Parents of toddlers + infants: where would you use 12 weeks of paternity leave? (Florida vs Turks vs Bahamas)
My wife and I are trying to figure out how to best use my paternity leave this year and I’d love advice from people who’ve actually traveled with very young kids.
Context:
- We have a 2 year old
- Our second baby is 3 weeks old today, so he’d probably be around 3–5 months old by the time we travel
- I have 12 weeks of paternity leave total, but can take it in chunks
- We’re thinking 1–2 week trips throughout the year
- Flying out of Philly
- Ideally trying to cap flights around ~3 hours max
- Budget honestly isn’t the biggest concern
- I’ve been to Florida, Turks & Caicos, and the Bahamas many times, so I’m less asking “which place is best?” and more asking “which place is best with a toddler + young infant?”
Right now we keep coming back to:
- Florida
- Turks & Caicos
- Bahamas
What we care about most:
- easiest logistics with little kids
- calm/swimmable beaches
- low stress
- good food/service
- ability to actually relax during naps/early bedtimes
- family-friendly without feeling like a giant screaming theme park
We’re not looking for nightlife or packed itineraries. More like:
morning beach, pool, naps, easy dinners, repeat.
Part of me thinks Florida is the smartest/easiest move with an infant. But another part of me wonders if Turks is worth the extra effort because Grace Bay seems so ideal for kids. Bahamas feels like the middle ground, but I’ve had mixed experiences depending on where you stay.
Would especially love advice from parents who’ve done the toddler + infant stage. If you had the flexibility to do a few 1–2 week trips over a year, where would you go and why?