Should I take him serious

Should I take him serious

Context: i’m met this guy, we hung out and everything was going great, before meeting him, he would rarely text me back. After the date, this is still a reoccurring issue of him barely texting me. I asked him if this connection is worth trying and he said it is.

My interpreting: I feel I shouldn’t engage in the connection. It seems that he is detached.

u/No-Mall8142 — 14 days ago

My roomate has gotten too comfortable

Hello! I am a freshman in college, and I decided to live on campus because I wanted a sense of independence. I have two roommates, and we share a suite with a kitchen, bathroom, and one walk-in closet. Our bedrooms are all connected and located within the same space.

I’m a pretty friendly, nonjudgmental person, and I really strive to maintain a peaceful environment. I immediately grew close to both of my roommates because of our shared humor and our love for going on adventures around campus. However, I feel like being so friendly has created a space where my roommate A (what we’ll refer to her as) feels comfortable crossing my boundaries.
My other roommate, B, is rarely in the dorm because her mother lives fairly close to campus, so she spends most of her time at home. Even when she is around, though, she’s receptive to criticism and willing to solve problems, so we’ve never really had any issues.

Roommate A, on the other hand, is somewhat entitled. Most of the shared space we have is taken up by her. She takes up the majority of the closet space and a lot of the space in our bedroom. She also doesn’t contribute as much as my other roommate and I do. For example, my other roommate and I are usually the ones putting groceries in the kitchen or buying dishes. Roommate A hasn’t purchased any cleaning supplies and often uses mine. I don’t mind sharing, but it becomes frustrating when she continuously uses things without contributing.

Yesterday, after class, I came back to the dorm and caught her sitting on my bed while talking on the phone. This honestly annoyed me. I didn’t really know what to say because I didn’t want to confront her and create unnecessary tension, but I was highly irritated. It’s my personal space, and I don’t understand why she felt comfortable enough to just sit on my bed without asking.

Another instance was when I noticed that she had put her SHOES on my shoe rack. Mind you, this shoe rack was built by my grandfather. It’s not something provided by housing, and it’s something that belongs specifically to me. She also has her own shoe rack, so I genuinely don’t understand why she felt the need to use mine.

Today, she came into the dorm after class and threw her bag on my bed. I got up and moved it onto the floor because I was laying down, and the bag was pretty big and taking up a lot of space.
At this point, I honestly don’t know what the fuck her issue is. Did I make her feel too comfortable? I genuinely don’t know how I did, because I don’t do these things to her. I would never just sit on her bed, put my belongings on her things, or assume I could use her personal belongings without asking.
I just feel like she’s starting to disrespect my boundaries, and it’s becoming really annoying. I don’t want to create tension or make the living situation uncomfortable, but at the same time, I feel like being friendly and easygoing has made her think that I don’t have boundaries. And I’m realizing that I probably need to make those boundaries clear before the situation gets worse.

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u/No-Mall8142 — 1 month ago
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Will he attempt to reconcile ?

I feel the cards may suggest communication, (ace of swords and 8 of wands) what do you guys think? I’m not too sure lol

u/No-Mall8142 — 1 month ago

Does he believe the baby belongs to him?

Ten of cups clarified by the page of swords.
3 of coins clarified by the 5 of cups
3 of wands clarified by the ten of swords (this card keeps reoccurring.

Hi guys I found out I was pregnant, and I informed him, he doesn’t believe the baby is his but offered to pay for an abortion and got upset when I intended on keeping it. I wanted to know if he believed the child was his.

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago

Will he responds to my message telling him I’m pregnant.

Hi guys I just found out I was pregnant this morning, I’m very distressed, I just want to cry. I’m so scared to text him. I don’t know what to do. Anything will help. What do you guys get from these cards? (I probably shouldn’t have pulled but I can’t afford a reading rn , I’m also a college student lol. )

Update: he blocked me

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago
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Does he wants to reach out?

Hi loves, I decided to pull some cards for my friend for some late night entertainment and practice, I’d honestly say he’s trying to keep the emotional distance and stay in control (king of swords) the other cards have me stuck, is he exploring other options and potential partnerships? What do you guys think?💓

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago

Does he want to end our connection for good?

My close friend and I had a dispute , he blocked me and I wanted to know if the friendship was over for good. We rarely had issues, lots of miss communication.

I feel he’s thinking with his head rather than his heart, there’s some regret and disappointment, I feel he’s a limbo .

The overall tone was the two of wands.

What do you guys suggest?

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago

Will he reach out next month?

I pulled some cards for my sister as I’m trying to practice, unfortunately I have no life😂. For context, they aren’t in communication and haven’t been for roughly 2 weeks.

My interpretation: I feel he may move on? But I’m a little confused with the ace of swords, that’s a communication/clarity card in my opinion, what do you guys think? I clarified the world with two of wands

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago

Why did he want to stop the sexual connection?

Hello everyone I decided to read for my friend, for context she was seeing this guy sexually, he began stating that he wanted to start a celibacy journey, but prior they had agreed to be friends with benefits. She did admit to him she was catching feelings, later on she found out he was actually having intercourse with another women while claiming to be celibate . This reading was for entertainment purposes . I’m also trying to practice reading for others

My interpretation: I would say he didn’t want to commit, maybe things started becoming too serious or complicated for his liking. What do you guys think?👀👀👀

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago

How can I move on from this connection?

