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Men are shamed a lot for not wanting promiscuous women and I think the reason for that is it’s very easy for women to sleep around even if she is average looking but,

It the opposite for men you need to be model looking and tall to be eligible for casual sex and hookups which most men aren’t and the one who are don’t commit to average looking women a lot so these women hookup with those guys then settle down with average joes but if most of them wouldn’t want them because of their promiscuous past that becomes a problem then.

Hence the phrase “Past doesn’t Matter”

From the way I see it it’s more like the biggest insult a man can get.

From the perspective of men we are starved from attention from the opposite gender since forever and it’s the opposite for women.

When women say a man is a husband material it sounds more like:

“You are good enough for me to settle down with but not enough for me to turn me on to want to f*ck your brains out”

While it’s the exact opposite for men who are considered “hookup material” it’s like:

“You are so attractive and hot I want to f*ck your brains out without any safety or commitment”

Now you may think it’s not all about sex and I agree but it tells a lot about what women think about a man and it still matters a lot.

It’s not about the sex but it signals desirability which most men never get and so the men who do get this kind reaction from women so it makes them more valuable.

What do you think?

I mean whether it’s dating app statistics or polls on women sub or Instagram reels or real life conversations most women ideal height is tall or more than 6ft+ from at least what I see on the internet and real life.

Then why do so many women say height doesn’t matter.

One more thing I observed is most women always mention their men’s height if he is tall so it is clearly a highly desirable trait then why the gaslighting?

Is it a common occurrence among women which I keep hearing about from the internet and other men?

By this I mean someone like alessandro delisola and other super models.

Not just a day in a life but their life in general

Whenever this topic comes up some people try to argue or justify that a promiscuous past or a promiscuous partner is supposed to be “fine” or “normal” which is just disgusting IMO.

Supposedly I am the one who is supposed to be “insecure” for being disgusted by promiscuity or sleeping around which is a bizarre logic?

what is the logic behind it?

Do I hate women? Idk I don’t think so but I will leave that to the readers.

This will be long so bear with me.

I was fairly normal up until 2 months ago when I discovered the “Blackpill” on the internet.

Never dated, never tried and still a virgin at 20.

I always knew looks and height(for men) mattered, at least subconsciously but after discovering the blackpill I didn’t know how much it mattered till then.

Do I blame women for being attracted to only tall and handsome men? No, Heck even I am attracted to attractive women myself, the problem lies in me and me alone.
Why was I born average looking and short? I can’t blame anyone but myself or my fate or luck or whatever you wanna call it.

I know that average men can get into relationships and it happens all the time but at what cost?

As an average man you need pursue be funny, charming, have money, or do all sorts of thing just to have some sort of attention.

People like me are just invisible and will mostly likely be throughout my life.
Hot and tall men don’t need to do anything in their case the dynamics are reversed it’s the women who pursue them because they want them the most.

If I have to all of that but they can get it with just not being a POS then is it even worth it?

Am I wrong for thinking this way? Is it just jealousy and envy?

I thought I just wanted sex but no I just wanted to be desired or feel wanted without having to go out of way to impress others.

What people call “perfect” usually comes with hidden costs: pressure, fragility, and a kind of stiffness. When something is optimized to the maximum whether it’s a plan, a product, or even a version of yourself, it stops feeling flexible. You become more aware of maintaining it than actually enjoying it.