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▲ 2 r/WLW

I hate when lesbians say they hate hairy men. Because I’m a hairy woman.🫣

Yes obviously I know everyone is entitled to their opinions lol.

But sometimes it makes me feel like I won’t find a girl because she won’t like that I’m hairy😅.

Between being chronically ill and not giving a ffffuucckkk about the patriarch lol, I never shave my legs or anywhere else.

Except my 🐱 because of hygiene lol.

Anyway I guess I’m wondering if there’s any sapphics who don’t mind body hair🤷‍♀️

Edit: Thank you everyone!🥹 I feel a lot better now.

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u/LoverOfMusic711 — 20 hours ago
▲ 0 r/WLW

WLW jewelry?

I live in the Bible Belt so it’s very conservative and very Christian here. I want a subtle and safe way to let other sapphics know that I’m one of them. I thought about getting a double venus necklace but don’t want to exclude non binary people. I havent found anything besides that that isn’t lesbian. And I havent fully figured myself out yet so I don’t want to get something lesbian if I’m technically not.

Any suggestions? Thanks in advance!

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u/LoverOfMusic711 — 5 days ago
▲ 18 r/Deconstruction

I posted this in a Christian group and thought I’d share it here as well.

TW: gRape and ab\*se. although it’s all in the Bible. I’ll refer to these as R&A

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8gThw6p/

This has honestly been on my mind for a long time and has played a big part in me wanting to deconstruct.

About a year ago at this point I did what all christians, who want to get closer to God do and decided to read the whole Bible. I started in genesis as I had already went through the gospels and a couple other NT books right before. I HATED IT. I cried every time I listened to it. R&A after R&A. So much war, hate, and bloodshed and a lot of it in the name of God.

The way men treat women since the “first family” makes my blood boil. And I’m sure a lot of people, especially women, can relate to R being a very hard thing to hear about.

Even in the stories we are told to look up to, it’s all just horrible.

Telling boys and men to “ Be like David!” Oh you mean the Rper and murder?

And for girls and women we usually get Esther.

Esther was a young woman who was forced to undergo beauty treatments and then forced to merry the king to then be R whenever the king wished it.

Then my mind goes back to Lot… He offered his daughters up like chopped liver to an angry r mob. And then we are supposed to believe that soon after they fled the city. His daughters just so happened to have enough wine to get there dad drunk twice. Each R him one time. And then magically they both get pregnant in one go?. That sounds like a horrible man’s cover up to me.

I love Jesus I do. And I thought I loved my religion. But honestly? I was born into a fear based religion where it’s been “be a Christian or go to hell” my whole life.

Im tired of being terrified. I’m tired of forcing myself to read such horrible stories. And then having to agree to them “or else”. Never being able to ask questions because that is a sin too.

Looking back I see how Christianity has hurt me far more then in has helped me. Especially when you add the facts I’m a woman, queer, and chronically ill physically and mentally. I’m always looked down upon and a “sinner”.

Religion makes me feel trapped, lonely, and terrified.

This God doesn’t seem so loving and chain breaking to me.

I just want to be free.

I guess “Who the son sets free is free indeed” doesn’t work on me.

u/LoverOfMusic711 — 22 days ago