Embrace the power of your womanhood

Embrace the power of your womanhood

Bro WTF are you on about? 🤣 I don't even know which post of mine led to this message. I rarely even mention/imply that I'm a woman in posts. (I haven't posted a picture of myself for a while now either.)

How would they even know if I hadn't 'embraced my womanhood' or not? Do they think that the reason I have problems in life is because I haven't and I would be 100% good if I did so there's no way I could have problems if I had already? Idk what embracing my womanhood' even means but none of my problems or insecurities have to do with me being a woman.(Unless you count other people's behavior into that.)

I am completely comfortable with my 'womanhood.' 🤷 My female body is the literal least of my worries. (Well except for the fact that periods suck ass. Could do without those.) Though I don't dress up or wear makeup and stuff so maybe to them I haven't embraced my womanhood lol. Not that I've mentioned that any where before now, so again why makes them think I haven't anyway??? 🤣🤣🤣

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 13 days ago

I have the exact same best time for Trial by Blood story and nightmare mode.

For story mode I had to redo once to get 100% then I later did nightmare mode and ended up with the exact same time. Hasn't happened for any of the other ones. Part of me wants to redo missions to get a better time and part of me wants to leave it like this lol.

It's my birthday today and I'm spending it playing Crime scene cleaner lol. For the most part.

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 13 days ago

"Sunlight fixes everything."

Yes I know that they said it fixes everything that other people don't seem to have a problem with. Rather than just it fixes everything. I just took that first part for the title. Either way what do you mean it fixes EVERYTHING that other people don't have a problem with? I still don't see how that makes sense. It's essentially the same thing just directed to people who struggle with it?

I never said I get NO sunlight anywhere btw. I don't get enough but by no means do I get none. Are they saying if I get enough sun and exercise in a day I WILL sleep on time that same day? Not sure what 'enough' is but I did go to a festival recently where I was doing a lot of walking in the sun so...

If I wake up past sunset, I can't exactly go out in the sun that day unless I wait until sunrise. I'd rather get going out over with 'early' than wait until I should be going to sleep if I want to have any chance of fixing my sleep schedule again. I'm already trying hard enough just to go out at all. Did they miss the part where I've fixed it so many times before? I don't know man. It's not like I've never had a good sleep schedule before ever. I struggle to go out and get sunlight because things are already hard for me. Not just I can't fix things because I don't get enough sun (and exercise.)

Am I overthinking this or something? I'm more confused than anything here. Lol.

(I'm OP and this was on an Autism Facebook group.)

Edit: Also the fact that they said that will lead to going to sleep on time when that wasn't even the full issue. I slept more that day as I put that I had woken up later even though I went to sleep earlier.

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 15 days ago

The Slippery Slope Fallacy

There are a lot of better ways to try to argue against AI. This seems very poorly made and doesn't really make sense the way it's presented.

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 22 days ago

Reasons vs excuses...

Not sure how I feel about this one, it's not like the advice itself is bad but... That comment literally made me cry rather than give me any sort of motivation to shower. It feels like such a dismissive and overly simplistic response to a very real struggle... The assumption that it WILL take under 5 minutes or 12 minutes overall like that's a fact is what's most aggravating. That's not been my experience EVER.

I never understood the line between reasons and excuses either. I really mean that. I genuinely don't understand. It's confusing as heck. I don't know what's right or wrong... Am i not allowed to explain anything about why something might be difficult for me? Or not allowed to vent when I'm upset about my circumstances? The circumstances of my life suck, other people make things difficult, executive dysfunction, anxiety, rigidity, ect. Ect. (It's not anyone else's fault, it's just how it is.)

I can't help how I FEEL about it. KIND advice is welcome even when I know it won't help change my circumstances. Nobody can know everything about how and why I struggle. I didn't ask for advice, I WAS in fact venting. I do want to change this but when posting on Facebook I want to VENT about it. NOT get advice. If it was that easy I wouldn't struggle in the first place.

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 1 month ago

What can be done about my sister's bad parenting?

So I live with my mom, my sister and my niece (sister's daughter) and my sister constantly mistreats my niece. CAS was already in involved for issues related to my niece's father. It was unrelated to my sister but me and my mom have no kept anything from them about my sister's parenting either. They've seen how she lives and they know of how my sister treats her. CAS has closed the case at this point I think. They helped my sister with cleaning somewhat but that's about it...

I don't have a number and me and my mom are both very anxious with phone calls as well. We all have a lot of issues that makes things difficult in taking care of a child and the house and such...

