From a devastating drop of 10oz a day to an oversupply. Here’s what worked for me!

From a devastating drop of 10oz a day to an oversupply. Here’s what worked for me!

I wanted to share what personally helped me get my supply back up in case it can help someone else. ❤️

For reference I’m 4 months pp next week. I had the severe supply drop the first week of August and as of the past 2-3 weeks, I’m now averaging 45-50oz a day.

I’ve been dealing with severe breast vasospasms, and they completely tanked my supply. I was originally making around 30–35 oz a day, which was roughly what my baby was eating, and then within just 2–3 days my supply dropped to almost 10 oz a day. It was incredibly stressful and discouraging.

It took me about a month to get my supply back up, and now, after about a month and a half of a lot of hard work, I’m at the highest supply I’ve ever had. I’m currently making around 45–50 oz a day. I completely understand that this is considered an oversupply, but my goal has simply been to make enough for my baby, and this happens to be what I’m making right now as a result of the changes I’ve made.

I wanted to share the things I personally did that seemed to make the biggest difference for me:

🥦 I completely changed my diet. I’ve been eating a lot more whole foods: whole grains, sweet potatoes, broccoli, cauliflower, quinoa, brown rice, chia seed pudding in the morning, and lots of fruits and vegetables. I started eating smaller amounts more frequently, usually having a small meal or snack every 2–3 hours. I also cut out processed/junk food and stopped eating at restaurants and fast food places. If I do eat out, I will order something like salmon with steamed veggies or some grilled chicken and try to not have a lot of oil or butter with it. I’ve cut out most dairy as well, although I still have a little cheese and milk here and there. I totally understand this is overboard, and I’m having to do this specifically for another issue that came on postpartum, but eating super clean has made a huge difference for me!

💧 I increased my water intake significantly. I’m drinking around 15–20 cups of water a day. I know that’s a lot, and I’m definitely not saying everyone needs that much, but personally, it has made a really noticeable difference for me. I carry my water jug everywhere and just sip on it all throughout the day and night when I’m pumping.

💊 I’m not taking any lactation supplements. I haven’t added any supplements or special lactation products.

🍼 I changed how I pump during the day and at night. Originally, I was setting an alarm and forcing myself to pump every 2–3 hours around the clock. It was absolutely exhausting. Instead of focusing on the time and dreading my alarms going off, I’m more focused on baby and her cues. This has also shifted my focus more on her and has allowed me to enjoy her much more! Now, I pump whenever my baby eats. I can usually tell when she’s approaching the 3-hour mark, so I’ll pump either before or after I feed her. I think this is a BIG part of my supply increasing as my body tends to produce more when she’s hungry.

😴 At night, I usually do my last pump around 9:30 PM and set an alarm for about 4.5-5 hours later just in case she doesn’t wake up. But most of the time, I pump when she wakes up, even if it’s sooner than that.

⏰ Originally when I was freshly postpartum, I was pumping on the low settings for about 30 minutes, sometimes more, but now that the spasms have gotten better I pump on level 3 level 70, and number four on level 50 (spectra). This is just what personally works for me and I only have to pump for 15 to 20 minutes before I’m empty! I usually try to stimulate 2-3 letdowns.

This has been a game changer for my sleep, stress levels, and overall sanity. I think the stress and lack of sleep that came with exclusively pumping were affecting me more than I realized.

One other thing I should mention is that some of these dietary and fluid changes were also because I’m dealing with an anal fissure, so I needed to make some changes to my diet and significantly increase my water intake for that reason as well. Interestingly, those changes have also coincided with my milk supply being higher than it has ever been.

These are just the things that personally worked for me, and I know everyone’s body, circumstances, and supply are different. I’m not suggesting that anyone needs to eat or drink exactly like I do or change their pumping schedule based on my experience. I just wanted to share because I know how incredibly discouraging it can be to watch your supply suddenly drop… and want to give up.

