Surgery

(I don’t have Bell’s, I have permanent 7th cranial nerve damage from a birth injury)

Has anyone had any surgeries on your face to help make you look more “normal”? What type of surgery was it, and what were the results? What kind of doctor did you see to get the process started? And, because I’m from the US, did you have any luck with getting your insurance to cover it? I feel like maybe my eye issues might be enough to get it to be considered as medically necessary, but on the other hand my optometrist hasn’t had any luck with getting my insurance to cover my prescription Meibo eyedrops so that’s probably a pipe dream I guess.

Just feeling down about myself and tired of it all these days.

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u/Moonstonedbowie — 7 days ago

Shaping

I’m usually in the long natural nails sub, but I recently decided to cut everything down and start completely fresh. I use cuticle oil and hand cream regularly, avoid water, and never leave them bare. I don’t need any help in that regard.

I like to keep my nails in an almond shape which I obviously won’t be able to do for quite some time until they get longer. I’m really trying to leave my sidewalls alone in the meantime so I haven’t done any shaping whatsoever. But I need to do something, because I chipped the corners on 2 of them over the weekend. How can I get dull the corners without messing up my sidewalls?

Products: Nail Aid 9 in 1 Total Cure

u/Moonstonedbowie — 24 days ago

Looking for zoom support groups

Hi everyone, I’m looking for caregiver support groups that meet online with zoom or some other platform. I communicate best verbally and have a hard time getting everything out through text. Neither of my parents have dementia, so I can’t use the Alzheimer’s association or anything like that.

And to add another layer, I’m actually a caregiver specialist at my local agency on aging and I facilitate our support groups. Helping caregivers is my entire career! But it’s different when it’s your own family. I need to be able to take off my professional hat and switch to my daughter hat.

Basic situation- millennial/sandwich generation, dad lives an hour or so away and my mom is in another state (of course she is the one who needs me), and I’m just at a loss. I’m the middle child and the oldest daughter and my siblings just don’t understand what is going on and don’t see what I do.

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u/Moonstonedbowie — 2 months ago

Group shot

I collected for a few years starting in 2017. I have awful luck with blind bags… I almost always get whichever figure I DON’T want, so I started to just buy the ones that I like from eBay. After a while I found myself overwhelmed by the constant releases and I also felt like a portion of the characters were getting repetitive. I burned out and packed them all up.

On a whim a few weeks ago I bought a carousel blind box (and got an underwhelming figure😐as expected). But I started to poke around and see what has been released since I have been gone and felt overwhelmed again. I have a couple trades on the way and I have a few on my “nice to have” list that I’ll get to eventually, but after getting the 10” Aquamarina in the mail today I’m really happy about my collection and it feels complete to me.

u/Moonstonedbowie — 2 months ago

What does your relationship look like when your kids reach adulthood?

My ex and I got divorced in 2013 after 2.5 years of marriage when our son was 2. It was bitter, but things evened out in time. We have 50/50 custody, 2 weeks with me/2 weeks with him and we have a great coparenting relationship. Our parenting goals and methods have always aligned and we make decisions together as a united front. We get along but I wouldn’t call us friends- we really only talk about our son on an as needed basis and once in a great while he will vent about life a little bit. No big deal.

Our son is going to be 16 in a few months so I’m just thinking about what the future will look like. What is it like when your kids grow up and leave the nests? I’m sure that we will still be in contact (but less and less frequent?) while he is in college especially if he still lives at home. But once he is out on his own and living his own life without us, will it be ok for me to more or less cease contact with his dad? Aside from big life events and emergencies, of course. I guess what I’m getting at is- Is the whole journey finally just over?

Sorry if that was long. I hope that it made sense to somebody.

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u/Moonstonedbowie — 2 months ago

[US/US] Trades

I don’t have any particular ISOs I’m just looking for more recent unicornos and mermicornos. I haven’t been collecting for many years so I don’t have any of the more recent ones so just make me an offer with what you have! The only exception is that I would like to exchange the carousel for another carousel. I’m willing to send multiples in exchange for fewer from you.

I have feedback on eBay as meghanbowie, but since I haven’t done any trades on Reddit I am willing to send first.

u/Moonstonedbowie — 2 months ago

Unboxed picture request

Does anyone have an unboxed picture of the 5” artist series Stellina? I can only find stock/NIB pictures.

u/Moonstonedbowie — 2 months ago

I’ll never shut up about older Bitty Babies

I found these today and had such a flashback. I remember when the outfits came with the cutest little accessories and even Bitty Bear would get some kind of hat/headband/bib. This apple plays “pop goes the weasel” when you crank it, and when you press the button on the present the cat pops up and says “meow!” We also had a birthday cake that played music, but I’m not sure where that one went.

u/Moonstonedbowie — 3 months ago

Please fix the lighting?

He passed away 4 years ago and this is the only picture of us that I have. I thought that I deleted all of them, but I plugged an old external hard drive in on a whim and found this one.

I don’t want any other cosmetic edits, just the lighting so that he’s not so shadowy/washed out/I don’t really know the right terminology. I can tip $5.

u/Moonstonedbowie — 3 months ago

Before/after big chop (bonus glowy picture)

I was mentally prepared (but still devastated) to cut all of my nails down after my pinky broke. I went to my nail lady yesterday so that she could do the deed for me, and she suggested that instead of bringing them ALL down to shorty length, to just trim them down some so that they still have some length but aren’t as dramatically different. I really like the results and I know that that’s all that matters, but I’d like to hear some outside opinions.