Should we be contacting them specifically for this issue now even though they've closed the case while knowing these things? How responsible are me and my mom considered legally by living together with her? Could we get help from CAS as well to improve her living conditions?

I just want my niece to grow up loved and cared for but I don't know how any of us can provide for her properly. I never wanted a child, my mom is getting older and thought she was done rasing kids and somehow we still treat her better than the one who actually had her and wanted a child since she was very young. Yet we still don't know how to take care of her well or give her a good environment, especially with my sister's actions making her harder to deal with. If my sister knew how to handle her child, I would be more willing to help her as she could tell me what works and what doesn't and she wouldn't have as much of a problem with hitting or misbehaving.

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u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 1 month ago

"How to restart your life."

In response to a relatively positive post I made. If only it was that easy... Like sure these are good things but restarting your life? Resetting your mind and body? 🤨 Bit of an exaggeration there bud.

The problem is usually more people not having the mental/emotional/physical ability to do all those things anyway. If I could just choose to do all that and have the motivation to do all that and completely reset my life without outside help, I wouldn't have anxiety or ADHD or depression ect. Executive Dysfunction literally works against me doing things like this. 🤷🤦

I'm not saying this whole thing is necessary bad, it's just... overly simplistic and seemingly promising the impossible by saying extremes like restarting your life and not just improving it. I'm sure you could do all these and still struggle and not feel "reset."

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 2 months ago
▲ 3 r/aiwars

Anti folks, is someone that defends AI just as 'bad' as someone that uses it?

If they defend it without using it themselves that is. Or what about someone who used AI in the past but stopped? Or someone 'trying' to stop using AI? Someone confused about AI? Ect.

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u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 2 months ago

Family bug problems (vent post)

THREE PICS OF THE BUGS AT THE END

More of a vent post than anything but idk. I live with my mom, my sister and my 6 year old niece. We're at the end of our rope. Been dealing with them on and off for since I was little. Grew up with bedbugs and now my niece is growing up with them too and a mother who doesn't take care of her properly. (CPS was already involved from the start for issues with the father and has known about all the other circumstances.)

We're all mentally ill and never learned proper life skills. Probably disabled too if ADHD counts which I STILL am trying to get a diagnosis for... Could be autistic too but I'm not trying to self diagnose. My father left my mom and moved out leaving her with a bunch of stuff that was technically his to deal with too. Or at least theirs. So much stuff accumulated that the bugs can get into and we have to go through or whatever. Not hoarders but hard to get rid of perfectly usable things or figure out just how to do it at all. I barley have gained any items as an adult because I don't want to add to anything.

Delete if not allowed

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 2 months ago

Made this my Xbox background, does anyone remember when she gives this dialogue?

I want a version without the UI and I want to take screenshots with different princesses when she says this quote. (Here it's Thorn) Anyone have pictures of this specifically or remember when exactly she says this line? So that I can get specific princess when she has this line available? (Which number princess it is and what dialogue option triggers it.)

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 2 months ago

You're blessed actually

Does this belong here? Feels like a bit of a thanksI'mcured comment to me. Apparently I have simple problems and I am blessed.

They do NOT really wish they had my 'simple problems' because this post is barley scratching the surface. As if I actually just have only these problems and that's it?

Part of my problem literally is emotional deregulation and rigidity so of course simple things can throw me off. Nobody wants to have mental breakdown over a fizzy soda can or a dropped spoon. Even when it is simple outwardly it's not simple internally because I literally can't regulate my emotions like that. And sometimes something simple is just the last straw and it only feels like that's what you got upset over.

They are making a lot of assumptions based off a simple post. That 'friend' and I already have a complicated relationship and if I had other people irl I might not even want to see him anymore. It's a good excuse to go out though, see him play video game stuff and get free food and free alcohol. So it's better than none. Still doesn't mean I'm exactly blessed to have him be my only irl friend.

I am grateful for what I have but my problems are not and have never been simple. It would take paragraphs upon paragraphs to detail them all, starting since childhood.

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 2 months ago
▲ 6 r/aiArt

Mental conflict/Mental illness

Which one do you like best? I'm been trying to get a few different versions to visually represent some of my struggles. I don't like every aspect of how these images ended up or how the thoughts are presented but I do like parts of them all. I think visually I like the first one best but for thought bubbles maybe the 3rd? Though I'd cut off some of the very bottom ones and not have two mentioning AI. The second to last is song lyrics from different songs by Citizen Soldier. (except one where it kept "I should get a job") The last one was mostly a mistake because I put the prompt in a new chat and it didn't have the previous context for me.

