u/Necessary_Pace_9860

They're soft but so loud at the same time which for some reason confuses my brain but no matter how low I set my volume they're still too loud for what they are. Also they seem grossly over exaggerated. Even worse if it's a video that's on a time lapse and the noises just seem so much more jarring. Trying to watch a video of different art techniques on the same picture and my ears hurt from the sounds that apparently everyone else loves. I would turn my sound off but for some reason a soundless video also bothers me. There's a correct amount of sound. (On an added note, a single photo or a text post does not need music)

Also I think the whole whispering thing is really dumb. I get the appeal of talking softly but you can talk softly without breathy whispering right into the microphone. And the noises on the dedicated ASMR videos are just not appealing over video format. I enjoy zipping and unzipping things, running my fingers over things and what not. But that's because I get the physical sensation and input with the sound. The noises by themselves just don't translate the same way.

Arguing with a couple what I believe to be men or very ignorant women about this. Basically was a post about measuring your bra size and they asked the question about women with saggy breasts and then having to stuff their breasts into bras. (They also said something along the lines of their under bust measurement being their stomach measurement lol) And I'm arguing that if you have to stuff your bra you're wearing the wrong size, I even included that the scoop and swoop is not the same thing and anyone with a c or greater should use that method saggy or not to make sure they have a properly seated bra.

I have a very large size and I have some sag to them because gravity. So I use the scoop and swoop. I've also worn bras too small. In my opinion there is a very big difference in scooping and swooping than trying to stuff my breasts into a small bra so that it looks right. Would love to hear others thoughts on this.

I made a post on a mom subreddit about how Netflix has the option to blacklist shows and how to do it. And someone decided to comment "great more shit for me to manage".

I'm not going to show up at your house and hold you at gunpoint just to make you use the helpful tip I posted about. Nobody is forcing anyone to do anything. If it's not for you, move on.

This goes along with the whole bean soup theory or whatever it's called I guess, but I'm not personally saying anyone has to do anything. I only wanted more people to know about the Netflix thing since I discovered it by pure accident when trying to reset viewing history of a specific show since for some reason it would always play at the ending credits no matter what I did

For anybody who doesn't know this, if you go to the webpage of Netflix, go to "manage account" then go to the kids account and scroll down you can type in shows and make them disappear from the profile. And if the show doesn't show up where the kid can see it, there's a good chance of no fuss.

So bye bye, little angel, bye bye cocomelon, bye bye Masha and the bear. And a couple other shows that no matter how many times I tell my husband not to put on for the kids, it still happens.

P.s you can also make playlists on YouTube of shows you want your kid to watch so that the autoplay only plays stuff you want not what the algorithm decides is relevant.

I saw a post today of someone getting hate about not crediting another creator for the very original /s idea of running 1 inch for every follower cause some guy is apparently doing a foot for every follower. But the thing is that kind of thing has been around so long. Especially in the form of "1 pushup for every like on this comment" and other examples. But it's not just that, it's in the crochet/knitting community as well with people wanting constant credit for unoriginal things, like a pattern with a simple stitch. You can't scroll without seeing the same post from different creators doing the same trends no matter what it's on. Gaming, thread art, challenges, health/nutrition. And they all want credit. It's like they think they can own ideas

There was something else I wanted to mention but I don't remember what it was but it was related, so I guess that's all. It just bothered me is all

Idk if I have my flair active here but I am a 38mm uk.

I decided to go to lane Bryant just to see what their biggest padded/molded bra looked like on me. The clerk got me two j size, a black one in 38band that I was kinda meh about and a beautiful white with blue floral patterns 42 band. And the cups were in my opinion huge. I put them on just to see and I hated the black one instantly obviously. So I tried the white one and it was little better but I still of course had so much spillage. I saw it was only $20 and decided to buy it for the hell of it cause I figure I might be able to make it work with a little bit of hoping and dreaming (also I've never seen a bra that big that cheap.)

Like honestly this thing looks giant, I can almost fit it around my husband's head and he's got a big head, but to me my breasts don't seem that big when I look at them until I'm trying to squeeze them in that monster of a bra then they're huge and can't even fit. And for reference my everyday wireless bra is a 42N and that thing is both too big at the band as I've resorted to hooking at the innermost clasp and it's still too small in the cup by a good 3+inches. I have one bra in my actual size(42LL before I lost weight) but it's too narrow and since losing weight I'm also hooking that in the tightest clasp.

Long post, sorry TLDR; it's crazy how I think my breasts arent that big until I buy a bra that looks huge and it's too small.