I feel like everything is so much more manageable now, both physically and mentally, and I’m incredibly thankful that I’m currently making what my baby needs plus a little extra. Hopefully that means I can eventually stop pumping a little sooner, have some extra milk available for later, or be able to help another baby with my extra milk. ❤️

If you’re struggling right now, I just wanted to share that a huge drop doesn’t necessarily mean you’re stuck there forever. It took me time, consistency, and a lot of trial and error, but I’m so grateful to be where I am now. ❤️ don’t give up!!!

u/Main_Mark8783 — 12 days ago

Please help! Two colorectal specialists have given me completely different opinions.

I’ve been dealing with an anal fissure for almost 3 months. It developed about 3 weeks after childbirth. I’m truly suffering with gut wrenching glass pain every BM and tons of blood. I’ve done conservative treatment with the compound cream, changed my diet, and miralax, water etc.

I’ve now seen two colorectal specialists, and they gave me very different explanations regarding whether childbirth could be related to my fissure.
The first specialist told me that she believes the fissure is likely related to childbirth, that the trauma from childbirth, the tear I had, and ongoing pelvic-floor issues could have contributed to the fissure developing and/or affected my ability to heal from it.

The second specialist told me there is “absolutely no such thing as a fissure being caused from delivery.” His exact words were, “What do you push a baby out of, your anus?” He abruptly dismissed the idea that childbirth could be related to the fissure. I questioned him based off of having hemmoriods from straining and knowing that part of pushing is bearing down and “pretend your pooping”, so it just really confused me when he said that… his response was “research it & you’ll see it’s not related to childbirth”… naturally I responded with “I have. And lots of other moms have said theirs have also come from childbirth”. He proceeded to say that fissures are caused by either trauma or a bad BM.. wouldn’t a vaginal delivery be the definition of trauma? Especially since I pushed in 25 mins and was bearing down the whole time.

The disagreement also came up regarding treatment. The first specialist recommended doing a MRI to potentially see if there’s an abscess, and then trying Botox. She said because of my case she would do Botox “several times before considering LIS”. She specifically said she would be more cautious about doing (LIS) because I’ve given birth and had a tear, and that my risk of incontinence could be higher because of childbirth-related injury/pelvic-floor issues.
The second specialist laughed when I told him that and said there is no increased risk in my situation and that the incontinence risk with LIS is the same for everyone. He also said that Botox is 50/50 success rate.
I’m really interested in hearing from people who have seen colorectal specialists for fissures that developed after childbirth. What did your specialist tell you about the potential relationship between childbirth, pelvic-floor issues/perineal tearing, and fissures? And if you ultimately needed LIS, how did your doctor assess your risk of incontinence?
I’m almost 3 months into this, conservative treatment hasn’t worked, and I’m suffering. I need to make a decision about what to do next, so I’d really appreciate hearing about other people’s experiences and, especially, what their colorectal specialists told them. I’m also breastfeeding (exclusively pumping about 7 cups of liquid a day) so I’m exhausted.

For reference. I have been seeing pelvic floor PT to help with pain that I’ve been having from my tear, and they haven’t been able to help much regarding the fissure.

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u/Main_Mark8783 — 24 days ago

Baby not getting enough at breast

I’m 9 weeks pp. I have had to exclusively pump for seven weeks the severe spasms that were developed from nipple trauma in the first week of nursing. I am now trying to re-introduce breast-feeding and while it’s been difficult and painful, I can tolerate the spasms as long as I apply heat immediately after. However, my supply has dropped drastically from a severe spasm episode two weeks ago. I did also use a nipple shield for a few days with her and I’m not sure how well the milk was transferring so it’s possible that I was leaving milk leftover in my breasts. I’m only producing about 20 ounces a day when it was 42 before. Baby eats at least 30+ ounces. She isn’t satisfied at my breast. She cries and is SO worked up & tries to pull away while she’s on my nipple, but doesn’t let go completely shaking her head back-and-forth… Of course this makes the latch terrible and is very painful so I try to take her off and put her back on. I can’t really hear her swallow And my breasts are staying soft so I don’t even know how much is in there. Whenever I pump, I only get like an ounce or two.
I’ve been seeing all sorts of lactation consultants, and everyone is stumped. I just don’t know how to get my supply back if latching baby is supposed to help with that. I end up having to triple feed which is just exhausting.

