u/Motte6692

Tw: discrimination

I am teaching teenagers about discrimination against queer people and i wanted to show them some feelings queer people feel about showing that they are homosexual, trans etc. In example. I also have other material i am using but i wanted to show them some real thoughts about this in the queer community.

If you feel free to tell me about your feelings not comming out or coming out i would be very grateful. (i will tell them without the username/community/plattform).

If this is kinda not allowed on this sub then delete it.

Edit: thanks for your honesty at this emotional points to everyone and sharing your stories. Feel hugged and loved!

Zug wird mit Verspätung an meinem Ziel Bahnhof ankommen.

Angaben zur Ursache:

Zugführer: da muss noch ein Güterzug vor uns durch

Vorletzter halt: Reparaturarbeiten

Ziel Bahnhof: Signalstörungen

Warum gibt es denn kein einheitliches System für sowas?

Hi i want to start swimming like 1 or 2 times a week in a swmming pool for cardio. The watch is desribed to be waterproofed as far as i understood. Would you still recommend something like a waterproofed sleeve for this amount of use in the water?

Hi i'm about to get an assessment for a diagnosis.

I (F,28) am very familiar with getting misdiagnosed and medical gaslight by doctors for different health issues.

So I am somehow afraid (in case I am neurodivergent) that masking might hide some symptoms.

How could I prepare for the assessment to get all the facts and the picture together so the psychiatrist has ALL informations to get the right diagnosis?

I'm off meds now. I try to eat healthy and do some martial arts and bouldering. But I'd like to push my heart health further because I have no stamina.

I normally get strong pain in the stomach while running due to old scars. Do you go for running/jogging?

How did you start, and when did you do more? I don't want to push my body too much.

Disclaimer: This is just a rant, I don't seek advice or siding with or against me on this. If you can relate to me or my bf, I still like to see your experiences.

I have so much stress in not planned situations. Our last vacation was supervised by me. I felt pretty good (and yep I've been with him to a lot of places where I have already been, it was pretty nice for me repeating it but also showing him the nice places he never went.)

This vacation, he planned most of it and wanted to get some of the load of my head (what I appreciate, honestly). He picked the places to stay at night, how long we're gonna be in each city and what we might want to see.

That was nice of him. But at the beginning of our vacation, he didn't look up what connections between the cities or even to our place in a city were possible. There are no plans about the lines and schedules. I tried to stay out of this business and not take care of the plan at all because the moment I see a problem, it will drive me nuts. But he is always asking for my opinion on these things. He doesn't know how and where to get the tickets (I had to find it out. Otherwise, we would have been taking a bus or train without permission). And I'm sure he does not even understand that this is even worse than doing it myself. He sometimes looks up things and asks me what my perspective is (like if we choose a or b), and I am like about what? What are you talking about? (Is it the bus line?do you want to go to another place rather than planned?) Give me some more information??? (He was looking up stuff on the phone but was not showing me anything but asked incomplete questions), and not only once, it was nearly every day.

Looking up the bus we need to take to go on a BOOKED trip in an hour is a but too unplanned for my taste. But this happened the time.

When I than have a busy buzzy brain and am totally focused on getting from a to b im totally unmasking and always have a resting bitchface. And he need to comment this. He also need to comment my stimming. On more adhd connected behaviour, he then belittles me or infantalised me by saying no, you should not or that's not good (like hyperfocusing on a book that much that i forget to eat. Drink, hygiene, and all of this).

In the evening, I did things not in order, and all he got to say was I have the WRONG autistic traits (because I hung up the clothes not in order) after a lot and draining day.

I'm soo angry!!

Maybe I will remember more o want to cry about, but for now, it's all. Thanks for reading.

Sry if my writing is unclear english as 2nd language is not my strong suit and I have a lot of focus problem in my mind due to adhd.

To the afab non binaries:

How do you feel for being readed as a transwoman (m to f) by some transphobic straights?

I often think its funny actually and let them think they got me but also makes me angry because they are intentionally transphobic by saying "you will never be a woman!"

(Thx pal never wanted to?!)