u/Odd_Mammoth669

I'm a 25M and I came out as bisexual a few months ago.

I had a small amount of gay sex before almost immediately getting a boyfriend. We've been together for 3.5 months now.

I'm happy with him, but I really miss having sex with women. I miss it so much that I even have wet dreams about having sex with women.

To be honest, I've found that having sex with men and women is very, very different. I enjoy both, but I don't know why I'm struggling with these feelings.

How can I deal with this?

In summary i've been dating this guy for 3.5 months now, it hasn't been too much but i feel he's a little too intense so i think we need a proper breakup

I think I already met him enough and i conclude we are not compatible, we are angry at each other for the third time in less than 1 month

I'm asking for advice, we both are really sentimental, i even cried yesterday when i came up with this conclusion, how can i breakup with him without hurting both of our feelings a lot?

So i've been not religious since i was 12, not atheist but still i cant believe anything from all the modern religions

I was raised as a catholic and even i already did the sacraments (baptism, eucharist, confirmation) but i leaved all that life once i grew up, it is not that i cannot believe in the existence of a god, i just cannot believe in the church

So the issue is that my authistic ass is really invested in fantasy (dungeons and dragons, elder scrolls, etc) and for some donquixote-kinda reason i am willing to return to religion just to add some fantasy to my life

In other words, i cant believe in the church, i cant believe in the god they describe to us. But i want to be a performative religious paladin-type shit

Will i be an asshole for doing that?

This is not a joke, even I see the idea like some unmature nonsence but i been having this idea (almost desire) for some months now

So i've been dating this boy for like 3 months now, everything has been great, he seems to love me and i love him too

We said we stop using grindr after we met and after all this time this was true until i downloaded it yesterday

I'm not going to justify myself i think i was wrong, the only thing that makes this less worse is that i didn't got anything

So i downloaded grindr yesterday and started chatting with some people and then found his profile, a new more slutty profile, i dont know if he has hooked up with someone yet

I'm slightly sad but i guess i cant complain since i did the same more or less

How can i manage with this situation? I would never found out if i had never dowloaded grindr but also i downloaded it because i wanted a hook up, is the first time this ever happens to me

Ultimamente estoy muy cansado de la vida que estoy llevando, una vida que al final puedo decir que yo decidí tener pero siempre tomando decisiones que no quería tomar

Tengo 25 años, 1 año viviendo a 4 horas de mis padres, 1 año comprando todo lo mio y subsistiendo de mi dinero completamente, tengo pareja, amigos y trabajo estable, tengo todo lo que alguien de mi edad podría querer, ya hasta compré casa en mi ciudad natal

Sin embargo me encuentro cansado, triste y hasta con ganas de renegar de todo lo que ya mencioné, no siento que quiera al 100% a mi pareja, no creo que mis amigos sean los mejores, no me veo trabajando donde estoy en 10 años, vivo en un muy buen lugar y quisiera cambiarlo, a veces quisiera regresar con mis padres pero cuando los visito no pienso en otra cosa mas que regresarme a mi casa

No estoy nada motivado a mejorar en mi carrera, siempre me recomiendan que tome cursos y no los tomo, a mi pareja la veo como pasajera, a mis amigos no les tengo tanta confianza, me encanta donde vivo pero quisiera ya salir de ahi y buscar otra cosa

Me han dicho algunas veces que quizá soy demasiado exigente con todo, a este punto no sé que pensar, hasta me siento desesperado pues todo esto se lo atribuyo a varias cosas:

Quizá no sé todavía lo que quiero de la vida

Quizá no tengo un propósito claro y por eso me siento sin rumbo

Quizá estoy muy deprimido y ni siquiera lo sé

Hoy quiero dormir, quisiera dormir todo el fin de semana y solo no lo eh hecho porque me la eh pasado dormido los 3 fines de semana anteriores

Estoy muy cansado, triste y hasta desesperado