u/LexxiiConn

What are the best addons for fully managing builds? Gear, skills, CP, etc?

I don't have enough armory slots, and I refuse to buy them at the price considering they're not account-wide, but managing builds is a huge pain. I've tried AlphaGear 2 and ChampionPointsSlots and they're both... okayish.Any better options/combinations?

I'm being encouraged to pursue diagnosis at 35 by friends and my therapist. They have no question I would be diagnosed but I worry it would be a waste of time and money.

That aside, I don't feel like it would help anything. I'm struggling more and more with working due to stress and them constantly changing things in the office that make it impossible to accommodate myself as I have been up until now. (Sharing desks (also horrible because I have OCD and just started a medication that mildly suppresses my immune system), having to take all my personal stuff home including stuff I use to be comfortable ergonomically and because the office is cold and the lights too bright, changing which days I have to go to the office, open office plan). I think the idea is I could get a reasonable accomodation. But I think it's pointless because they're not going to let me have anything that would actually help and I'm just going to make myself stand out. I got a new manager a few months ago, and she's literally a mean girl I went to college with, so the idea of her (or anyone) knowing makes me sick, especially when I don't feel like they would do anything to help.

Those of you who got diagnosed late, has there been any real, tangible benefit from it? Validation in the diagnosis is well and good but not something I feel I need or would be very helpful to me.

I have a simple top loading machine, no impeller. It has no detergent drawers, only a cup on the side for bleach. I bought a downy ball for using with downy rinse and refresh (which I don't like and am going to switch to citric acid as soon as I've used it up). The downy ball doesn't open consistently and is driving me crazy, and even when it does there's often liquid left behind in it (not just water).

Just now I went to swap things to the dryer and found a pair of undies totally drenched and soapy because the downy ball must have opened as the spin cycle was just finishing, so I had to re-rinse the whole load.

Is there a better option for getting something in the rinse cycle in this type of machine?

Location: California

My friend is in an abusive marriage in California, and is in danger. She is disabled/chronically ill, on medication that would be thousands of dollars a month without his insurance, and has no support system in the state or any states nearby. He is extremely controlling and she has not been able to work for the past several years due to illness. No children involved.

She could come live with me (different state, far), but says her lawyer says she basically has to stay until he beats her bad enough to call the cops and win a no contest. He is likely aware of this and will continue to skirt just under the line of doing so. He also has debt from before and during the marriage she is afraid to be liable for. She can't prove his residency due to him having jobs in other states and having no RealID, name and gender changes on drivers license and birth certificate. Even if she could file and then leave immediately, she couldn't afford or physically handle flying back several times during the process.

Anything to be done as far as her being able to file but being able to leave California?

I keep clicking this by accident, and then I can't figure out a way to get rid of the split tab other than closing the whole damn window. How do you close it??? And is there a way to take it out of the right-click menu so I stop clicking it by accident? Or reorder it at least?