అందమైన జీవితం by మల్లాది వెంకటకృష్ణమూర్తి
▲ 68 r/telugubooks+1 crossposts

అందమైన జీవితం by మల్లాది వెంకటకృష్ణమూర్తి

ఇవాళ ఈ పుస్తకం చదవటం జరిగింది. వివాహ జీవితం ఎలా ఉండాలో నేర్పించి మరీ ముఖ్యంగా జీవితంలో చిన్న చిన్న ఆనందాలు ఎలా వెతుకోవాలి అలా చేస్తే మనకు ఏం లభిస్తుందో నేర్పిన పుస్తకం. ఈ పుస్తకం చదివినంత సేపు 1971 సంవత్సరం లో విడుదలైన 'Anand' అనే హిందీ సినిమా చూస్తున్నట్టు అనిపించింది.

ఇదే పుస్తకాన్ని ఆధారంగా చేసుకుని '8 A.M metro' అనే హిందీ సినిమా తీశారు.

u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 12 days ago

Chintapalli Ramana garu must be celebrated more

Anandam is such a fresh and wholesome film. Everyone talks about DSP music and Srinu Vaitla's debut, which I also loved. Besides that there's also Chintapalli Ramana garu whose dialogues felt natural and colloquial. And I was awestruck when I came to know that most of our memes are the dialogues of this man. We need to celebrate him more.

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u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 29 days ago

The world might not be as bad as it is shown on Social Media

This happened a few months ago when I was regularly going to jog in a park near my home. As usual I buckled up my shoes and reached the park to start my day.

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I jogged for quite a while and to keep the momentum up, I slowly converted that jog into a brisk walk after two rounds. After completing one round of brisk walk, I was tired and panting. So I eventually stopped and bent forward to release more air and was moving my hands sidewise. Just then a middle aged man around 45-50 years passed by my side. 

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He looked at me and passed. After some steps he stopped. He turned back and looked at me again. I was still panting and was about to get up. He then came back patted on my shoulder and asked me "what happened young man, are you alright?" I said "yes I'm good, just tired." 

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He then said, " I come here every day, not so long ago one of my friends suffered from a heart stroke and collapsed on the ground. I thought you were feeling uncomfortable. So just checking on you"

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I was taken aback by his concern for me. I told him I'm fine nothing like that and thanked him. I inquired about his friend and he said he's fine. He offered me some water, I took it and thanked him again before we both went on with our lives. 

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These incidents restore faith in humanity and prove me wrong whatever I see on SM. I'm not saying there isn't any bad but I want to reiterate "The world is not as bad as it is shown in social media"

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u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago

The world might not be as bad as it is shown on Social Media.

This happened a few months ago when I was regularly going to jog in a park near my home. As usual I buckled up my shoes and reached the park to start my day.

​

​

I jogged for quite a while and to keep the momentum up, I slowly converted that jog into a brisk walk after two rounds. After completing one round of brisk walk, I was tired and panting. So I eventually stopped and bent forward to release more air and was moving my hands sidewise. Just then a middle aged man around 45-50 years passed by my side. 

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He looked at me and passed. After some steps he stopped. He turned back and looked at me again. I was still panting and was about to get up. He then came back patted on my shoulder and asked me "what happened young man, are you alright?" I said "yes I'm good, just tired." 

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He then said, " I come here every day, not so long ago one of my friends suffered from a heart stroke and collapsed on the ground. I thought you were feeling uncomfortable. So just checking on you"

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I was taken aback by his concern for me. I told him I'm fine nothing like that and thanked him. I inquired about his friend and he said he's fine. He offered me some water, I took it and thanked him again before we both went on with our lives. 

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These incidents restore faith in humanity and prove me wrong whatever I see on SM. I'm not saying there isn't any bad but I want to reiterate "The world is not as bad as it is shown in social media"

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Posting this here as this incident happened in Neeru-Pragathi park!

