u/No-Entrepreneur-1969

Do you gals like a man with a beard and does it improve their looks?

Can even the ugliest of men look better having a beard…

I’ve seen plenty of comments that beards are like makeup for men. Is it really true? Does a good beard make all men better looking and give you the confidence to attract the opposite sex?

Do women like men with ginger hair or is it an instant turn off?”

As someone with ginger hair and has been told that I’m ugly, most women have a type…tall dark and handsome.

Are women embarrassed if they were to like someone with ginger hair and their friends knew about it?

We’re not known as good looking and are always the least desirable when it comes to dating.

For many years us ginger men (and gals) have been made to feel ugly by so many people.

We are not what females desire in a man, the tall dark and handsome criteria cannot be matched. When in the company of females do you simply think they will not be interested in you and consider you ugly?

In my head I have these thoughts that girls think ..eww he’s ginger and ugly no way would I ever go near him. To the point it feels embarrassing even thinking they could be interested in you.

How do you get over it? The self esteem for us ginger people is low 😩

Recently out of a long term relationship and having casual sex with a female friend who herself has been put through the wringer by someone who left her around 5 months ago.

We message each other daily and meet up usually once a week to spend time together. Both admitted that we like each other and there’s a connection but she is concerned about being too vulnerable due to her previous relationships and wants to take things extra slow. Doesn’t like labels nor the pressure. Right now we are friends, nothing more.

Yet we have shared so much personal stuff together and both have feelings.

Is this something that can ever progress given time? I don’t want to push her away.

Are we fwb or more? I have no idea

First one was from a fat chavy girl. She almost fell down the stairs when the bus stopped. They were all laughing about it and I gave her a friendly smile as if to say "Whoops". She called me ginger. I figured we were playing a game of "Mention each others traits" so I pointed out that she was quite overweight.

Apparently we were not playing that game.

Later on some drunk guy just kept shouting RANGA at me. Which was nice in the middle of a club.

Then walking home another drunk chav gave me my all time favorite insult ever in the world.

As I was walking away he shouted "GINGERS SMELL OF CABBAGE AND PISSSSSSS"

It was the funniest insult I've ever received. A++