Anywhere in or around Dallas that is selling a grom?
Looking for a used 2020 or newer (prefer newer) and literally can’t find one anywhere.
Marketplace doesn’t have many options. Super expensive and beat to crap.
Who knows when the stop sale is lifted?? I hear so many different things.
Annoyed af
Okay make this make sense.
The FA avoidant and I have been broken up for over 2 months. We dated for a few months but of course it was intense, loving and there was nothing wrong. Stupidly vulnerable with each other. He left bc of ‘pressure’ and not feeling good enough for it. Sure okay.
He did the breadcrumbing and chaotic phases after, I have been in no contact for a while. I set the boundaries. He’s actually the one who still hearts, comments on socials or randomly texts me if he sees me. Sure, I’m cordial.
I break silence in a text to ask if he’s moving, gives these detailed, kinda vulnerable messages back. Like personal struggles, things I was aware of while we were together.
He drops a few of those messages within the convo. I was expecting simple text back, not depth. I react with a simple caring text, nothing heavy or asking anything. Completely doesn’t read it (read receipts) and it’s almost been 24 hours. Why the hell do FAs vomit all this unnecessary information, just to avoid you after you respond to it? What is that???
Also he’s a content creator, he is constantly talking to other people, so he’s not hiding from the world
If your ex Fearful avoidant ran away from you bc his own limited emotional capacity. Tried breadcrumbing for a few weeks but it didn’t work.
How do they handle you eventually moving on? Like posting things on your own socials bc you know, life does move on for us.
Do they react to it or run further away?
I’ve been in no contact on my side for six weeks. Two months since the break up. The breadcrumbs have stopped from his side almost a few weeks ago. Is it bad to DM, (low risk) and hope that he’s doing good and he’s happy? Without asking any questions.. I still care about him and cutting someone out of my life feels impossible when it was deep.
For context, I’m pretty sure I’m the phantom ex. Will this spook?
Virgo sun, Scorpio moon and rising and I am struggling!!
Emotionally and mentally going through it.
How are you all making it? What are you guys doing to push through right now?? 😭
Why leave someone who was healthy, amazing bond, for no reason. Turn around and go back to a toxic person, spiral bc of your decisions and then breadcrumb the healthy one?? What are you thinking and feeling exactly?
I’m a recovering AA leaning Secure in my actions. I still tend to overthink, and my body shuts down anxiously. But my movements and my action actions are more secure now.
I recently dated a fearful avoidant, didn’t know he was until after. We had a really good few months, best and safest connection I’ve had. He recognized it to bc it was intense but peaceful. We never had anything bad between us. He slowed the physical (we never did) Left with no warning, he just perceived everything one day as pressure. Even though he’s the one that progressed everything like the title and wanting me to meet his family and learn everything about his past. I was always more hesitant but went with it. I didn’t want to rush though and I voiced that. (I was in a DA relationship before and it scarred me) he knew that.
The FA did go through the phases after the discard, but just as he was breadcrumbing and getting closer to talking to me, it’s like he went into this chaotic spin and randomly started seeing his ex/baby mama. The person he left and really seemed indifferent to, over a year prior. This is 6 weeks after he discarded me. Bread crumbing stopped for a few weeks and now he’s liking my stories again, which starts the crumbs.
I’ve done no contact unless he reached out then I’ll be cordial.
Can anyone tell me why? Why back with the ex? Why is he breadcrumbing if he’s moved on? Or is trying to..
for me out of sight out of mind works, but the max he’s gone without reaching out is like a week or two. Why can’t he just leave me alone? He left
I’m a recovering AA leaning Secure in my actions. I still tend to overthink, and my body shuts down anxiously. But my movements and my action actions are more secure now.
I recently dated a fearful avoidant, didn’t know he was until after. We had a really good few months, best and safest connection I’ve had. He recognized it to bc it was intense but peaceful. We never had anything bad between us. He slowed the physical (we never did) Left with no warning, he just perceived everything one day as pressure. Even though he’s the one that progressed everything like the title and wanting me to meet his family and learn everything about his past. I was always more hesitant but went with it. I didn’t want to rush though and I voiced that. (I was in a DA relationship before and it scarred me) he knew that.
The FA did go through the phases after the discard, but just as he was breadcrumbing and getting closer to talking to me, it’s like he went into this chaotic spin and randomly started seeing his ex/baby mama. The person he left and really seemed indifferent to, over a year prior. This is 6 weeks after he discarded me. Bread crumbing stopped for a few weeks and now he’s liking my stories again, which starts the crumbs.
I’ve done no contact unless he reached out then I’ll be cordial.