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u/Main_Mark8783 — 2 months ago

8 weeks pp - drop in supply - help!

Exclusively pumped 7-8x/day since birth because of severe vasospasms my baby caused within the first week of nursing. With pumping I averaged ~40oz/day. About 8 days ago had a nipple vasospasm flare (on nifedipine trial, discontinued after adverse reaction), followed by engorgement with hard lumps and very little output. I pumped for a few days with continued decline in output, down to about 15-20. Lumps resolved around day 2 of attempting nursing again with a nipple shield.

Since the spasm I've dropped to 6-7 pumps/day with longer stretches (3-4.5 hrs), plus nursing sessions (mostly with a nipple shield, one recent session without). Output has declined steadily — now averaging ~10-20oz/day. Baby needs 28-30oz/day and has clearly been getting less on low days (long nursing sessions, still acts hungry after, low same-day pump totals suggest poor transfer). I have to give her a bottle too but I’m running out of breastmilk.

Breasts have felt soft for 3 days now, no more engorgement/lumps.

**Questions:**
- Is this recoverable at 8 weeks with an 8-day decline, or is it too far gone?
- Anyone dealt with vasospasm tanking supply — did it come back?
- Formula-supplementing while trying to rebuild — anyone done this successfully without losing supply further?
-I realize maybe I should have pumped after nursing with the shield the last few days so I’m just thinking I’ve done too much at this point and maybe I can’t recover 😞

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u/Main_Mark8783 — 2 months ago

Sickness losing supply 😭 one month PP.

I came down with something and have been having 102 fevers, body aches, increased and heavy bleeding, ongoing severe pain from my second degree tear that keeps me from walking (trying to set up an appointment with a specialist). I have seen about 8-9 OB and two hospital visits for the pain from the tear. Right when my fever hit that same day I lost over half my supply. I used to get 2-3 ounces every pump on each side. Now, on my right I get one ounce and about 10 ml on my left. My baby is always hungry so I am devastated and don’t know how to keep up. My breast don’t get engorged like they always have. I have gotten severe vasospasms from BF so I have exclusively pumped for two weeks now. What do I do 😭 It destroys me to think of supplementing.. I just don’t know how to get my supply up. I’ve been trying to eat/drink but I don’t have an appetite so that’s been difficult. I still force it though.

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u/Main_Mark8783 — 3 months ago

3 weeks PP - breastfeeding excruciating shooting pain. Discouraged!!

My baby is 3 weeks old. Breastfeeding has been a struggle from day one — severe pain on latch in the hospital, clogged ducts, and nipples that would turn white and come out "pancake" shaped after a feed. She had a lip tie released about a week ago, and a specialist also noted a possible minor posterior tongue tie (not significant enough to release, since her tongue can lift to the roof of her mouth) — but she has noticeable tension through her mouth, jaw, and body.

The pain *during* the latch has actually improved a lot — I'd say 3/10 now vs. 8-9/10 before, after relatching her over and over and working with a couple of different IBCLCs on positioning.

But here's the part nobody seems to have a clear answer for: after she comes off the breast (even after just 5 minutes), I get shooting, electric, take-your-breath-away pain in my nipples that radiates into my breast. It hits close to 10/10, lasts about 30 seconds at a time, and repeats every 1-2 minutes for about 2 hours straight. After that it settles into a milder throb/ache that can last a full day or two before I feel normal again. Then I feed her again and the whole cycle restarts.

I've read this might be nipple vasospasm (Raynaud's-type), especially given the blanching/pancake shape. I'm reaching out to my OB about possibly trying nifedipine and getting checked for a possible nipple infection too, since I know that can cause similar pain.

Has anyone dealt with this specific pattern — pain that's manageable after the latch but brutal and cyclical for hours afterward? What helped you?

