20 [M4M] lf date (into serious one)

huy i just wanna try kung okay ba dito (kung pass edi pass ehe, pm me nalang)

M20 here HAHAHA

About me:

- president lister/first honor

- i love arts and programming

- working student (na related sa interests and program ko)

- body type i think normal lang not fat not skinny

- bedrotter

- introvert

- loves to read stuffs

- idk about my looks pero oks na

- good listener

- yapper

- loves online games

LF:

- around my age sana 19-25 is good

- hindi sana lustful noh...

- nerdy rin sana

- bedrotter tas palagala (so that i can touch grass)

- may goals din

- okay lng ket medj cute or pogi doesn't rlly matter

- understanding

- masc or fem (doesn't really matter)

- top or bottom (doesn't really matter either lolll)

- ket ano dyan basta you're serious HAHA

life so locked in that i had to find a date here sa reddit cuz i know other online dating app sucks and JUST curious here.

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u/Maleficent_Employ944 — 3 days ago
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Am I allowed to be sad or mad sa sarili ko?

Hi M, college student 2nd year na. I can't help but be jealous of my friends whether kung gay sila or straight. Halos lahat sila may mga jowa na and such while me wala pa hahaha kasi its my choice not to find one. May mga nagaapproach naman sakin pero diko talaga keri pumasok sa relationship kasi its either they are lustful, cheater, or may bad intentions.

Naiingit ako kasi pag gumagala kami lahat sila may partner except for me. Kaya minsan i had to fake my stories and such para di ako mahiya sa sarili ko.

Kaya minsan umaalis nalang ako ng maaga sa mga gala kasi out of place ako hahaha. Fantasy ko sana magkaroon ako ng friend or potential boyfriend na pede ko madala para di ako naooutofplace ;(( baka nandito na ata the one ko eme.

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u/Maleficent_Employ944 — 3 days ago
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Should I temporary break up with him because we are too career focused?

Hi i'm M(20) and we are in the same age. We met during the start of f2f classes noong pandemic era, probably g10. Now that we are in 3rd year. 5 years na kami and both legal sa parents. Take note: i am still very in love with him until today

I fell in love with him because we are the same. We are both academic achievers, art person, introverts, and same personality. Our interests are the almost same too!! Im into programming and we are in the same program. The difference is we are not in the same university kasi may iba kaming pangarap. We are also earning money na because we are do commissions para sa dates namin and funds our needs and wants, and other personal stuffs.

Anyway.. Here's the problem.. as i mentioned we are earning money, means we are both freelancers in the world of programming and arts. Also we wanna achieve atleast magna or summa cum laude while working. These past few months until today, we've been talking na we should locked in sa goals namin and take a break muna. I completely agree with it. I feel like he and i are both distracted sa relationship namin because my boyfriend was almost disqualified to achieve his goals because he failed his one test. He assured me na its okay pero deep inside na guguilty ako kasi lagi siya nasa bahay ko because di ako makalabas dahil sa work. Bale siya nag-adjust for me. Dun narin siya natutulog, nagaaral, and nagwowork minsan.

Also to mention, di na ako sumasama or minsan lang ako sumama sa mga gala ng mga bffs ko aside from my boyfriend..Kasi diba boyfriend.. Mga kaibigan ko na sacrifice ko para sa oras na hinahabol ko.

It feels like di kami makapag-grow kasi we are dependent with one another. He knows me very well while he do not even know who he is. Also a friend of mine snitched him that he was ranting to her saying na he is afraid na maghiwalay kami kasi mataas pangarap namin at very busy. Naiiyak ako sa idea na magbreakup muna kami for the meantime, and meet again with one another after we graduate. i agree na life is serious na specially na malapit na kami grumaduate. May capstone pa kami, thesis, and such tapos may work pa. Breaking up means, di kami maguusap palagi, respect sa time, no more meet ups, no more late night calls, and etc. it feels so hard because we need to do this. 5 years na kami in a relationship and i think a 2 year breakup will sound good naman para makilala pa namin isat isa.

Hindi ko alam kung ano gagawin ko kung itutuloy ko pa to or i-continue relationship namin. Natatakot din ako sa idea na makahanap siya ng iba :c ang dami kasing abangers e mapa babae or lalaki (soafer pogi at talino kasi siya HAHA). If he is truly for me, we would wait until we achieved our goals. Diba??

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u/Maleficent_Employ944 — 5 days ago
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Planning to apply Student Visa sa Canada after graduation

Problem/Goal:
I want to apply a student visa and is it still worth it to apply sa Canada? and of course i'm doing this so that i have better future and career na rin. (Soon to be a BSIT college graduate)

I have no connections or relatives sa ibang bansa, and i've been dreaming of migrating na rin sa ibang bansa since i was SHS. The only option left is to study abroad (masteral or 2nd degree), apply a student visa and graduate there in 2 years, then grab an intership/job related to my program ko here in the PH and in Canada, and apply to be a citizen na rin.

Also, hindi pa ako fully educated sa mga ganitong stuff pero i've been reading some articles, stories, and etc. online. I'm graduating na soon!! Meron naman na ako naipon pero it's not enough pa and medj nasa kalahati na rin yung budget ko para maging student doon. (I know na kulang kulang million yung need mo para tumira dun for 2-3 years as a student). And if kung papalarin makapunta sa canada, i think di naman sila strict when it comes to part time jobs (for extra income na rin).

Saka after grad i think mag-work na rin and gain experience here in the Philippines for atleast 2-3 years!!

To the people who have the same goals as mine or may experience na. Let me know kung ano sa tingin niyo if magsettle na lang ako here sa Pilipinas or continue my plans to go abroad.

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u/Maleficent_Employ944 — 7 days ago
▲ 94 r/phlgbt

Natae ako habang pinasukan ako

Naglinis naman ako very carefully and di ako kumain for 5-7 hours and yet HAHHAHAHA this is my most embarrassing moment sino may experience na same sakin? Akala ko nauutot lang talaga ako tas may bumulwak na water with you know huhu..

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u/Maleficent_Employ944 — 7 days ago

First time kong maholdop and it was scary

i recently bought my iphone 17 like 3 months ago and guess what.. naholdop ako hahaha tas tinutukan pa ng kutsilyo. Diko alam thought process ko pero nakipaglaban pa ako, ayun minor injured lang nakuha ko haha. Im 2nd year college and mostly mga college students din na bibiktima ng ganito. I hope our country was safer for all of us and specially sa mga students na gabi na umuwi dahil sa schedules.

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u/Maleficent_Employ944 — 8 days ago

How do i get a Credit Card if student ka na freelancer.

Hello, 2nd year at college hehe. I do not have credit card as well as my parents (because they always pay in full and takot rin sila loll). Right now, i want to get a credit card so that i can upgrade my PC for my work. I don't have play slip to show or proof of payment or whatever since they always pay me in PayPal and Gcash. Please help me huhu i'm really scared to loan. Nahihiya rin ako manghiram ng pera sa parents ko. Also, di ko na kaya makapaghintay kasi bumibigay ng computer ko huhu.

Takot rin ako magapply sa Home Credit and Atome Cards because naghohomevisit daw sila tas may mga harassmment and also malaki raw interest. Please help a college student out C: !!

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u/Maleficent_Employ944 — 8 days ago