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u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago

The world might not be as bad as it is shown on Social Media

This happened a few months ago when I was regularly going to jog in a park near my home. As usual I buckled up my shoes and reached the park to start my day.

​

​

I jogged for quite a while and to keep the momentum up, I slowly converted that jog into a brisk walk after two rounds. After completing one round of brisk walk, I was tired and panting. So I eventually stopped and bent forward to release more air and was moving my hands sidewise. Just then a middle aged man around 45-50 years passed by my side. 

​

​

He looked at me and passed. After some steps he stopped. He turned back and looked at me again. I was still panting and was about to get up. He then came back patted on my shoulder and asked me "what happened young man, are you alright?" I said "yes I'm good, just tired." 

​

​

He then said, " I come here every day, not so long ago one of my friends suffered from a heart stroke and collapsed on the ground. I thought you were feeling uncomfortable. So just checking on you"

​

​

I was taken aback by his concern for me. I told him I'm fine nothing like that and thanked him. I inquired about his friend and he said he's fine. He offered me some water, I took it and thanked him again before we both went on with our lives. 

​

​

These incidents restore faith in humanity and prove me wrong whatever I see on SM. I'm not saying there isn't any bad but I want to reiterate "The world is not as bad as it is shown in social media"

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u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago
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The world is not as bad as it is shown in social media

Pata hai aaj kya hua

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This happened a few months ago when I was regularly going to jog in a park near my home. As usual I buckled up my shoes and reached the park to start my day.

​

I jogged for quite a while and to keep the momentum up, I slowly converted that jog into a brisk walk after two rounds. After completing one round of brisk walk, I was tired and panting. So I eventually stopped and bent forward to release more air and was moving my hands sidewise. Just then a middle aged man around 45-50 years passed by my side.

​

He looked at me and passed. After some steps he stopped. He turned back and looked at me again. I was still panting and was about to get up. He then came back patted on my shoulder and asked me "what happened young man, are you alright?" I said "yes I'm good, just tired."

​

He then said, " I come here every day, not so long ago one of my friends suffered from a heart stroke and collapsed on the ground. I thought you were feeling uncomfortable. So just checking on you"

​

I was taken aback by his concern for me. I told him I'm fine nothing like that and thanked him. I inquired about his friend and he said he's fine. He offered me some water, I took it and thanked him again before we both went on with our lives.

​

These incidents restore faith in humanity and prove me wrong whatever I see on SM. I'm not saying there isn't any bad but I want to reiterate "The world is not as bad as it is shown in social media"

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u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago

Puri mark - Satirical philosophy

I happened to watch Devudu Chesina Manushulu and found this scene.

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Though the film didn't make any sense for me, this scene was pure Puri mark.

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He indirectly throws a jab at people who don't do anything and blame the circumstances and turn to "God".

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Audio and video credits to their respective owners.

u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago

Is referring someone as "ఆయన/ఆవిడ" offensive ?

So the context is, I went to the marriage shopping of my cousin's would-be husband. We were searching for good clothes until he arrived. He arrived after sometime then my cousin and he were looking for the clothes and I was helping them.

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After sometime I looked at a blazer and told my cousin "Bava ki idhi baguntundhi choodu". She looked at it and told me it's too long for him so search for the next size. It was going good until then.

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Then I said "Aayana ki bagane untundhi okkasari trail veskoni rammani cheppu". She got offended when I addressed him "aayana" and told me if people refer to someone as aavida or aayana it's more like mocking them or sarcastically addressing them than respecting and added it's fine to address someone as aavida or aayana for elderly "strangers" but not elders of the family. If you want to address elders of the family call them babai/pinni/pednanna/pedamma etc.

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I was dumbfounded and asked my friends if they ever found themselves in these circumstances. Some people brushed it away saying it's rubbish and saying "pedhollu aithe intlo vallani aina bayata vallani aina aavida aayana anochu" but some people talked like my cousin.