I have another appointment with a new lactation consultant this Thursday, but I’m debating if I should cancel because of the cycle I’m going in with lactation consultants, as well as trying to avoid another setback with the excruciating shooting pains.

I want so badly to keep breastfeeding — my daughter roots for me and tries to latch every time I hold her, and having to turn her down because of the pain has been really hard emotionally. I've been pumping and bottle-feeding in the meantime but worry that's working against us learning to nurse directly. Any advice, similar experiences, or things I should ask my providers about would mean a lot right now.

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u/Main_Mark8783 — 4 months ago

3 weeks PP - breastfeeding excruciating shooting pain. Discouraged!!

My baby is 3 weeks old. Breastfeeding has been a struggle from day one — severe pain on latch in the hospital, clogged ducts, and nipples that would turn white and come out "pancake" shaped after a feed. She had a lip tie released about a week ago, and a specialist also noted a possible minor posterior tongue tie (not significant enough to release, since her tongue can lift to the roof of her mouth) — but she has noticeable tension through her mouth, jaw, and body.

The pain *during* the latch has actually improved a lot — I'd say 3/10 now vs. 8-9/10 before, after relatching her over and over and working with a couple of different IBCLCs on positioning.

But here's the part nobody seems to have a clear answer for: after she comes off the breast (even after just 5 minutes), I get shooting, electric, take-your-breath-away pain in my nipples that radiates into my breast. It hits close to 10/10, lasts about 30 seconds at a time, and repeats every 1-2 minutes for about 2 hours straight. After that it settles into a milder throb/ache that can last a full day or two before I feel normal again. Then I feed her again and the whole cycle restarts.

I've read this might be nipple vasospasm (Raynaud's-type), especially given the blanching/pancake shape. I'm reaching out to my OB about possibly trying nifedipine and getting checked for a possible nipple infection too, since I know that can cause similar pain.

Has anyone dealt with this specific pattern — pain that's manageable during the latch but brutal and cyclical for hours afterward? What helped you? Did a tongue tie revision (even a "minor" one) end up being the missing piece, or was it something else entirely (vasospasm treatment, nipple shields, positioning changes, infection treatment)?

I want so badly to keep breastfeeding — my daughter roots for me and tries to latch every time I hold her, and having to turn her down because of the pain has been really hard emotionally. I've been pumping and bottle-feeding in the meantime but worry that's working against us learning to nurse directly. Any advice, similar experiences, or things I should ask my providers about would mean a lot right now.

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u/Main_Mark8783 — 4 months ago

6 days postpartum — struggling with several things and need help

6 days postpartum — struggling with several things and need help!! In so much pain!!

I’ve been pumping a lot due to convenience and because I’m having difficulty with breast-feeding.

Please help I’m in severe pain and in tears!! FTM, 6 days PPD, combo nursing and pumping. Looking for advice or anyone who’s been through similar.

What’s going on:

  1. Milk bleb on my nipple — yellow/white plugged pore, been there a few days.

  2. Pump pain — i’ve sized my nipples multiple times to 17 and 18mm and google is saying order a flange two sizes bigger so I ordered a 21. I’ve been using the size under and over too and everything is so so painful and I can’t figure out if the sizing is right. already sized my flange but still really painful every session

  3. Hard areas that won’t drain — right breast especially, the outer portions stay rock hard even after a full 20 minute nurse or pump session. Inside drains it seems , outside doesn’t move.

  4. I can only get 1oz or so now. I was getting 2-3 previously (yesterday)

What I’m currently doing:

• Nursing or pumping, 20 min each side

• Warm compresses before sessions

• Silverettes with breast milk between sessions

• Trying to massage

Ice after sessions.

I have an appointment but not for a few days — just trying to get through the next 48 hours without this turning into mastitis. Any IBCLCs or experienced mamas here have advice?

u/Main_Mark8783 — 4 months ago

6 days postpartum — struggling with several things and need help

6 days postpartum — struggling with several things and need help!! In so much pain!!
I’m breastfeeding when I can but primarily pumping for convenience and to be able to get sleep.

