have either moved out of Bangalore or gotten busy with their own lives. The remaining guys are all committed, and somehow I became that one permanently single friend in the group 😂🥲
So yeah, trying my luck here to meet someone genuine.
Not looking for casual stuff or timepass honestly. I’m more interested in meaningful connections — even if it starts with just friendship. I feel good things take time anyway.
I don’t drink or smoke. I’m more into long rides, nature, random cafés, bakeries, trying food spots, late evening drives, walks and runs, and exploring places around Bangalore without much planning.
Would be nice to have someone to share all that with. Could be rides around the city, conversations, finding peaceful places, or just talking regularly after a long day.
If you stay nearby, great. If not, I really don’t mind travelling.
I know this generation likes keeping things casual, but personally I miss the idea of people actually putting effort into knowing each other properly.
No pressure about where things should go. Maybe we become really good friends, maybe it becomes something more later, maybe not. I’m okay either way.
Just looking for someone real.
I’m basically from Thrissur itself, but I was brought up in a different state since childhood. Because of that, I’ve mostly experienced Thrissur through short yearly visits with parents and cousins, usually covering only the well-known and crowded places.
But this time I’ll be travelling alone, and I really want to explore the other side of Thrissur — the hidden spots, quiet roads, local bakeries, small eateries, peaceful nature spots, places perfect for morning runs or evening walks, and corners of the city that only locals truly know and appreciate.
Thanks in advance!
I genuinely don’t see the point of meaningless dating.
And honestly, marrying a complete stranger sounds even scarier.
If possible, why not spend time understanding each other properly first—how we think, communicate, handle emotions, relationships, and life in general—and then eventually marry when it truly feels right.
That’s the kind of connection I believe in. No rush, no pressure, no casual timepass. Just two people growing into something real together.
About me—I’m simple, grounded, and someone who values honesty, transparency, trust, and emotional maturity a lot. A little reserved initially, but once I’m comfortable, I’m actually quite talkative and a good listener too.
Life’s stable—career’s going well, been working for the last 4 years, and slowly getting back to my gym phase after an accident last year.
Weekends are usually simple—exploring places, cooking with friends, long conversations, or just spending quality time with people I genuinely care about.
Also, full-time idli hater but complete dosa fan 😄
Looking to meet someone around my age (preferably from Kerala, Christian)—someone educated, emotionally aware, and with a similar outlook towards life, relationships, family, love, and trust.
Not expecting perfection, just someone genuine with whom things feel peaceful and effortless over time.
If this resonates, tell me something about yourself—not just a “hi.” 🙂
I genuinely don’t see the point of meaningless dating.
And honestly, marrying a complete stranger sounds even scarier.
If possible, why not spend time understanding each other properly first—how we think, communicate, handle emotions, relationships, and life in general—and then eventually marry when it truly feels right.
That’s the kind of connection I believe in. No rush, no pressure, no casual timepass. Just two people growing into something real together.
About me—I’m simple, grounded, and someone who values honesty, transparency, trust, and emotional maturity a lot. A little reserved initially, but once I’m comfortable, I’m actually quite talkative and a good listener too.
Life’s stable—career’s going well, been working for the last 4 years, and slowly getting back to my gym phase after an accident last year.
Weekends are usually simple—exploring places, cooking with friends, long conversations, or just spending quality time with people I genuinely care about.
Also, full-time idli hater but complete dosa fan 😄
Looking to meet someone around my age (preferably from Kerala, Christian)—someone educated, emotionally aware, and with a similar outlook towards life, relationships, family, love, and trust.
Not expecting perfection, just someone genuine with whom things feel peaceful and effortless over time.
If this resonates, tell me something about yourself—not just a “hi.” 🙂
I genuinely don’t see the point of meaningless dating.
And honestly, marrying a complete stranger sounds even scarier.
If possible, why not spend time understanding each other properly first—how we think, communicate, handle emotions, relationships, and life in general—and then eventually marry when it truly feels right.
That’s the kind of connection I believe in. No rush, no pressure, no casual timepass. Just two people growing into something real together.
About me—I’m simple, grounded, and someone who values honesty, transparency, trust, and emotional maturity a lot. A little reserved initially, but once I’m comfortable, I’m actually quite talkative and a good listener too.
Life’s stable—career’s going well, been working for the last 4 years, and slowly getting back to my gym phase after an accident last year.
Weekends are usually simple—exploring places, cooking with friends, long conversations, or just spending quality time with people I genuinely care about.
Also, full-time idli hater but complete dosa fan 😄
Looking to meet someone around my age (preferably from Kerala, Christian)—someone educated, emotionally aware, and with a similar outlook towards life, relationships, family, love, and trust.
Not expecting perfection, just someone genuine with whom things feel peaceful and effortless over time.
If this resonates, tell me something about yourself—not just a “hi.” 🙂
I genuinely don’t see the point of meaningless dating.
And honestly, marrying a complete stranger sounds even scarier.
If possible, why not spend time understanding each other properly first—how we think, communicate, handle emotions, relationships, and life in general—and then eventually marry when it truly feels right.
That’s the kind of connection I believe in. No rush, no pressure, no casual timepass. Just two people growing into something real together.
About me—I’m simple, grounded, and someone who values honesty, transparency, trust, and emotional maturity a lot. A little reserved initially, but once I’m comfortable, I’m actually quite talkative and a good listener too.
Life’s stable—career’s going well, been working for the last 4 years, and slowly getting back to my gym phase after an accident last year.
Weekends are usually simple—exploring places, cooking with friends, long conversations, or just spending quality time with people I genuinely care about.
Also, full-time idli hater but complete dosa fan 😄
Looking to meet someone around my age (preferably from Kerala, Christian)—someone educated, emotionally aware, and with a similar outlook towards life, relationships, family, love, and trust.
