u/Moony-Shanks

Hello!

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I've had top surgery in January 2021 (double incision with free nipple grafts) and a slight revision in may 2026 (dog ear removal on the right side). I was first operated with a BMI of around 33 (90kg) and I'm currently closer to a 40 BMI (112kg). I was 119kg at my heaviest 6 months ago.

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I'm mostly happy with the result but I had multiple trans people criticizing it, saying that it looks botched and unnatural/not cis-looking (I was looking for as cis as possible of a result).

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The main points were that the nipples are too close together, too small, too low and that straight scars are ugly

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I haven't had any issues passing, and I've been to the pool, the lake, changing rooms at multiple jobs and never had any questions or curious looks.

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So be honest, is it that bad??

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First picture is 4-5 months post op, second is 5 years post op (you can see the revision scar on the right side)

They have access to:

- a big cat tree

- a bed and a hamac in the kitchen

- a small cat tree

- my own bed with a blanket

And still they sleep on the random clothes (for the orange) and a Lego set???? (For the tuxedo)

Had her for 5 years. Survived lack of care and being nibbled by cats quite well, now at 11 leaves it's the most she ever had!

She is usually on top of my oven (the only place in my apartment where cats can't reach) and get decent indirect sunlight, I water her whenever I remember so either twice a week or once a month but still she is alive!

Would like to re-pot her soon-ish, what kind of soil would you recommend?

One of the current french LTO alond with Korean and Italian whopper

I have multiple spider plants in this pot, I haven't changed the substrate since I bought it last year, it's very draining substrate

She has been doing alright but lately a lots of leaves have browned at the base

I keep her inside with plenty of indirect sunlight (I don't have any exterior I could put her) and water every week/ every 2 weeks

Am I doing something wrong? Should I change the substrate?

I listened to your previous advice of making the tank vertical, so the adults have more height room.

Now I have around 20 eggs in the small tank, how can I make them hatch? They been laid less than a week ago, currently on wet paper towel.

How should the humidity and temperature be for them to hatch and how long will it take? (I have a thermometer/hydrometer available)