Products:
Long- Nail Aid 9 in 1
Short- LynB Designs “Strawberry Milk Tea” and Seche Vite top coat

u/Moonstonedbowie — 3 months ago

The big chop is coming💔

I was going to carry on as is, but yesterday I lost the pinky nail so I’m giving up. I’m going to get a mani tomorrow so that they’ll at least be as even as possible. I’ll miss you all until I can return 😔

Products: nail aid total cure 9-in-1

u/Moonstonedbowie — 3 months ago

Question for people who buy drugstore polishes

Is it just me or does it just really suck lately? I like my indies but sometimes I just want some instant gratification but jeez stores are making it difficult.

I have access to 2 wal marts, 3 Walgreens, Target, Ulta, and a few Dollar Trees. The selections are so bad. The colors are so picked over and never seem to be restocked. Target and Walgreens usually have coupons for Essie and SH, but only one Walgreens even carries Essie products. There’s a ton of light pinks and neutrals, but that’s about it. I only go to target for my meds but I stop and look at the polishes anyway and there’s just nothing good there either so I can’t use the coupons even if I want to. Ulta has a better selection and brands, but they’re more expensive than other stores by at least a few bucks/bottle. Dollar Tree is ok color wise but the brushes suck so I need to invest in better brushes if I want to go down that road. Wal mart has the biggest variety but again, a lot of stuff is always out of stock. Like I went to both Wal Marts twice this week for nail polish remover and neither of them has a single bottle on the shelves. It was crazy. I’m not the type to ask employees to “look in the back” because I know that there is no “in the back” so I just left. Target has started selling Beetles gel, but that’s a whole other complaint that I won’t get into.

I know that this boils down to the fact that retail in general is miserable right now. Like… I want to give these stores my money but they apparently don’t want it.

First world problems, I know. But is anyone else experiencing this and feeling bummed out about it?

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u/Moonstonedbowie — 3 months ago

ISO: a flattering red

TLDR because I’m a chronic overexplainer: I’m looking for a bright, fun red- nothing vampy or dark. Cremes or shimmers, no magnetics.

Ok first of all my nails are GOING THROUGH IT right now. I have been keeping press ons on the two shorties, but now the remaining middle finger has problems🥲 it’s held together with a silk nail wrap, and then I got a big blob of glue on the tip that I couldn’t buff flat so I just cut the tip off. I don’t want to try to shape it bc I think that the whole thing just needs to be left alone for a while.

Anyway. I want to add some reds to my collection, but I don’t really know about undertones and cool/warm colors or anything like that, so I usually just buy whatever looks nice in the bottle but then I put it on and it doesn’t look good. It’s been a few years since I tried one, so I unfortunately can’t give any examples of ones that haven’t worked.

I have vitiligo that becomes more pronounced in the summer when I’m spending time in the sun, and it spreads more over time. I’m at the point now where the skin around my nails is pretty much entirely depigmented so that probably adds another layer of “wtf am I even doing?” to my confusion.

Products: Essie to the rescue and a silk nail wrap

u/Moonstonedbowie — 3 months ago

Wegovy pill price?

I used compounded semaglutide through Mochi for about 6 months, but stopped a few months ago because of the cost but I’m really curious about the wegovy pill. I can’t find pricing info anywhere! I don’t want to pay $79 to restart my membership just to ask a provider. Can someone who is using the pill please share the price?

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u/Moonstonedbowie — 5 months ago

I emailed them about my bad experience with my GITD pink bottle, and they were really understanding a refunded me. Awesome customer service for sure!

Now. This one. I have finally found the milky pink of my dreams. The formula and color are absolutely perfect. I’m a believer🫡

Products:
Nail aid 3 day growth base coat
Uno Mas “ooh la la, bruh” (3 coats)
Sally Hansen insta dri red bottle topcoat

u/Moonstonedbowie — 5 months ago

I ordered from Uno Mas for the first time. The polish that I was looking forward to the most was “That’s colour theory, babe” which is supposed to be a glow in the dark hot pink.

I STRUGGLED with the application. The texture is thick and goopy. Honestly it seemed almost like glue-y? It went on thick and once it hit my nail it didn’t want to spread around. Getting around my cuticles neatly was next to impossible because of the gloop so I eventually gave up and just let them look like shit for a few hours before removing it. I tried it again a few days later this time using kb shimmer thinner and even after 10 drops the consistency was still the same. I got 3 other colors and all of those ones seem completely normal when I swatched them so idk. I emailed the shop to see if they have heard about this from anyone else. I dont like being wasteful but this polish really has no redeeming qualities so it’s probably going to go in the trash.

And it doesn’t really have much glow to speak of but that might just be user error. I have never had a glow polish so I probably did it wrong. the only UV light that I have is a little flashlight that I use to look at my vitiligo in the dark 😅 but I charged them underneath for about 10 minutes and there wasn’t any glow. I was trying to make myself feel better because “Avatar State” by Mooncat is my dream but it’s just way too expensive. I also got “La llarona” in the Uno Mas order because it’s supposed to be kinda similar to it but I haven’t tried it yet.

Has anyone else used this color? Does using a top coat make the glow effect not work?

u/Moonstonedbowie — 6 months ago