I was thinking about this recently, and it’s crazy how many movies make the "hero" look completely blind to what's actually going on. Have you ever watched a movie where the villain has a completely logical point about a real problem like a corrupt system, massive corporate greed, or saving the environment but the hero just beats them up because they want everything to stay exactly the same?
I’m just curious about how people catch feelings. What are the usual reasons you end up liking someone? Is it their personality, looks, kindness, attention, compatibility, or is it mostly because of who they are as a person, or because of the attention, comfort, validation, and emotions they bring into your life?
Is it valid for a guy to say that he can’t spend much on dates or even make small efforts because he only gets a small allowance? I understand financial limitations, but if someone is genuinely pursuing a relationship, shouldn’t they at least make an effort to save up, plan something within their means, or show initiative from time to time? Am I expecting too much, or is effort different from money? I’m mostly the one paying for our dates since I really understand him but idk if this is still okay
My boyfriend just cancelled our date last minute just because his friends invited him over for a drink and he doesn’t know how to say no to them… but what about me?