u/LegalWeekend3950

I’ve got a prolapse of all my pelvic organs, I’m waiting for surgery, we’ve decided to wait for a while as I have a three year old who still requires lifting up etc and I’m now a single parent. That said, I have problems orgasming since my prolapse I’ve had this since my first child 15 years ago due to a traumatic birth where she came out the wrong way and EDS. I’ve found I can only orgasm from really strong vibrations and anal stimulation 🙈 I’m really embarrassed about this and obviously guys will not understand that it’s not about them why you can’t get off from oral etc and it caused a bit of an issue with my ex as it harmed his ego. I’m starting to think about dating again and wondering if anyone else struggles with this type of problem with their prolapse? I am also on anti depressants what I know can hinder orgasms, but I’ve been on them so long and the psychiatrist I see said that I should still be able to orgasm with enough stimulation and that side effect should be more or less minimal due to the length of time I’ve been on them (15 years).

My daughter has bought her first battle jacket and a shed ton of patches 🥺🖤. She’s placed the patches on with safety pins as to where she wants them sewn. What is the best way to do them? Is there a certain thread/needle size that works best with the patches being quite thick and the denim? This will be my first time doing it! I was going to take it to a tailor, but I’m guessing it could end up pricey with her adding patches regularly 😬 so best learn myself! She wants it done in time for download! TIA 🦇

My daughter has bought her first battle jacket and a shed ton of patches 🥺🖤. She’s placed the patches on with safety pins as to where she wants them sewn. What is the best way to do them? Is there a certain thread/needle size that works best with the patches being quite thick and the denim? This will be my first time doing it! I was going to take it to a tailor, but I’m guessing it could end up pricey with her adding patches regularly 😬 so best learn myself! TIA 🦇

My son (11)was playing with his brother - who is 2. He was rolling around on a round footstool that he’d turned on its side and encouraging the younger one to jump all over him, which means he’ll fall off from a height. I asked him to stop three times, he didn’t listen, but then said he would. I put the stool back up standing and went to place plates in the kitchen after food, when I walk back in he’s leant over the footstool and again encouraging the toddler to jump on his back yet again. I asked him why he was doing it after I asked him not too and the thing and then he gets argumentative saying “why am I moody” (this really winds me up because I only get annoyed after I’ve asked time and time again for them to stop doing something). He then starts talking over me, I’m trying to explain why I didn’t want him doing it incase his brother fell off his back and hurt himself as I’m talking to him he’s going “I’m not listening, I’m not listening) over and over again. I told him to go in his room and read a book and think about how rude it is to tell me he’s not listening to me. He then refuses to move out the living room saying “why” etc, eventually he did go when he realised I wasn’t going to let him dictate to me that he wasn’t in timeout. I know it’s said to not do it, but what other options do we have when we’ve explained something, gave them chance to not do it again? I sent him to his room so I could also have a moment to breathe and not continue the back and forth and being told the only reason I’m being “moody” is because I’m tired.

I am going to look into therapy, but money is tight right now and insurance won’t cover it or work. I was very badly abused by my ex, it worsened in pregnancy and continued until we split. I’d hear horrible things about myself constantly, he’d scream and shout at me, he’d threaten me with our child, he’d storm out, he’d go on drug binges that ended drastically, he got told to leave the ER after I had our son and he was in NICU for being aggressive to me and tons of other things.

I just keep breaking down when I realise how badly I was treated and allowed myself to be treated. I feel like I’m finally processing things 8 months later at what was happening. It kind of come to a head when he asked if we could do something together for our sons 4th birthday and I realised every birthday he’s had, including his birth was tainted by his abuse and this is the first birthday I’ll spend with him not in that situation. I don’t know if this is normal? It’s like I look back at me then like a completely different person I was mentally beaten down and drained, I was just surviving and don’t look back at my sons first years as happy times.

I’m considering a tummy tuck and 360 lipo abroad - either Lithuania or Turkey. However I’ve got a few concerns…

I had a c-section close to three years ago where I bled out and needed a considerable amount of donor blood - obviously with a tummy tuck being in the same area, I’m worried that could happen again and if abroad has access to tested donor blood.

How is flying home after surgery?

What happens with pain relief for after you’ve been discharged? I’m guessing it’s very painful post op so this is also one of my worries!

I absolutely hate my stomach, to the point I won’t wear certain clothes, I’m thin but have access skin on my stomach from pregnancies with excessive waters, weight loss and a c-section pouch, so I constantly have a bulge there and feel conscious of it and won’t wear things I’d love to due to that.

I take elvanse 50mg with a Ritalin IR booster. However I was put up to 70mg to see if the Elvanse worked for longer (it didn’t).

For me when they were too high I had very severe general anxiety, I felt like something had just jumped out and scared me constantly, I felt like I had to be constantly moving to calm myself down, I was getting panic attacks and depersonalisation/realisation. All the good effects of the meds wore off, I’d need to get ready to leave the house, but I’d be absolutely floored by anxiety and get anxious about getting ready. The same with doing things around the house, I just felt pinned by anxiety. My sleep was okay, but the hours the meds were working were very uncomfortable. Obviously with my anxiety being so high I was becoming quite overwhelmed and stimulated a lot easier, it felt very much like being back to taking no meds at all.

Just posting my experience with Elvanse being too high as I see it being asked a bit and I also couldn’t find much info when I was looking!

I’m on 50mg Elvanse in the AM and then 10mg Ritalin top up in the afternoon. I asked to switch to the instant of Elvanse because I don’t like being on two different stimulants and she said there wasn’t one, but I swear that there is? I’m mostly worried because I’m on four different psychiatric meds everyday and I’d rather just take the same thing as we know it works. I don’t know how to go about it?