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Sorry for the sappy title. Just had to vent a little as my mind wont stop. Hope everyones sunday and holiday was good










Sorry for the sappy title. Just had to vent a little as my mind wont stop. Hope everyones sunday and holiday was good
I was cheated on, and now i have severe relationship ocd, and fearfulness of being cheated on. I’m trying to redirect my mindset to a positive direction, starting by listening to podcasts on stopping the overthinking and other mindfulness tips. Any recommendations? I do realize this is more of a therapy type resolution, but this is my first step for myself
The only one i can view is wildcat, all the others state “the connection was reset” with a little paper looking icon that has a sad face on it, lol. Anyone know how to fix this? I believe its an issue on my end.
Ive know this guy for 12 years. We’ve been dating for about 6 weeks. This weekend he reminded me hes going to LA (were on the east coast), i ask him if hes going to see someone in particular and he mentions, yes, this guy and his husband, and a girl and that girls girlfriend and will be staying on her couch for one night. Seems odd. I check her insta, zero evidence of her being gay or having a girlfriend, other than one photo of her at pride. Thats fine, some people are more private. I dig back around in 2020 he was liking pictures of her in lingere etc. it just doesnt sit right with me. I think I have to split with him and it really really hurts because i like him a lot. Hes super mature, kind and good looking. I hate everything.
I didnt touch it incase it was some sort of injury so i cant tell you what it felt like, but it looked like skin maybe?
So Ive started talking to a guy I really like, and ive known him for about 12 years, but we just recently reconnected (and have seen each other). Its only been just under three weeks of talking, weve seen each other about 5 times. He often doesnt answer me, or takes long periods of time to answer me, doesnt say good morning/goodnight, and hasnt brought me flowers. I was in a very long term relationship (on and off 10 years) with the same person, so i feel like im very out of touch on what is normal and what is not. Its starting to give me anxiety and makes me feel like he actually doesnt like me and maybe just wants to hook up? Im a bit confused and would like some advice on if this is normal.
Just wondering if anyone knows if the NHDOT will plant wildflowers on the highway or if this just was a coincidence? Saw this on 93 around june of 2020 and have never seen anything like it again. Pretty positive they're all dandelions. Years that have followed after ive seen a good amount of white flowers but nothing like this
My ex and i had mutual break up about 2.5 years ago (2023).
I lost my virginity to him when i was 15 (2011), im 30 now.
We were on and off till i was about 19. We stopped being together around that time, but after some time (2014-2020) he was trying to be with me during that time, sending me flowers, texts, etc, and I ended up being receptive to it. I hadnt forgiven him for his poor behavior but i tried.
Around the end of 2020 we reconnected and we got back into a very serious relationship again. And it just didnt end up working out. We didnt have the same mind set, different outlooks on life, etc. we ended up breaking up in 2023 after a really dumb argument about andrew tate.
At the end of the day our arguments about things like andrew tate are just social media shit and i just feel like we broke up for no reason.
During out relationship he would have done actually anything for me. He was one of the most supportive people ive ever had in my life and did a lot of things for me. Financially….literally anything. Our sex life was amazing and so wasnt our chemistry.
In 2023 we separated and i was kind of ok with it, okay with being alone….then i got the news 2 years after we were separated that he was engaged and having a kid….ok…
But the connection we had was unlike any other connection ive had with anyone. And even after all this time of trying to see other people and trying to find feelings elsewhere……i cant. I still find myseld having these absolute breakdowns about him not being in my life anymore.
Idk if its him being my first or what but i am so lost even after i feel like we dont match up. Idk girls i need help. Please.
Bread with both hummus and butter, kalamata plives, roasted and grilled artichoke, eggs, cherry tomatoes, cheddar and parm cheese, raw asparagus, and dill pickle, pasta salad.