u/Mammoth_Nose_9313

Any advice for this first date?

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app yesterday, we’ve been texting a lot and we FaceTimed for a lil bit last night. She seems very interested in me. She doesn’t have her license, and lives like an hour away, so she wants me to come over and maybe we watch a movie. She said she wants to kiss, cuddle, and maybe makeout. I’m really not used to a girl saying any of that to me so I’m kinda nervous.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 16 hours ago

How do I plan a date with this girl?

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app. We’ve been texting all day, and FaceTimed. She seems very interested but she lives over an hour away and doesn’t have a license. I’d be fine with driving, I know this is gonna sound stupid, but I have no idea how my parents wouldn’t find out. They don’t know that I have any apps or have ever even been out with any girls. I went out with this other girl and she was like 40 mins away and that still took up a couple hours because of how long the date was. Last time I just told them I was out with friends.

This girl seems like she really likes me though, she already said she’d like to cuddle and kiss. This is very surprising to me because I have only had one kiss, and that was only like a month ago. I really wanna go out with this girl but her not having her license makes it a lot harder. Should I maybe ask if she could get a ride to meet like halfway?

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 1 day ago

If I’ve always been rejected and it seems like no one likes me, should I just expect that every time?

I (M19) have like one friend I talk to a decent amount. I’ve had other friends but they never seem like they actually wanna talk to or be around me. I’ve always been awkward but I try to be nice to people and nothing good ever comes from it. Whenever I would try to text my “friends” they would either never respond or constantly have some reason we couldn’t hang out or anything. No one invites me out anywhere.

When I was in middle school, I had like two friends I talked to, we went to high school together and I still talk to one of them cause he’s my only friend. The other one invited a couple of old friends from middle and high school to hang out, and he never texted me. My friend told me about it, but he never even responded to any of the times I tried to make plans with him. I’ve pretty much had that same luck with most people.

For dating, I somehow have terrible luck. When I was in school, I would always get rejected or ghosted. I’ve been using apps but have only gotten a few dates who all ghosted after the first date. I did get one girl who went on a second date with me, and we kissed, then she said she doesn’t see me as anything more than a friend. Idk what I’m doing wrong, but it seems like no one likes me. I can’t make friends, I can’t go on dates, and it seems like no one would actually date me.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 2 days ago
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This would be my first time ever hitting champ, do I solo the rest?

I’ve played the game since 2019, but I’ve taken a lot of breaks. I hit Diamond 4 one time a couple years ago, then stayed in Emerald when I did play. This season, I’ve been either solo queuing or playing with two of my friends but they’re like peak plat with 0.8-0.9 kds right now. I’m gaining like 19 per match, do I try to solo the rest or play with my friends?

u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 7 days ago

What am I even supposed to do about this?

I’m on console and I’m Diamond 2 right now. This is what I get in like half my games. Our team just got destroyed two times in a row, then my entire team roams. They don’t even get any kills, then just die while I’m trying to watch both sites.

u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 7 days ago

Is it bad that I feel like I have no friends and no one really likes me?

I (M19) have always struggled with making friends. I’m not very outgoing and every time I try to talk to people, I just get ignored. One example is right now. Me and few of my friends have all known each other since middle school. We’re in college now but it’s summer, so I try to make plans. One of my friends is planning on moving to another state and has been there a lot recently but he’s here now. Last time he was here, he made plans with our two other friends and no one said anything to me. This time, apparently he made plans with one of our mutual friends, then two of his other friends. The one mutual friend invited my other friend too.

Now my friend, who got invited by the mutual, told me about it. He was saying maybe I should go but I wasn’t invited. I always try to make plans but people just ignore me. Last time he was here, I tried texting him and he’s still never texted back, it’s been like two months since then. Besides this current situation, I feel like the same crap happens all the time and no one really wants me around.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 8 days ago

Do I have any chance of hitting champ?

I’m currently D3, I was D2 but lost a decent amount of games in a row. I play on PlayStation. I’m almost level 600 and I’ve never hit champ. When I play ranked, I either solo queue or play with my two friends who are like peak plat. When I play with them, they almost always go negative and when I solo, it feels like most of my teammates should be gold-plat. I’m also pretty sure I go against xim a decent amount and almost every game I play is against multiple ex-champs. I just wanna hit champ one time but it feels impossible.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 10 days ago

Do I have any chance of hitting champ?