Please help I’m in severe pain and in tears!! FTM, 6 days PPD, combo nursing and pumping. Looking for advice or anyone who’s been through similar.

What’s going on:

  1. Milk bleb on my nipples — yellow/white plugged pore, been there a few days.

  2. Pump pain — i’ve sized my nipples multiple times to 17 and 18mm and google is saying order a flange two sizes bigger so I ordered a 21. I’ve been using the size under and over too and everything is so so painful and I can’t figure out if the sizing is right. already sized my flange but still really painful every session

  3. Hard areas that won’t drain — right breast especially, the outer portions stay rock hard even after a full 20 minute nurse or pump session. Inside drains it seems , outside doesn’t move.

  4. I can only get 1oz or so now. I was getting 2-3 previously (yesterday)

Maybe it’s a clogged duct?? I don’t get any relief with pumping or anything!

What I’m currently doing:

• Nursing or pumping, 20 min each side

• Warm compresses before sessions

• Silverettes with breast milk between sessions

• Trying to massage

Ice after sessions.

I have an appointment but not for a few days — just trying to get through the next 48 hours without this turning into mastitis. Any IBCLCs or experienced mamas here have advice?

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u/Main_Mark8783 — 4 months ago

6 days postpartum — struggling with several things and need help

6 days postpartum — struggling with several things and need help!! In so much pain!! I’m doing pumping and breastfeeding. Some sessions don’t work out well for baby so I need to pump too.

Please help I’m in severe pain and in tears!! FTM, 6 days PPD, combo nursing and pumping. Looking for advice or anyone who’s been through similar.

What’s going on:

  1. Milk bleb on my nipples — yellow/white plugged pore, been there a few days.

  2. Pump pain — i’ve sized my nipples multiple times to 17 and 18mm and google is saying order a flange two sizes bigger so I ordered a 21. I’ve been using the size under and over too and everything is so so painful and I can’t figure out if the sizing is right. already sized my flange but still really painful every session

  3. Hard areas that won’t drain — right breast especially, the outer portions stay rock hard even after a full 20 minute nurse or pump session. Inside drains it seems , outside doesn’t move.

  4. I can only get 1oz or so now. I was getting 2-3 previously (yesterday)
    Maybe I have a clogged duct??

What I’m currently doing:

• Nursing or pumping, 20 min each side

• Warm compresses before sessions

• Silverettes with breast milk between sessions

• Trying to massage

Ice after sessions.

I have an appointment but not for a few days — just trying to get through the next 48 hours without this turning into mastitis. Any IBCLCs or experienced mamas here have advice?

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u/Main_Mark8783 — 4 months ago

FTM I need help

I’ve been having to introduce formula through a bottle because baby hasn’t been able to get enough through breast-feeding. Now she’s not really taking to my breast and I think it’s because of the difference and taste as well as the bottle and nipple and maybe even her having to work less with the bottle. I’m starting to feel really discouraged because I want to breast-feed so badly and she was latching and sucking pretty well but again, just not getting enough, which is why I needed to add in formula. I just ordered the even flow Wide neck slow flow to see if that would help. At the end of the day I’m just trying to figure out how I can resort to breast-feeding and what I can do to have her take to my breast because she keeps spitting it out now that we’ve introduced formula and bottles

She did go good when we only did breastfeeding in the beginning again it was just because she wasn’t getting enough and turning yellow.

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u/Main_Mark8783 — 4 months ago
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Feedback appreciated!!

I’m 32 weeks 2 days and I just had one of my OB appointments. Baby is measuring 3 weeks behind. She was measuring around 29 weeks at my last appointment at 30 weeks. She’s been measuring 5 days ahead on all my ultrasounds (with my last one being 18 week anatomy scan) So she’s just not growing? Is anyone else dealing with this or something similar? They are ordering a growth scan ultrasound with maternal fetal medicine…. trying not to worry!! I’ve been having severe low BP issues and low iron so I’m praying that has nothing to do with it.

FTM here with a history of a loss. 🙏🏼💕

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u/Main_Mark8783 — 6 months ago