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I’m looking for someone (preferably a woman) that can help me with a French interview.
Is there anyone here?

Hi, do you guys have any idea how the assessment is structured with Transperfect?
They need to evaluate that I’m able to speak the language.

Hi,
Has anyone went trough the Transperfect language assessment?
Do you know how it’s structured?

Hi All,
Has anyone went trough the language assessment test with TransParent?
How is it?

Hi all,

Has anyone went through an assessment language test with TransParent?
How it is structured?

Assalam Alaykom wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,
Do you know anyone who follow the salafyah and that does marriage counseling and understand psychology?

Assalam Alaykom wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

Are there any brothers or sisters here that have an attachment issues either fearful avoidant/dismissive or anxious?
How do you deal with it?
What our religion says about this and for those who are trying to heal how you do it?
If you know someone who has this issue, how would you suggest to let them know?

Barak Allahu w feekom

Hi All,
I got married to an FA almost a year and half ago. I did not know what an avoidant attachment was until i got discarder out of nowhere.
The discard itself was pretty brutal and it felt like he was a completely different person.
Now, since then we’ve been separated.
Now it’s been months and months of separation.
We’ve been in no contact for about 5 months, and eventually broke no contact for logistical reason.
No matter how the situation was i offerered to try to work on it but my request was declined and he seemed that he wanted to divorce.
After that brief interaction, months has already passed, and I haven’t heard from him, i see him orbitate around my social from time to time.
I just want to have some sort of communication, but even that feels impossible.
Do you have any suggestions?

Hi All,
Has anyone worked with Concentrix? Or do you know someone who has?
I would like to have some feedback

Assalam Alaykom wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

For the sisters who were married and unfortunately the marriage did not work for whatever reason, how was the process to find a good partner after divorce?

Is it difficult to came across brothers who understood your situation?

Barak Allah w feekom

Assalam Alaykom,
For those who had a marriage with an avoidant, how is it life after divorce?

How was your process to find a new partner? Was it easy to trust a new person?

Also for those Who are still married to an avoidant, do you regret staying in this marriage or things are going better?

Assalam Alaykom,

Sometimes I wonder if true love really exist…
I always imagined that once you find your better half, than you will give and receive love inconditionally. Also, as Muslims marriage is considered a sacred thing in our Deen, but the more I grow up the more I become disappointed.

How can a man promise so much and after marriage completely changes? How can a woman prefer friends over her husband? How can a man leave his wife over text? How can a wife be so materialistic and choose her husband based solely on money?

Idk guys, I’m very hurt not only by my own experience so far, but also from what I read here.

I always imagined a beautiful happy ending, where 2 people fight to have a beautiful family toghether and strive to be good Muslims.

Assalam Alaykom

I’m here asking you guys, how much sabr is enough in order for a person to move on from a marriage?
I know someone very close to me who is left in a limbo for almost 8 months.
They were newly married and had no issue whatsoever, he just left her on a random day.
Long story short he may have avoidant attachment issues.
She was hurt by his words and how he handled everything, and even in such situations she tried her best.
She is definitely the type of woman that every man would want to have as a wife, and I’m not the one saying this (educated, religious and a woman who has always prioritized family over anything) It’s the typical girl an aunty would dream to have as a daughter in law, just to give you an idea.
Their marriage tho, was not arranged but a love marriage. They traveled and enjoyed life in that short amount of time they were together, but he blindsided her and even accused her of not being “enough”, tried to fault finding etc (I do believe he just self projected his own insecurities and fears), and even rewrote the narrative, but even tho those words hurt especially for a woman she stayed patience and tried to save the marriage.
Now it’s been months since they do not live together and I’m just wondering why is he wasting her time or why she doesn’t stood up and finally move on…
I believe in marriage should be so much sabr, but for how long and how much is enough?
Shouldn’t marriage make your life easier and make you feel more fulfilled?

Assalam Alaykom.
I came across a video of a sheikh who is very famous among our ummah. In this video a guy called him asking for advice.
Basically this guy recently married to a girl and after few weeks he found out she has been with other guys before him (she told him that). The guy asked the sheikh if it’s okay if he asks for divorce, as it was one of his dealbreaker is to have someone who did not engage in zina.
The sheikh stated that if she repented, than it’s between her and Allah. Now I understand that, but I also do understand that it’s very difficult for a spouse who has been chaste to face something like this. It’s a test subhn Allah. In any case this is not even the point why I’m writing this post.
What left me kinda confused is that the sheikh stated that in our religion the woman can either be “virgin” or “divorced”, and that every one who repents from past mistakes men or women, it’s between them and Allah.
Now ofc I agree with the fact that everybody can repent and Allah is the Most Merciful, but what I don’t understand is why a woman/man who has committed Zina is compared to a someone who has been chaste and protected themselves or even worse compared to someone who has been divorced and the only interaction who had with the opposite gender was in that short marriage.
Idk guys, am I missing something?
I just can’t understand that point.

Hi,
I’m planning to relocate to Utrecht from another Eu countries. I have a strong academic background and i though to find a job first moving but I’ve realized it’s quite difficult.
Do you have any suggestions?
Anyone who works in the scientific sector could give me some tips?
I thought about moving there forse and then focus on finding a job but not sure how smart this is.
Please let me know in the comments any suggestions or advices.

Assalam Alaykom
Has anyone in the group here went trough a very short marriage?

How was it for you to rebuild yourself and eventually move on with your life?

After how long did you start looking for another potential?

Assalam Alaykom wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu

I’ve saw many post on social media lately where they talk about kifarah/kafarah.
Basically everything you do comes back somehow .

I would genuinely hear any stories about yourself or people you know that were wronged by someone or if they wronged others (dhulm) and the same things returned back.
As Muslim Alhamdolillaah we do believe that every deed bad or good we will be either rewarded or punished if not in this dunya then in the akhira, but it would be nice to just hear some stories.

Another point that I noticed people seem to forget is asking for forgiveness not only to Allah but to people they wronged, and how dangerous it is if the person wronged does not forgive subhn Allah.

Let me know your thoughts Jazak Allahu khayran