I’m currently D3, I was D2 but lost a decent amount of games in a row. I play on PlayStation. I’m almost level 600 and I’ve never hit champ. When I play ranked, I either solo queue or play with my two friends who are like peak plat. When I play with them, they almost always go negative and when I solo, it feels like most of my teammates should be gold-plat. I’m also pretty sure I go against xim a decent amount and almost every game I play is against multiple ex-champs. I just wanna hit champ one time but it feels impossible.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 10 days ago

Do I just try to solo ranked?

I’m on console and I’ve made it to D2 so far, this is the highest I’ve ever been. I play with two friends but they’re like peak plat. Once in a while they’ll do good but almost always go negative. I wanna hit champ this season but it feels like I lose when I play with my friends and I lose a decent amount when I solo queue too.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 12 days ago

I’ve been playing on and off since 2019 and have never hit champ, my peak before this season was a couple years ago in Diamond 4 then I kinda stopped playing. I’ve been playing a lot recently and now I’m one game off D2. Sometimes I solo queue and sometimes I play with two of my friends who are like peak plat but still go against champs/ex-champs almost every game. I just wanna hit champ once so I’m wondering if I’m pretty close and if it’s realistic.

u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 15 days ago

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We went out two weeks ago, then went out again this previous weekend. The first date was just at the mall, the second was at a boardwalk. We talked and walked around, then got ice cream and it was like a couple hours total. It was starting to get dark, and she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. She said yes and we held hands then walked more.

We were sitting down at the end of the boardwalk, she said she had to leave soon because she was getting picked up. I was nervous but I decided to ask if I could kiss her. She said yes then we had a very quick kiss. This was my first time ever kissing so I was nervous but thought this was a very good sign. The next day, she texts me saying she had a great time but doesn’t really feel like we go together, or something like that, so she asked if I’d wanna be friends. I didn’t text back. I’m just wondering why this happened.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 17 days ago

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We went out two weeks ago, then went out again this previous weekend. The first date was just at the mall, the second was at a boardwalk. We talked and walked around, then got ice cream and it was like a couple hours total. It was starting to get dark, and she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. She said yes and we held hands then walked more.

We were sitting down at the end of the boardwalk, she said she had to leave soon because she was getting picked up. I was nervous but I decided to ask if I could kiss her. She said yes then we had a very quick kiss. This was my first time ever kissing so I was nervous but thought this was a very good sign. The next day, she texts me saying she had a great time but doesn’t really feel like we go together, or something like that, so she asked if I’d wanna be friends. I didn’t text back. I’m just wondering why this happened.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 17 days ago

I (M19) went out with this girl (F18) on Saturday night. We matched on a dating app, talked for a few weeks, had a first date then this was our second. I offered to pick her up but she said she’d just get dropped off. We went to a boardwalk, walked around, and got some ice cream. I thought things were going very good even though we both seemed a lil bit nervous. I don’t have any dating experience, never kissed, and probably never even held hands romantically.

It was starting to get dark out so she made a joke about it being scary, and I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. This was basically the end of the date but we held hands and walked down to the bottom of the boardwalk to sit for a few mins. We talked a lil more and it seemed like things were still going good. I asked if I could kiss her and she said yes so we had a quick kiss. Idk if me asking was bad and I should’ve just gone for it or what. That’s my first kiss ever.

The next day, she texts me saying she had a great time meeting me and all that but doesn’t feel like we fit together. I’m not sure what I did wrong. She said we could be friends if I wanted, but I didn’t even text her back. I don’t see a point in being friends with her. I’m just confused since we just kissed then she says she doesn’t like me.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 18 days ago

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again on Saturday to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When it started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held hands for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted yesterday saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

Tl;dr: I (M19) went out on two dates with this girl (F18) we even ended up kissing, then she still said she doesn’t see anything more than us being friends.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 19 days ago

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again on Saturday to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When it started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held hands for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted yesterday saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

Tl;dr: I (M19) went out on two dates with this girl (F18) we even ended up kissing, then she still said she doesn’t see anything more than us being friends.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 19 days ago

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again on Saturday to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When it started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held hands for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted yesterday saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 19 days ago

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again last night to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When it started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held hands for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted today saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 20 days ago

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again last night to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When I started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted today saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 20 days ago

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again last night to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When I started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted today saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

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u/Mammoth_Nose_9313 — 20 days ago