Not expecting perfection, just someone genuine with whom things feel peaceful and effortless over time.
If this resonates, tell me something about yourself—not just a “hi.” 🙂
No offence against anyone, only for laughter
Don’t want this to sound like a template—I’ve written this myself, just cleaned it up a bit using AI!
Simple, grounded, and someone who believes in doing things the right way.
I’ve been in two relationships—one in school, one in college. Both were serious, and even today there’s mutual respect and no bitterness. I don’t believe in dragging things when they don’t work—I prefer clarity and peace over complications.
I can be a bit reserved at first, but I try to make conversations easy from the start. Once I’m comfortable, I’m actually quite talkative. I enjoy good conversations, and I’m someone who genuinely listens too.
Life-wise, things are stable, been working for the last 4 years, career is on track, earning decently. I used to be quite fit (gym 5 days a week), had an accident last year, so still getting back to form slowly.
Weekdays, I like to keep at least a part of my day a little exciting—something to look forward to.
Weekends are either exploring places or staying in with friends. Most times it’s at my place—cooking together, eating, and talking for hours.
I do cook… but only if my iPad and YouTube recipe are right next to me 😄
I value honesty, transparency, and trust a lot—these matter more to me than anything else.
Looking to meet someone around my age (preferably from Kerala, Christian), who’s genuine and looking for something meaningful. Not in a rush to get married, but open to building something that could naturally lead there.
Not a big fan of dating apps, but here to see if something real clicks.
If this resonates, tell me something about yourself in DM!! ✌️
A few days ago, I replied to a random post here.
We spoke for around 12 days. Nothing intense, just normal conversations—likes, dislikes, everyday things.
At some point, she told me she wasn’t feeling a connection.
And honestly, she could’ve just ghosted.
Or slowly disappeared like most people do.
But she didn’t.
She was clear. Straight up. Honest about it.
We still decided to meet once—just to see if maybe things feel different in person.
Yesterday, we met.
I still remember she was wearing a black suit. She looked really nice.
I noticed it, but I didn’t say it. I’m just not that expressive in the moment.
We kept it simple. Went to a lake, had watermelon juice, just walked and talked(she likes walking)!
I even took her to a place I usually keep to myself - a quiet spot from where you can see the whole city.
It felt… easy. Not forced. Not awkward.
And somewhere I thought maybe there’s something here. Not strong, but something.
Later that night, we spoke again.
And she said she still doesn’t feel we’re compatible.
No mixed signals. No confusion. Just clarity.
And I respect that a lot.
She’s genuinely a good person. Grounded. Real.
The kind of person who doesn’t lead you on just for the sake of it.
So today, I sent a proper closure message. Both of us deleted others contact. That’s it.
It’s not heartbreak or anything like that.
Just… one of those things that ends before it even begins.
But yeah—
if there’s one thing I’ll take from this, it’s that honesty like that is rare.
And I’m glad I came across it, even if it didn’t turn into anything.
PS: Took AI's help to polish it a bit, I had written it fully!
Guys—do you get DMs here or just nothing?
Been seeing a lot of matchmaking posts lately. For women, there’s always a lot of upvotes/comments and I’m guessing DMs too.
But for guys, I genuinely can’t tell what happens. Like do you actually get responses or is it just dead?
Curious to know what your experience has been—DMs, conversations, or just nothing at all.
A few days ago, I replied to a random post here.
We spoke for around 12 days. Nothing intense, just normal conversations—likes, dislikes, everyday things.
At some point, she told me she wasn’t feeling a connection.
And honestly, she could’ve just ghosted.
Or slowly disappeared like most people do.
But she didn’t.
She was clear. Straight up. Honest about it.
We still decided to meet once—just to see if maybe things feel different in person.
Yesterday, we met.
I still remember she was wearing a black suit. She looked really nice.
I noticed it, but I didn’t say it. I’m just not that expressive in the moment.
We kept it simple. Went to a lake, had watermelon juice, just walked and talked(she likes walking)!
I even took her to a place I usually keep to myself - a quiet spot from where you can see the whole city.
It felt… easy. Not forced. Not awkward.
And somewhere I thought maybe there’s something here. Not strong, but something.
Later that night, we spoke again.
And she said she still doesn’t feel we’re compatible.
No mixed signals. No confusion. Just clarity.
And I respect that a lot.
She’s genuinely a good person. Grounded. Real.
The kind of person who doesn’t lead you on just for the sake of it.
So today, I sent a proper closure message. Deleted the contact. That’s it.
It’s not heartbreak or anything like that.
Just… one of those things that ends before it even begins.
But yeah—
if there’s one thing I’ll take from this, it’s that honesty like that is rare.
And I’m glad I came across it, even if it didn’t turn into anything.
PS: Took AI's help to polish it a bit, I had written it fully!
I replied to a random post here on a match making or joddi milan sub!
What started as a casual “hey” turned into about 10-12 days of talking—small conversations, bits of personality, fragments of routine.
Nothing intense. No calls. No big moments.
Just consistent, light interaction, everything wss going well, both were like chalu lets try out!
Pata hai aaj kya hua suddenly she said she’s not feeling a connection.
And honestly, I respect that. You either feel it or you don’t.
But here’s what stayed with me—
I showed up.
Not in a dramatic way, not over the top.
Just… present. Open to seeing where something could go, after a long time of not trying at all.
And maybe that’s why it feels a little heavier than it should.
Not because something ended.
But because I don’t even know what it was.
No expectations. No attachment.
Still, a small part of me was curious.
I guess sometimes that’s enough to feel something when it stops.
Nothing deep. Nothing broken.
Just… a quiet reminder that I’m still capable of showing up.
And maybe that’s the point.