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My bf proposed to me early in our relashinship which I loved bc I already knew we were getting married. We had been best friends for 5 years before and both were in love with each other and I love him so much . Basically he was saving the ring for another time but we were at silent disco and he says “it was an impulsive decision but I just saw how happy you looked because you love musicals” and he feels horrible and like he wasted it. I always tell him it’s the cutest thing ever that he couldn’t wait because he saw how happy I was but he always gets so sad but I literally don’t care whether I did it I love him. How can I make him feel better (sorry for the Grammer I’m a bit tipsy)

I have three really great friends but I always Lose my friends (been friends for 5 years) they’re the best but I’m scared I’m going to lose them like I do everybody else. but basically I just lost an old friend 30 months ago because apparently I was stalking them. They went to treatment in February and the other day I texted their mom asking if they were OK and if I could be put in their contact list and they said yes, and I also contacted their friend and their girlfriend who commented on their last posting that they miss him saying that I’ll ask if they can be put on the contact list and I was just trying to help but I texted my friend cause I got their phone and the first time they spoke to me in five months was that I was not allowed to contact our family and they were being rlly mean and I felt bad and I was never allowed to talk to their mom and I didn’t know and they never told me this before so I apologize and then they just messaged me on TikTok saying that I was stalking them apparently when I wasn’t, I just checked their account once every couple weeks while they were gone to see if they are home yet and then I just lost a whole friend group because something I didn’t even do.

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In the Bible, it explicitly states sexist takes like women must bow down to men and be punished to death just to love differently.
Timothy 2:12 – "I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet."
Leviticus 18:22 – "Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable."
Leviticus 20:13 – "If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death..."
I am a Hellenic pagan and feel free to share opinions but Christianity was made for straight white men you burn down our temples and turned Athena’s temple into a Christian church destroyed our statues and so much more. You can not have conditions on the term “love thy neighbor” it’s not cherry-picking. Feel free to debate I’m open to any opinion :)!

In the Bible, it explicitly states sexist takes like women must bow down to men and be punished to death just to love differently.
Timothy 2:12 – "I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet."
Leviticus 18:22 – "Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable."
Leviticus 20:13 – "If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death..."
I am a Hellenic pagan and feel free to share opinions but Christianity was made for straight white men you burn down our temples and turned Athena’s temple into a Christian church destroyed our statues and so much more. You can not have conditions on the term “love thy neighbor” it’s not cherry-picking. Feel free to debate I’m open to any opinion :)!

My friend Jay pressured me into helping them shoplift alcohol from Trader Joe’s twice, even though I didn’t want to. (the way they made me help them was basically just stand on their side while they put alcohol in their bag which actually would get me in trouble if they got caught )

Jay has a history of substance issues and was supposed to be sober, which I didn't know at first. but they promised me it was only for a little bit of alcohol on their birthday and since they stole wine, I thought they’d only have a couple glasses once I found out and I thought they told my friend Hailey, who is usually very reasonable and said “if it’s for their birthday, then it’s OK.” Hailey knows Jay better than I do so I thought It was fine but even when I didn’t wanna do it or would walk away as of to say I don’t wanna do it or tell them directly. They would cuss me out and tell me not to fucking walk away and leave them.
Later, because I was stressed out and trying to act cool, I made a mistake and tried to steal a few bracelets at Michael’s. We got caught by employees, I panicked, and Jay completely flipped on me—cussing me out and telling me to go deal with it cussing me out a lot and then I started crying in front of the employees, and the employee felt bad for me and said as long as I put it back because I didn’t leave with anything and I left the bag, I stole the bracelets from in the store before I left then they won’t call the police and she felt bad.
Now, the entire friend group has kicked me out and stopped talking to me, including my childhood friend Hailey of 13 years. They completely excused Jay’s behavior because Jay promised them they would stop drinking, but they put all the blame on me and cut me off. I know I was wrong for what I did at Michael's, but it feels incredibly unfair that Jay got off completely fine while I lost all my friends. And then Jay was acting like they weren’t in the wrong even though they made me help them steal alcohol and stand by their side, so the security cameras wouldn’t see that they were stealing alcohol. (I find a lot of stuff wrong with this especially because they get let off for promising. They won’t drink again since that’s what they said the first two times to the group without me knowing and the whole time they were pressuring me to steal alcohol they were completely capable of handing handling themselves responsibly because they are fully sober. I never interacted with them when they were drunk. I’m thinking of calling the stores they stole from with an anonymous report and photos of them so next time they try to do this which I know they will because they lied about not doing it again the first two times they’ll have a fun talk with the police like they did to me so yeah. I probably shouldn’t do it though cause I know I’m not thinking straight right now but I just thought it was kind of funny even though it’s really petty and two wrongs don’t make it right.

My friend Jay pressured me into helping them shoplift alcohol from Trader Joe’s twice, even though I didn’t want to. Jay has a history of substance issues and was supposed to be sober, which I didn't know at first.
Later, because I was stressed out and trying to act cool, I made a mistake and tried to steal a few bracelets at Michael’s. We got caught by employees, I panicked, put the bag down and ran out of the store, so I technically didn’t leave with anything and Jay completely flipped on me—cussing me out and telling me to go deal with the staff, I talked with the Michael staff and I started crying and so the lady felt bad and told me that I wasn’t in trouble as long as I put the stuff down and I know I’m also in the wrong but now no one‘s mad at Jay for stealing alcohol and bullying me into stealing alcohol and the second time they want to steal alcohol. I contacted Hailey cause they said that they were only gonna do it for their birthday so they could have alcohol with her boyfriend on their birthday and since they stole wine, I thought it meant a couple glasses of wine, but Hailey said it was only for their birthday so it was basically fine And so I said OK even though I didn’t want to
Now, the entire friend group has kicked me out and stopped talking to me, including my childhood friend Hailey of 13 years. They completely excused Jay’s behavior because Jay promised them they would stop drinking, but they put all the blame on me and cut me off. I know I was wrong for what I did at Michael's, but it feels incredibly unfair that Jay got off completely fine while I lost all my friends.
EDIT: Also, I know I’m not really thinking straight right now and it’s really petty and too wrong to make a right, but I had the idea to call the location. Jay stole from and given an anonymous reports with photos of them so next time they try to do this because I know they didn’t mean they stopped drinking cause they already said that two times and that one of the reason that caused the situation, I just thought it would be kind of funny