Can anyone tell me why? Why back with the ex? Why is he breadcrumbing if he’s moved on? Or is trying to..
for me out of sight out of mind works, but the max he’s gone without reaching out is like a week or two. Why can’t he just leave me alone? He left
I’m just learning how to ride a motorcycle and I’m literally obsessed. Can’t stop thinking about it!
I’m really wanting to get a grom but don’t know how to approach it.
I’m gonna get the grom to learn on it, get comfortable and more experienced as much as possible before I get a bigger bike. Eventually gonna get an R3 probably.
There aren’t many used groms in my area, and if there is, they’re the same price pretty much as a brand new one from the dealer. Or there’s a knock off groms, eh
Did everyone buy one outright or did you guys finance?
I can buy one out right, but I don’t know if I wanna drop 4K at a dealer bc of fees. But also financing could put me upside down when I wanna trade it in.
Any thoughts and advice? What did you do?
I’m a recovering AA leaning Secure in my actions. I still tend to overthink, and my body shuts down anxiously. But my movements and my action actions are more secure now.
I recently dated a fearful avoidant, didn’t know he was until after. We had a really good few months, best and safest connection I’ve had. He recognized it to bc Imit was intense but peaceful. We never had anything bad between us. He slowed the physical (we never did) Left with no warning, he just perceived everything one day as pressure. Even though he’s the one that progressed everything like the title and wanting me to meet his family and learn everything about his past. I was always more hesitant but went with it. I didn’t want to rush though and I voiced that. I was in a DA relationship before and it scarred me) he knew that.
The FA did go through the phases after the discard, but just as he was breadcrumbing and getting closer to talking to me, it’s like he went into this chaotic spin and randomly started seeing his ex/baby mama. The person he left and really seemed indifferent to, over a year prior. This is 6 weeks after he discarded me. Bread crumbing stopped for a few weeks and now he’s liking my stories again, which starts the crumbs.
I’ve done no contact unless he reached out then I’ll be cordial.
Can anyone tell me why? Why back with the ex? Why is he breadcrumbing if he’s moved on? Or is trying to..
for me out of sight out of mind works, but the max he’s gone without reaching out is like a week or two. Why can’t he just leave me alone? He left
Looking for camping spots for my dog and I this weekend. I usually camp in my suv, have all the set up but may get a tent because the heat. Any spots within an hour of Dallas? I was looking at Loyd park or Cedar Hill. The water sounds nice.
Suggestions?
Exactly what the description says.. Fearful with someone they fell in love with but can’t get their shit together to keep them. Thoughts and experiences!
Jokes are highly welcome too
Tell me your thoughts or experiences…
We all know Geminis leave when they’re done done, like when there’s lying, cheating, lack of chemistry or boredom but what makes them come back if none of those things existed?
When there was mental stimulation, emotional investment and freedom? 🤔
I’m curious who Gemini’s ended up in love with, married or maybe ‘the one that got away.’ What sign?
I recently dated a 41y Gemini man, and I’m a 37y Virgo. We are both independent and live on our own. (We’re actually neighbors)
We had a very good two months dating. It was something I never experienced intellectually and emotionally before. The intensity was there, but it wasn’t love bombing. It’s like we understood each other without speaking and we clicked in ways I haven’t clicked with somebody in a very long time but also we are very opposite people in our work, hobbies and how we approach things. But very similar in upbringing, personal discernment and future wants. I loved it, it felt like we were yin and yang with really good communication. He’d say, we balanced each other out. We were both all in. He also didn’t want to rush sex bc he ‘didn’t want to mess things up with me.’ We agreed to just let it happen when it was right. We weren’t dating other people. I don’t even know how many times he said ‘you’re different,’ randomly. I felt seen, cared about and he handled my overthinking with calm and, ‘let’s figure this out together.’
Then life started taking turns in his personal and he emotionally got overwhelmed. His bike broke down (his entire life revolves around it) his ex is trying to move away with their son. He’s work was picking up and needed to purchase another bike. For context: he also has a huge following on IG for bike content, so he uses that as his social stuff. I understood his troubles and I tried being there, listening and helping how I could. I never asked for more than he could give. But I could feel the pull back but he kept reassuring me it wasn’t us. He was there but less effort I guess. He wanted to meet my mom, I wasn’t sure but he insisted to meet her. Life was still getting to him. Then a week later he said he needed to step back and focus on his life and he couldn’t do what we were doing, but still can be friends?! Labeled it pressure and he’s not ready for this, even though HE convinced me he was for two months lol Like a light switch. Even though we were just dating and not putting titles on anything. There was no pressure. Just needed to let me in.
Nothing bad happened between us, but he did exit and I said I couldn’t just be friends. Now he avoids me completely. Tell me, what the hell?!? lol