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It was full bodied wine 🍷



It was full bodied wine 🍷
De tuinen in onze straat liggen geschrankt, wat wil zeggen dat het achterste stuk van de tuin van onze buren naast ons centrale stuk ligt. Vijf jaar geleden hebben we onze tuin helemaal aangelegd, met een terrasje in het midden om tussen de bomen te kunnen eten.
Vorig jaar hebben onze buren twee grote pony's in hun achtertuin geplaatst, die heel wat geurhinder met zich meebrengen. We kunnen dus niet meer gezellig op ons terrasje eten zonder een snufje pis of drol.
Er is een drietal meter wat nu wild gras is, dat ik kan benutten om struiken, hagen of beplanting te plaatsen die de geur kan bevangen.
Heeft iemand de gouden tip welke planten ik moet plaatsen? We wonen in de Kempen dus arme zandgrond.
Alle tips welkom!
Apparently the person who unloads the kiln was really confused when she opened it
ETA wow thanks so much for all the lovely comments! Many of you wanted to see more so I added some pictures: https://imgur.com/a/BYzu2Lm
JK Rowlings horrible behaviour aside, 11yo me would've thought my stepdad was the coolest.
Love how OP is fighting for her life in the comments, resorting to calling commentors 'silly goose'.
She would think I have a stick up my butt though.
Basically, as the title says. When I'm sitting next to her, am about to give her food or am about to/just stopped petting her. She smacks away. It's really cute.
I assumed it was positive, since these are all good things. But I've looked it up (my mistake, I know) and the internet says all kind of bad things.
She eats normal and her breath smells fine. Well, not fine, just not worse than usual ...
Should I be worried?
Cat tax included!
I work for a very small investment company. I’m the top performer and “star” employee. I’ve always gotten along well with my boss despite his issues..
I work remote but he makes us sit on zoom with him all day. He micromanages to a level I’ve never seen before and he can be quite harsh and rude. But we work so closely together that we’ve always had decent banter and I made enough money that I was satisfied.
A few months ago, my feelings began to change. I noticed how greedy him and this business is. We literally screw over people in desperate situations.. he has even made people homeless.. it really started to weigh on me because I do want to be a good person. We also live in a very grey area and I think we cross the lines into illegal at times. That being said, I still worked hard and outperformed by a lot.
My boss lately has been extra rude and makes lots of little snarky remarks and has been unhinged about us always being available. He calls at all hours any time of the week. He calls on holidays and expects us to always be available. I even had to get my 2 year old tested for cancer so I took the day off and he texted me a bunch of unimportant tasks to do knowing I was at the cancer doctor.. on Mother’s Day my mom was shocked by how much he blew up my phone while at breakfast. He’s been uncontrollable
Anyways, this Saturday I had a non urgent call come in. I was on the treadmill so I muted my phone and said I’ll call later. I get off the treadmill and I see he texted me a snarky response and I snapped.
I wasn’t harsh or disrespectful but I did tell him I cannot always be available and told him that I know he works 24/7 but our situations are very different. He is the owner who makes significant money and I am an employee who makes 75k.
Anyways, today he ripped me to shreds. He screamed at me in a way I’ve never been screamed at. He said I was the most disrespectful and unprofessional person ever who will never be successful in life. He said one of the reasons I will never succeed is because I have a child and several rescue pets and successful people cut out all distractions and since I have them I could never. He said he showed everyone he knows our texts and they all send I was horrible and that I am a rude person.
It was something I’ve never quite experienced and something I never expected. Anyways, he didn’t fire me. Mostly because I would have 1000% filed unemployment and my reason being: “my hourly job demands me to always be working and I’m only paid 40 hours a week” guarantees I’ll get it.
I’m trying to find another job and just work this until I have one but I truly don’t think I can. I can’t even look at him without wanting to cuss him out.
Anyways, here is my text. Please give me your honest feedback, am I the most disrespectful employee ever?
I am not The OOP, OOP is u/clairenviola
My (24f) boyfriend (26m) is a regular poster at a bullying subreddit. After finding out, I've lost all respect for him. What do I do?
TRIGGER WARNING: >!Body shaming, cyberbullying!<
Original Post May 28, 2015
I'll make this simple. I found out my boyfriend is a regular poster on a subreddit dedicated to bullying overweight people. After reading his comments on calling them names, making fun of them, etc, I can't look at him the same anymore.
I used to see him as this handsome, wonderful man. I look at him now and all I see is an ugly, hateful manchild.
For the record -- and not that it would matter, I'm not overweight. I look at him bullying these people and cannot believe he could be so cruel to people who haven't done anything to him. To post pictures and laugh at them and call them names. I know some people might say "What does it matter if it doesn't apply to you?" but a truly good person doesn't treat others in such a manner.
