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Do you think it's realistic to move past the realization that your partner initially sought out your best friend for a hookup before choosing you, or is that the kind of thing that would inevitably ruin the relationship?

Do you think it's realistic to move past the realization that your partner initially sought out your best friend for a hookup before choosing you, or is that the kind of thing that would inevitably ruin the relationship?

Sure, Monica wasn't technically doing anything wrong since they weren't a couple yet, but in reality, could anyone really get over that so fast? How would you have dealt with finding that out?

u/New-Spite-9608 — 1 day ago

Beginner looking for a roadmap: Best books, gear, and apps to start?

Hi everyone! I’m a total beginner and I’ve finally decided to take drawing seriously. I’m looking for some solid recommendations to build a good foundation.

Could you suggest your favorite resources in these categories?

Books: Which ones are essential for fundamentals (anatomy, perspective, shading)?

Gear/Supplies: What are the "must-haves" for a traditional starter kit? (Pencils, paper types, etc.)

Online Resources: Any specific YouTube channels or websites that follow a structured path?

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u/New-Spite-9608 — 6 days ago

Da dove viene il "talento"?

Com'è possibile che si possa far sedere un bambino a una scrivania per 10 anni e ancora non riesca a disegnare, mentre altre persone possono semplicemente prendere una penna e fare un disegno super realistico?

​Come mai alcune persone sanno cantare e altre no?

​Come mai alcune persone sanno giocare a calcio a un livello tecnico elevato e altri no?

​Come mai alcune persone riescono a memorizzare 150 cifre del pi greco e altri hanno una memoria così pessima?

​So che questi talenti (non abilità apprese, ma puro talento naturale grezzo) sono diversi tra loro per natura, ma da dove derivano?

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u/New-Spite-9608 — 14 days ago

Hi everyone,

I’m asking this with genuine curiosity and I’d really appreciate honest answers, even if they’re blunt.

At a certain age, would you consider it a red flag if someone has never had any romantic/sexual experience before? Like, completely inexperienced. No serious relationships, little to no dating history, still a virgin, etc.

I’m not talking about someone who’s emotionally unavailable or unwilling to learn/grow, but simply someone who got to adulthood without those experiences for whatever reason (shyness, anxiety, late blooming, life circumstances, difficulty meeting people, internalized stuff, etc.).

Would that make you cautious? Would you assume something is “wrong”? Or would it not matter much to you?

And if it would matter, what specifically would concern you?

Emotional immaturity?

Fear of having to “teach” someone everything?

Lack of confidence?

Pressure/attachment issues?

Social awkwardness?

I’m especially curious about real reactions versus the “nice” answer people give online. Like realistically, in actual dating situations, how do you perceive it?

Again, please be honest rather than reassuring. I can handle honesty better than sugarcoating.

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u/New-Spite-9608 — 15 days ago