Hi guys, I need to move on but I don’t know where to start, I asked my cards. I feel the message was straightforward.

I feel the reading suggest, grieve it, understand it , close it, what do you guys think? I’m ready to move on and heal

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago

Her current mental state regarding no contact?

  1. King of cups, calm and composed and in control
  2. 7 of wants. On guard, she’s refusing to break silence and lower her guard.
  3. 4 of cups: this card gives me two interpretations. Either she’s disinterested in reconnecting, or her pride leads her to a state of bored apathy. Protecting her ego although it may not bring any satisfaction ?

I find it interesting to see the king of cups and 4 of cups. Is she choosing to suppress what she feels rather than process it or openly communicate. What do you guys think this reading suggests? I haven’t tried reaching out or anything. Just letting things be

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago

Should I begin searching for another job?

Hi guys, I currently dislike my job, it’s too physically demanding and it’s too much drama. The drama doesn’t bother me honestly, I have a tendency to ignore negativity. It’s just extremely tiring, I dread going to work everyday. Maybe that’s just apart of adulthood lol!

Tower- I feel this represents an unstable foundation something falling apart and becoming unstable.
3 of coins: collaboration, skills and contributions
Then 6 of wands: having more options than I thought, success,

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago

Will her ex reach out?

I decided to do a practice reading for my friend during our girls night, the question was regarding if her ex would reach out.

The king of swords is logical and stern, but the fool is the opposite, does it suggest a calculated movement towards a new beginning or him moving on. He may be indecisive about leaving things in the past or reopening something that's ended. The two of cups and nine of cups, does that suggest him moving on and living his best life. I'm a little confused. What do you guys think?

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago

Are we done for good?

Hello everyone decided to whip out my tarot decl and do some love readings. I asked my deck if we were done for good (I mainly pulled from his energy) .

My interpretation: he may have felt ending things was the right decision. He’s thinking rationally rather than emotionally. I feel he may be holding onto some disappointment, but not acting upon it. I clarified the king of cups with the two of coins. Is he trying to figure out how to manage those emotions ? What do you guys think?

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago
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Will he want to try a relationship again ? Interpretation assistance 💓

For context, I went through his phone and he was upset about it, we got into an argument and later we somewhat reconciled. I asked the cards if he would want to try a relationship again.

Based of the cards I don’t see him properly evaluating the situation, almost seemingly rushing into the situation and considering himself (the chariot and knight of wands). The ten of cups to me suggest emotionally stability, happiness, maybe that’s why he will rush into things. I’m a little confused on the 5 of wands and 7 of cups, could that represent him having options?

u/No-Mall8142 — 2 months ago

Will he reach out next week?

I pulled the 5 of swords, the devil clarified by the eight of cups and last card was the ten of cups.

The five of swords is fitting, we got into an argument and he decided to end things. The devil represents unhealthy connections obsessions, I clarified it with the eight of cups, does this signal him walking away from the unhealthy connection? The ten of cups is happiness. I don’t want to be bias with my interpretation. What do you guys think?

Context: our connection wasn’t really unhealthy, some miscommunication but we got along very well.

u/No-Mall8142 — 3 months ago

Why is he ignoring me?

Hi guys! I decided to do a reading out of boredom, my talking stage had ended yesterday and I decided to ask why he was ignoring my message I sent.
Death- perhaps he feels things are over and this is the final chapter.
Eight of swords + moon= uh maybe he's not sure what to feel regarding the situation. Confused or overwhelmed.
Page of wands- he's out living his life lol. Exploring options?
What do you guys think. Also I love this space! You all are so helpful

u/No-Mall8142 — 3 months ago

Does anyone here offer cartomancy readings?

Hi guys! Honestly I’m tired of receiving tarot readings, I would love to offer a donation for a cartomancy reading❤️! I can pay via cashapp. Please dm me

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u/No-Mall8142 — 3 months ago

Will he come back to me?

Hi loves my situationship ended and I decided to pull some cards for some practice and insight. We ended due to miscommunication honestly.
Things ended on his terms. Everything was pretty swell, we got along well💓

6 of wands-relates to the ego, of feeling of victory, Justice- doing the right thing, balance, justice 5 of cups- grieving, saddness, regret
10 cups- happiness, harmony, emotionally content
8 of wands- actions, messages coming through (my card for communication)
I'm fairly new so l'd appreciate your guys interpretation along with advice. Thanks so much I love this space dearly

Maybe he feels like he did the right thing and made the correct choice, although he does seem to grieve the connection.

u/No-Mall8142 — 3 months ago

Are we done for good?

Hi lovely people I decided to ask my cards if him and I were done for good.
Context, we had gotten into an argument and ended things. The argument was over miscommunication honestly.
The cards I pulled: page of swords, knight of wands, the world, the strength and nine of swords (clarified by the 6 of swords and 4 of coins)
I'm a still learning so your interpretations are greatly appreciated.
l'a honestly say yes, the world alone tells me so.

I’m a little nervous about giving my interpretation, sometimes I can be biased and unfortunately I’ve gotten attacked for it.

u/No-Mall8142 — 3 months ago