Hope I don't get eaten alive for this post! 😀 If it's not for AI use (which it isn't here of course) then there's still plenty of other things to judge me on... 😅

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 2 months ago

Vandalism is A-Okay if it's against AI

Should have taken a screenshot of some of the comments too but you can imagine I'm sure. Objectively it looks worse with the graffiti. 🤷 Even if there is mistakes that would bug me in the original. It's a literal daycare, such a bad look to graffiti over it. I can imagine kids being upset over their sign being ruined with no idea as to why.

Doesn't want kids put into gen AI which I can maybe see, but if pictures of kids are going to be out there anyway... Isn't it kind of better to use fake kids for things like this if you care about protecting identities? Once it's AI'd they aren't showing real kids.

Can anyone tell me what the whole thing even says? I can read most it but it's hard to read, which really doesn't help buddy's case either.

Edit: Apparently it is fake, which is relief I guess. Though I can imagine this actually happening, at least this one didn't if that's the case.

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 2 months ago

Smeared dog poop has more life than AI

I'm usually somewhere in the middle when it comes to AI. I see both sides most of the time. Though leaning more towards AI use. This however is something I can not understand. How on earth would that be more creative? If ANYTHING they'd be at the same level creativity wise if you want to say there's no creativity in AI because there certainly isn't in that either... Second guy has a point with it being organic though. 🤣

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 2 months ago

Can I ask what your stance on AI is and how you got into using it?

By stance I don't mean if you are for or against since this is a pro AI sub, I want to know what your opinions are within being pro AI. Such as do you called yourself an "AI artist" or not? Do you believe AI should always be disclosed? Do you think people should ever pay for AI content? (Like an art commission or AI made piece of media) Ect. Tell me your opinion on Ai in your own words!

Not everyone on one side thinks same so I'm very curious to see possible differing opinions even within this community. I've been pretty torn for a while now on how I feel about AI use but I'm not an anti and use AI daily to create story scenarios. As well as use it for AI art of OC characters. I personally wouldn't really call myself an artist for it and I wouldn't post it publicly (unless on pro Ai subs specifically so I'm not down voted to oblivion) or claim it as my not an AI art.

I might be a bit addicted and should cut down on my own Ai use but I wouldn't want to stop completely and I don't think people who use it are immoral. (That would be hypocritical anyway.) I really like the things I've created and how I now have images for my OC characters I've had in my head since childhood.

Not posting this in AIwars because I don't want to be bombarded with the other side's opinions. I just want to hear from within this community.

Also I HATE HATE HATE the anti arguments around disabled people. It's so goddam ableist. Even if I was an anti those arguments would still make my blood boil. How do they not see that!?

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u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 2 months ago

"Be grateful your skin is fully in tact."

I guess I'm not allowed to struggle with showering because at least I have access to a shower...? 😓 And my skin is intact...?

There was more to the image, I didn't want to show the full thing. It really upset me. Am I crazy or should I not be made to feel guilty for my own struggles because other people have it way worse?

How far would this even go? What is acceptable to complain about then? I'm sure plenty of people struggle even worse than I do but still have access to a shower and have their skin in tact...

Apparently I should feel privileged even though I struggle with stuff like anxiety, depression, executive dysfunction (ADHD and possibly Autism), maybe OCD... (Idk yet, possibilities). Never got help when I was younger, still trying to get diagnosed at 25, grew up on welfare, was never taught life skills, dealt with bedbugs my whole life... Ect.

But yeah I should be feeling grateful because I CAN shower and it doesn't physically hurt to. There's no reason I shouldn't be able to shower. I guess I'm just too stupid in the head to do anything right. Even shower regularly. 🤷😭 (I am not being 100% sarcastic.)

(Added): Don't get me wrong I am glad things aren't worse but I can't exactly just not struggle because other people have it worse. It also doesn't make me happy to hear about how horrible these people are suffering. Am I supposed to say "Yay I have it better than them, go me!" and suddenly feel happy and privileged because others are suffering worse? I just don't understand them replaying to my post with something like this.

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 2 months ago
▲ 16 r/aifails

Character Ai fail, Is there any way to interpret this? 🤣

I accidentally swiped for a new response at the beginning and this is what I got. 🤣 I love how it starts off with like a normal sentence and then just devolves into almost complete gibberish. Just random words strung together as well as 'words' that don't exist? I think? Plus random Japanese? And some words other languages maybe?

u/No-Outlandishness-42 — 3 months ago