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Here, I'm not taking sides and don't want to harm anyone. Just curious to know your take on this.

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So please enlighten me "Is referring someone as "aayana/aavida"offensive?"

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u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago

Is referring to someone as "ఆయన/ఆవిడ" offensive ?

So the context is, I went to the marriage shopping of my cousin's would-be husband. We were searching for good clothes until he arrived. He arrived after sometime then my cousin and he were looking for the clothes and I was helping them.

​

After sometime I looked at a blazer and told my cousin "Bava ki idhi baguntundhi choodu". She looked at it and told me it's too long for him so search for the next size. It was going good until then.

​

Then I said "Aayana ki bagane untundhi okkasari trail veskoni rammani cheppu". She got offended when I addressed him "aayana" and told me if people refer to someone as aavida or aayana it's more like mocking them or sarcastically addressing them than respecting and added it's fine to address someone as aavida or aayana for elderly "strangers" but not elders of the family. If you want to address elders of the family call them babai/pinni/pednanna/pedamma etc.

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I was dumbfounded and asked my friends if they ever found themselves in these circumstances. Some people brushed it away saying it's rubbish and saying "pedhollu aithe intlo vallani aina bayata vallani aina aavida aayana anochu" but some people talked like my cousin.

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Here, I'm not taking sides and don't want to harm anyone. Just curious to know your take on this.

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So please enlighten me "Is referring to someone as "/໙໖"offensive?"

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u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago

Is referring to someone as "ఆయన/ఆవిడ" offensive ?

So the context is, I went to the marriage shopping of my cousin's would-be husband. We were searching for good clothes until he arrived. He arrived after sometime then my cousin and he were looking for the clothes and I was helping them.

​

After sometime I looked at a blazer and told my cousin "Bava ki idhi baguntundhi choodu". She looked at it and told me it's too long for him so search for the next size. It was going good until then.

​

Then I said "Aayana ki bagane untundhi okkasari trail veskoni rammani cheppu". She got offended when I addressed him "aayana" and told me if people refer to someone as aavida or aayana it's more like mocking them than respecting them and added it's fine to address someone as aavida or aayana for elderly "strangers" but not elders of the family.

​

I was dumbfounded and asked my friends if they ever found themselves in these circumstances. Some people brushed it away saying it's rubbish and saying "pedhollu aithe intlo vallani aina bayata vallani aina aavida aayana anochu" but some people talked like my cousin.

​

Here, I'm not taking sides and don't want to harm anyone. Just curious to know your take on this.

​

So please enlighten me "Is referring to someone as "ఆయన/ఆవిడ"offensive?"

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u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago

I watched Surya s/o Krishnan and found this

Monna kanipinchavu song lo oka line untundhi

"తల వాల్చే ఎడమిచ్చవే" ani.

That line comes when Krishnan and Malini are in the theatre. It felt adorable.

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Then comes this scene when Krishnan comes home once he is discharged from hospital after his heart stroke. Krishnan will be resting on the LEFT side of Malini's shoulder.

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It might be a random shot but it felt intentional to me. Ippudu occhi ee vishayam director ki aina telusa ani nannu eskokandi.

u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago

I watched Surya son of Krishnan and found this

Monna kanipinchavu song lo oka line untundhi

"తల వాల్చే ఎడమిచ్చవే" ani appudu Krishnan and Malini theatre lo untaru it feels adorable.

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After some time this scene comes when Krishnan comes home discharged after his first heart stroke, Krishnan lies to the left of Malini..

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Maybe it might be a random shot, but it felt intentional to me. So ippudu vacchi ee vishayam director ki aina telusa ani nannu eskokandi..

u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago

I experienced Murphy's law

So for someone who doesn't know Murphy's law:

anything that can go wrong will go wrong.

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I planned to go to Nandi hills with my friends yesterday, a couple of days ago. Last night he called me and said he is not comina (classic friends being friends). But I was stubborn and decided to go alone. When I woke up and saw outside it was raining cats and dogs. I eventually gave up and went back to sleep.

