u/Nearby_Explorer8030

Good day!

I will be applying to an EMJM program that starts in Germany. One of their admission and selection criteria is the recognition of the respective documents and degrees, which is based on the requirements set by the German Central Office for Foreign Education (ZEB)/Anabin. Upon checking, my university and bachelor's course are not listed. For it to be accredited, I need to process it myself and pay 208 euros, which I can't afford to risk.

I really want to apply for that specific EMJM program, but what if I just waste that amount of money and I won't be selected? Another thing, I checked that for the German Embassy in my country to give a student visa, I need that certification from ZAB. Most of the programs I want to apply to start in Germany.

What should I do?

Good day!

I will be applying to an EMJM program that starts in Germany. One of their admission and selection criteria is the recognition of the respective documents and degrees, which is based on the requirements set by the German Central Office for Foreign Education (ZEB)/Anabin. Upon checking, my university and bachelor's course are not listed. For it to be accredited, I need to process it myself and pay 208 euros, which I can't afford to risk.

I really want to apply for that specific EMJM program, but what if I just waste that amount of money and I won't be selected? Another thing, I checked that for the German Embassy in Manila to give me a student visa, I need that certification from ZEB. Is it true? Most of the programs I want to apply to start in Germany pa naman. I feel like my dreams shattered because of this, hindi pa nga ako nagsisimula huhu.

What should I do?

Good day!

I will be applying to an EMJM program that starts in Germany. One of their admission and selection criteria is the recognition of the respective documents and degrees, which is based on the requirements set by the German Central Office for Foreign Education (ZEB)/Anabin. Upon checking, my university and bachelor's course are not listed. For it to be accredited, I need to process it myself and pay 208 euros, which I can't afford to risk.

I really want to apply for that specific EMJM program, but what if I just waste that amount of money and I won't be selected? Another thing, I checked that for the German Embassy in my country to give a student visa, I need that certification from ZAB. Most of the programs I want to apply to start in Germany.

What should I do?

Good day!

I’ve been planning for studying Master’s in Europe but my anxiety is killing me kaya mas lalo akong magpoprocastinate because I don’t know where to focus.

For my background, I am thinking of applying to Erasmus Mundus Joint Scholarship and there’s a specific program that I really want that aligns to my current almost 3 years work experience. I can’t afford to pay for a tuition fee that’s why I’m aiming for a full scholarship.

I already have the school related documents from my university kase that’s the easiest thing to do like the MOI, TOR, grading system, and GWA. I have group mates for my bachelor’s thesis so I guess hindi sya pwede as my leverage. In addition, my GWA for is also 1.84.

Please help me by answering these questions:

1. Should I take IELTS even though the program that I want for EMJM also accepts MOI in English and I already got it? Or should I skip IELTS and just pass the MOI?
2. Pro: I can use my IELTS result for more opportunities
3. Should I focus on practicing for IELTS or the motivation and recommendation letters starting today? I don’t know what to do. I feel like I am running out of time since mag-oopen na ulit for application.
4. Should I also apply for other scholarship?
5. I am currently researching but naooverwhelm ako dahil sinasaby sabay ko ang pagpapractice for IELTS as well as researching about other scholarship. Please give some recommendation.
6. It is an advantage to have a thesis proposal that should be included in motivation letter, right?
7. Aside from Master’s, I am also considering the language assistant program in Spain na mas nakakagulo sa isip ko. Should I really take IELTS or the Spanish course na lang? My goal is to study then work in Europe is that really possible?

I need your insights, please educate me. Thank you so much!

Maybe it’s the rain. Maybe it’s the cold. Maybe it’s the 10 PM breakdown session, or maybe it’s the longing.

Maybe it’s the latter.

I’m longing for the version of myself who doesn’t cry herself to sleep because she feels lonely and alone.

I’m a hyper-independent, distant eldest daughter from a family that seems incapable of celebrating my victories. A family that makes me feel as though I have a communicable disease—where giving me a hug when I need one feels unbearable to them, yet crushing my dreams comes so easily.

I grew up feeling like I was only brought into this world because my parents had no other choice. I endured years of verbal and emotional abuse from my mother and grew up with a father who was barely there. Living alone and far away became the only way out.

Now, I’m alone and far from home. But is this really the price I have to pay?

I’ve always been jealous of people who have someone they can call when life gets overwhelming. I’ve had to do everything on my own, and honestly, it’s exhausting.

I just want to have someone who would be the first person I see when I wake up and the last person I see before I go to sleep.

I have a stable job. I can provide for myself. But I’m ambitious—highly ambitious. I’m always in flight mode. Always rushing. Always chasing the next goal.

Sometimes I feel like I’ll only ruin the person who comes into my life because I’m avoidant and would rather disappear than let someone see me struggling.

But at the same time, I want to hold someone and be held. I want endless hugs and cuddles as if there’s no tomorrow. I want to feel like I matter.

I want to know what it’s like to be genuinely cared for not because someone feels obligated to, but because they simply want to.

I don’t know anymore bakit sobrang bigat lang talaga ngayong gabi.

Hi!

I am so stressed today. I want to yap huhu.
I’m currently in Cebu and everything is frustrating me.

Hit me up. Thank you!!

Hi!

Let’s date/hang-out later by 7pm in SM Podium. This invitation is for a kkb dinner.
I’m opening my life to knowing people again.
This might be a one time thing or not. We will see.

About me:
• 5’3, morena, chinita
• confident with my looks
• normal bmi
• working professional
• single
• prefers talking irl than chatting online

About you:
• 25 - 30 years old
• working professional
• single
• not a creep

Sorry still in the office while writing this kaya medyo professional pa hahahah.

Hit me up, if you’re only available for dinner later. Thank you!

Good evening! I can’t sleep and I feel the need to talk to someone to sleep soundly later. This might be a one time thing so no worries. Question lang din, bakit gising ka pa? Hit me up if you’re free. Thanks!