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Starting to get sick from compassion fatugue

Hey ya’ll so Im a social butterfly, i can easily make friends and i truly enjoy being social. There are days i love being alone too.

But i noticed that by being empathetic and social you meet people who can tell you their whole life story on your first meeting, i mean that is fine but there are some who use you as a free therapist.

Last week was insane there were like 5 people who trauma dumped on me non stop with the same problem everyday.

I stopped answering their calls cause i know my boundaries.

I lost all motivation, i feel lethargic and sick.

How do you deal and recoup back the energy spent by being the listener of an energy vampire?

I feel like i wanna isolate myself for awhile cause some people are draining 🤣

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u/Major-Business7111 — 8 days ago

Globe broadband suddenly became 3 years when i only applied for 2 years.

Did anyone else experience this?

I applied for a globe broadband plan 1299 last sept 2024 with a 2 year contract, i went to one of their branches today to inquire on the specific date my contract will end because it will be this coming september and i am moving abroad this july so i will have no use of it after the contract ends.

The customer care rep told me my contract will end on sept 2027??? Because of my plan 1299 its a promo plan and its good for 3 years. I did not apply for a 3 year plan and im sure its not a promo plan.

I reported it to ntc and globe via email.

Has anyone experienced this? And what did you guys do?

Im so disappointed with globe!!!!!! First the esim, not this.

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u/Major-Business7111 — 4 months ago

Manager keeps telling me to practice and practice, its been 5 years.

Okay, i have this manager he keeps telling me to practice instead of helping me build my career. I made all the connections i have in this industry, booked studio sessions even if my manager told me not to cause he keeps saying i am not ready. The producer and owner of the studio told my manager why is he not booking me gigs as i am obviously capable of shows and i should be doing shows to increase experience and make myself known. I write my own songs, my manager told me to keep writing and he will help me once i have written many many songs, i showed the songs i’ve written to the producer i hired - he loves them and told me i should start making them and releasing them like what the hell am i waiting for.

My manager is well connected to the industry but he has never once helped me. He manages one of the biggest bands and he is my uncle too. I have this burning anger inside me for the past 5 years as i feel i am wasting time practicing for nothing. I’ve been to all the vocal, piano, guitar lessons, i write music, i shoot my own videos, i made my own social media and made myself a following yet still no help from him.

He keeps contradicting my path and keeps telling me he thinks big, but he keeps telling me i have so many competition its hard to be a star.

I told him i dont need to be a star, i need to release music!

How do i deal with this? I am finding a new manager as we speak as i feel like i wasted 5 years of my life waiting for this manager of mine to help me.

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u/Major-Business7111 — 4 months ago

Return asset on Last working day i. Axis one instead of Uptown possible?

Ung nasa return asset ticket kase na nalagay is sa uptown nalagay. Pwede ba sa axis one filinvest nalang ireturn since mas malapit siya saamin since from laguna pa ako?

Ang hassle kase pumunta pa ng uptown para lang mag saoli ng asset.

Thank you so much

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u/Major-Business7111 — 4 months ago

Management and I found out the songwriter who is making us sing his song is using AI.

Management and I was given a song by this new song writer, its a pretty nice song simple and all so we decided to why not create it and add our style.

We asked the writer on how he would want his piece sung and decided on the points to be disbursed since we will be making the composition and all.

He sent a demo which is totally AI. My management and I obviously distinguish AI music a mile away. We asked how he made the demo and said its all AI, but he assured the lyrics is his 100%. We are doubting it now. So we cancelled the deal with him, its unfair on our part that we will be investing heavily on composition, the band, the studio time and all that while he allegedly just used ai to make the song and he wants more than half the points (shares), My management laughed.

Its best to write your own or i guess find true and trusted writers and help bring their vision to life.

How do you deal with the spread of AI music?

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u/Major-Business7111 — 5 months ago

Im tired of cutting! How do i recomp without gaining too much fat?

So i lost 13bs starting last march. I started 146lbs now im down to 133lbs. I wanted to get to 128 to be really ripped but i noticed i dont have much muscle to show.

Current stats: 133lbs, 5’7

I feel small but i wanna get leaner to lose my facial fat more.
Im just sick and tired of cutting.

How long do you guys lean bulk for until you cut? I cant gain much fat cause of the industry i work in. (Entertainment)

u/Major-Business7111 — 5 months ago

So i recorded a song earlier with my producer and a sound engineer, the mixing and mastering is excellent but i feel like my vocal take isn’t good enough even tho the people i was with earlier told me its great and i really should release the song.

How do you deal with over criticality of your work and how do you know when your song/project is good enough for release?

I really dont want to shelve this project again 🤣

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u/Major-Business7111 — 5 months ago