What if we were to have a child who became overweight? What if I was to become overweight? Does he look down at my mother, a mere 10lbs overweight? How do I know he's not harboring hatred for other groups of people?
I love him. Or at least I did, until I saw this side of him. But I don't know what to do. Leave him? Talk to him? Let him know what I found?
tl;dr: Caught BF posting on a bullying subreddit and cannot see him the same anymore.
RELEVANT COMMENTS
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>You are right. Good people don't insult strangers as a hobby. You get to decide what you want to do. Do you want to continue your relationship? Do you think that talking to him about your concerns will change his behavior or how you feel about him?
OOP
>>I don't know if talking about my concerns will change anything. I'll be honest, I really wish that wasn't the case. But I look at him now the way I saw the bullies and mean girls back in grade school -- just awful people inside and out. I'm shocked to see this from him, quite honestly. Shocked.
When a downvoted commenter said maybe the boyfriend is just venting
>I don't honestly believe that there would be any excuse, or reason, to justify bullying people. I don't think it's ever okay to make fun of people, pick on them, post pictures of them to mock them. I don't care what the "reason" is, honestly, it is extremely childish.
Maybe the BF was bullied as a child?
>I don't believe he was bullied, but after this, I don't think it would surprise me to find that he would have been a childhood bully, honestly.
Update June 1, 2015 (4 days later)
The original post is here: http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/37nqjp/my_24f_boyfriend_26m_is_a_regular_poster_at_a/ but for some reason it says it was removed. I don't think I broke any rules.
I took the advice to talk to him, even though I had a hard time working up the nerve to do so. He told me initially that he felt cornered, and that he "never meant" for me to find out about it. He asked me what, specifically I had a problem with, and I explained to him that bullying people online is not a respectable activity for someone to partake in. I let him know that it wasn't the kind of thing I would accept in our relationship, and that if he wanted to keep me, he would have to stop.
He tried to say "oh, everyone does it" and "anonynymity means you can do anything," and "these people don't even know it's happening," and a bunch of other sorry excuses.
I left for the night and let him know that I would be waiting for his response. But I knew based on his reaction and his justifications that our relationship was over. I went back in the morning and sat down with him and explained to him exactly why I was leaving. He tried to stop me and told me that he would stop doing it, but when I said, "How can I trust you, when I know you can just hide the behavior from incognito mode and do it where I won't see?" and he started to blush. I knew this meant he was never intending on stopping.
So as of Sunday morning, I am officially single. I am moving out of the place we share and into my own place today (there were surprisingly a lot of places open). We have agreed to cut off contact and move on with our lives.
But before I removed him from Facebook, I saw his Facebook status.
"You never know when someone in your life will have expectations too high for you to meet. I guess I wasted 2 years of my life on a girl who couldn't deal with me being a normal guy and only wanted Prince Charming."
I think I made the right choice. :) tl;dr: Boyfriend was unapologetic about what he was doing and had no true intention to stop. So I stopped our relationship.
FINAL COMMENTS
ShadowBanHans
>He picked trolling over you. Good riddance.
sleepyhouse
>>May he and his fedora live happily ever after.
THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT THE OOP
DO NOT CONTACT THE OOP's OR COMMENT ON LINKED POSTS, REMEMBER - RULE 7
Onze tuin is een biodivers paradijs en nu de planten enkele jaren gezet zijn, zou ik graag als volgende stap een bijenkorf in onze tuin plaatsen. Zijn er toevallig voorwaarden waar een geschikte tuin aan moet voldoen? En bestaat er een platform dat zoekende imkers aan beschikbare tuinen linkt?
Hi guys, my daughter loves reading and she goes lightning fast. So fast, she doesn't want to wait for translations and thaught herself how to read in English.
Now, we fell in love with the Jane Doe series by Jeremy Lachlan but no Dutch book stores seem to have them. Is someone in the general EU area owner of a copy of Jane Doe and the Quill of All Tales? Possibly even The God of all Hours - and willing to send it to a Benelux post office? That would make her so happy.
Thanks in advance!
Our tortie has been with us for 10 months now, after being caught as a stray and spending a long time in foster care. Nobody wanted to adopt this beautiful creature because she was so scared.
The last month we've been working on her confidence going outside. At first she would get spooked by the wind, a chicken or a loud car. She would go out and then shoot back in with her tail down every few minutes.
It's wonderfull to see her run and play now, she has grown so much. Today she brought her first mouse home. While I'm not thrilled about the fact that there's a dead rodent on the floor, it's ridiculous to see how proud she is. My heart is happy she loves us enough to want to show us her catch.