[29/F]Correspondent

Looking for some email pen pals. A little about me, curious adventurer. Avid hobby hopper(harmonica currently) hiker, reader, and foodie( I have gut issues so prob will lament over that)

From Fl > ME> MA, looking to move again. I’m a suburban girl stuck in the city- give me recs if you moved around also.

I like mini puzzles, sudoku, trivia(daily tens), and wordle

I enjoy traveling, hoping to check out more of the east coast and usually take one international trip for my birthday.

Love games/challenge based shows, romantic comedies, and brain-rot reality tv.

Tell me how’s your summer’s been so far.
Last good book you read / podcast that surprised you.A recipe you’ve recreated recently…

Open to anyone -U.S and international. Would prefer women/non-binary.

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u/No_Listen4910 — 5 days ago

Epistolary Gem

Recently read & loved everything about it- from the book cover to the dedication.

Looking for other books centered on grief or other letter-based novels.

Thanks!

u/No_Listen4910 — 5 days ago
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Dating Cadence

I’ve finally started dating after a long hiatus and I’m wondering if my communication expectations are unrealistic. It is weird to expect daily communication- swapping of memes, brief check-in, or just radio silence between dates?

I know lean more anxious but how else are you suppose to build rapport with someone.

Maybe they’re just not that interested? Funny how they still push to have sex, like at least pretend to like me 🤣

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u/No_Listen4910 — 16 days ago

Loved 🥰

I feel like some books just find you at the right time! As a dark skinned woman, this made me question my colorist beliefs ( the idea that light- skinned curvy women are predominantly black mens’ preference) and reflect on how it’s effecting my romantic connections.

u/No_Listen4910 — 16 days ago
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29,F4M, MA,- Jam, Eggs & Good Conversation

Looking to connect with a kind, thoughtful man. I’m 29, living in New England (hopefully moving soon 😅), and figured starting to date feels like a good next step.

I love a good sitcom — favorites include Living Single, Half & Half, and Seinfeld. You’ll usually find me reading, sketching, doing sudoku, calculating my coast FIRE numbers, or deep into TV/YouTube (currently into Farmer Wants a Wife, Will Trent, and The Testaments).

A few random facts: I love jam and eggs for breakfast, I’m trying to cut back on tea (wish me luck), and I’m equal parts athletic and artsy. My perfect weekend? A hike, museum, movie, spa day, restaurant, or comedy show — bonus points if we can do a mix of cozy and adventurous.

I’m introverted and a little shy at first, but warm once I’m comfortable. Looking for someone who prefers vn, ft, and phone calls over text.

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u/No_Listen4910 — 1 month ago

Reintroduction Buddy

Starting my reintroduction phase later this month. Looking for an accountability buddy to share recipes and tips with.

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u/No_Listen4910 — 2 months ago

I’ve been living in Boston for 4 years and honestly haven’t made any real friends here. I also haven’t liked most of the jobs I’ve had, and my mental health has been rough for a while.

Recently I started meds, which makes me wonder if maybe I should stay longer and see if things improve. Part of me thinks if I put more effort into building community, dating, and creating a life outside of work, maybe Boston would finally feel different — especially now that spring is finally here.

At the same time, my old job in Boston has asked me to come back. It’s a stable city job with decent pay and really good work/life balance. I left 2 years ago because I knew I didn’t want to stay in that industry long term, and I still feel that way. But the stability sounds appealing right now, especially because I don’t currently have a job lined up in FL.

The complicated part is I don’t have the best relationship with my family, but if I moved back I could rest and apply to job in a better mental state.

I know I'm just lonely but not sure family support will help? I can’t tell if Boston just isn’t for me, or if I’ve been too overwhelmed mentally to actually enjoy it.

Has anyone else been stuck between wanting a fresh start and wanting to stay long enough for things to finally click?

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u/No_Listen4910 — 2 months ago