Bday gift

Not sure what to get for my male trainer. Need recs!!

So far he has gotten a 3 jo Malone perfume full size bottle

1 full size Lelabo

$600 cash for Christmas and DJI 3 Osmo

And for his bday last year I got him goyard gm at Louis tote and FENDI Cassette cross body bag

He also got a bottega cassette cross body bag from me already. I wasn’t using it so I gave it to him

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Bday gift

Not sure what to get for my male trainer. Need recs!!

So far he has gotten a 3 jo Malone perfume full size bottle

1 full size Lelabo

$600 cash for Christmas and DJI 3 Osmo

And for his bday last year I got him goyard gm at Louis tote and FENDI Cassette cross body bag

He also got a bottega cassette cross body bag from me already. I wasn’t using it so I gave it to him

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u/Objective_Poetry6388 — 2 days ago

DUI

On May 31st I got my first DUI. My car was totalled. There were no injuries, no one was in the car but me and no one was hit. I did get a lawyer to help me. I live in Marin County.

What should I expect?

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u/Objective_Poetry6388 — 27 days ago

Trainer

I’m a male client, and I think I’ve fallen for my male trainer a little harder than I intended.

He’s been my trainer for about two years now. During the first year, there were no romantic feelings at all. But sometime last year, I started noticing how comfortable he seemed around me. He would casually lift his shirt when scratching his stomach, and there was even a time during a session in a more private training area when he took his shirt off and draped it around his neck. We also discovered that we have a lot in common—shopping being one of them, surprisingly enough.

Over time, I became very comfortable around him, and I feel like he became comfortable around me as well. As our trainer-client relationship developed, I found myself looking forward to our sessions more and more, and eventually I realized that my feelings for him had grown stronger than I expected.

The difficult part is that I’m a married man and have been married for the past three years. I care about my marriage, but I can’t ignore the fact that I’ve developed feelings for my trainer.

What should I do? Should I switch trainers, move to a different gym, or simply acknowledge my feelings and let them pass?

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u/Objective_Poetry6388 — 27 days ago

Trainer

I’m a male client, and I think I’ve fallen for my male trainer a little harder than I intended.

He’s been my trainer for about two years now. During the first year, there were no romantic feelings at all. But sometime last year, I started noticing how comfortable he seemed around me. He would casually lift his shirt when scratching his stomach, and there was even a time during a session in a more private training area when he took his shirt off and draped it around his neck. We also discovered that we have a lot in common—shopping being one of them, surprisingly enough.

Over time, I became very comfortable around him, and I feel like he became comfortable around me as well. As our trainer-client relationship developed, I found myself looking forward to our sessions more and more, and eventually I realized that my feelings for him had grown stronger than I expected.

The difficult part is that I’m a married man and have been married for the past three years. I care about my marriage, but I can’t ignore the fact that I’ve developed feelings for my trainer.

What should I do? Should I switch trainers, move to a different gym, or simply acknowledge my feelings and let them pass?

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u/Objective_Poetry6388 — 27 days ago

DUI

On May 31st I got my first DUI. My car was totalled. There were no injuries, no one was in the car but me and no one was hit. I did get a lawyer to help me. I live in Marin County.

What should I expect?

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u/Objective_Poetry6388 — 27 days ago
▲ 4 r/u_Objective_Poetry6388+3 crossposts

Just got a dui on May 31st 2026 and my potential job employer just ran a background check on July 4th. I am on California. What should I expect

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u/Objective_Poetry6388 — 27 days ago