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I woke up in the morning and decided to go to a movie, as I heard the talk was good for Backrooms and the seats were also available, I booked the tickets and rode to the theatre. The film worked for me in parts but wasn't worth the money. So I rode back home and was flipping through the OTT apps to watch a good film and saw 29. The reviews were good for that film in Letterboxd and thought of giving it a try. By the end of the film I felt the same as the other film which I watched in the morning.

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I put my clothes in the washing machine and went upstairs to dry them. The moment I put my clothes in the basket and stepped out it started to drizzle out of nowhere (classic Bengaluru weather).

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As I didn't have my lunch I was starving. Now the drizzle turned into a rain and unfortunately the food delivery apps were not accepting the orders. However after the rain stopped I thought of going out and having something. I stepped out and reached Dominos. As I was about to cross the road a guy in his bike rode swiftly before me and the water sprinkled on my legs. I simply smiled at myself and entered the shop. When I was about to give the order he said "place the order through the app". Frustrated, I sat on the table and tried installing the app but the signal wasn't there so I stepped out and installed the app. Now I was ready to place the order, selected the items and when I was about to pay it displayed "the items are unavailable". I went into the store and showed the boy. He was helpless and so was I. I came out and went to KFC.

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The moment I stepped in not only the restaurant but also the order kiosk was crowded. I patiently waited in the queue and placed the order. It was a sigh of relief. I went and sat on a chair waiting for my number. 20 minutes passed but my number wasn't called. My next member got his order but not me. So I went and asked the guy what the matter was. To add fuel to the fire he said he didn't receive the order. I kept my calm and showed my order slip. He checked and gave the order in the next 15 minutes.

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What looked like a 30 minute task took 2 hours to feed my starving stomach.

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u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago
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I experienced Murphy's law

So for someone who doesn't know Murphy's law:

anything that can go wrong will go wrong.

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I planned to go to Nandi hills with my friends today, a couple of days ago. Last night he called me and said he is not coming (classic friends being friends). But I was stubborn and decided to go alone. When I woke up and saw outside it was raining cats and dogs. I eventually gave up and went back to sleep. I woke up in the morning and decided to go to a movie, as I heard the talk was good for Backrooms and the seats were also available, I booked the tickets and rode to the theatre. The film worked for me in parts but wasn't worth the money. So I rode back home and was flipping through the OTT apps to watch a good film and saw 29. The reviews were good for that film in Letterboxd and thought of giving it a try. By the end of the film I felt the same as the other film which I watched in the morning. I put my clothes in the washing machine and went upstairs to dry them. The moment I put my clothes in the basket and stepped out it started to drizzle out of nowhere (classic Bengaluru weather). As I didn't have my lunch I was starving. Now the drizzle turned into a rain and unfortunately the food delivery apps were not accepting the orders. However after the rain stopped I thought of going out and having something. I stepped out and reached Dominos. As I was about to cross the road a guy in his bike rode swiftly before me and the water sprinkled on my legs. I simply smiled at myself and entered the shop. When I was about to give the order he said "place the order through the app". Frustrated, I sat on the table and tried installing the app but the signal wasn't there so I stepped out and installed the app. Now I was ready to place the order, selected the items and when I was about to pay it displayed "the items are unavailable". I went into the store and showed the boy. He was helpless and so was I. I came out and went to KFC. The moment I stepped in not only the restaurant but also the order kiosk was crowded. I patiently waited in the queue and placed the order. It was a sigh of relief. I went and sat on a chair waiting for my number. 20 minutes passed but my number wasn't called. My next member got his order but not me. So I went and asked the guy what the matter was. To add fuel to the fire he said he didn't receive the order. I kept my calm and showed my order slip. He checked and gave the order in the next 15 minutes.

What looked like a 30 minute task took 2 hours to feed my starving stomach.

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u/New_Cupcake_6226 — 1 month ago