u/Ok-Gazelle-1431

hi !! looking for friends na mahilig sa side quests !!

i have a bit of an adrenaline junkie side. i enjoy weird, unusual, or niche na hobbies. gusto ko sana ng kasama sa mga random adventures kasi ang hirap mag-isa minsan (madalas !)

thinking of stuff like:

- urban/heritage exploring (yung legal at safe pls)

- liminal space photography

- music jamming / mag-aral ng instruments

- baking

- museum hopping / park hopping

- random train/bus adventures

budget-friendly sana. like yung para lang tayong NPC na binigyan ng random mission ok

abt me:

- 20

- from metro manila

- hindi ako free anytime since student ako, so schedule schedule lang talaga

abt u:

- around my age

friendless girlie here! looking for someone na makakasama ko sa lahat ng kalokohan HAHAHA. ideally super duper bestie levels, pero okay lang din kung online friends lang

madaldal kasi ako and i always have something to say, so thank you Lord kung yapper ka rin

about me:

- from Metro Manila

- engineering student (pwede tayong maging study buddies!)

- kaladkarin pero ayaw sa initan so di ako pwede maaya mag-hike

- hindi gamer pero gusto ko mag-start kasi minsan nagkakacrush ako sa mga gamer HAHAHA

- certified yapper & yearner

- nerd sa history ! i love random facts din

- i swing not only both ways but also north, south, east, and west

- bookworm ! mahilig din manood ng movies

- mabilis magreply palagi kahit busy

about you:

- around my age sana

- madaldal din pls pls pls

- may kanal humor

- naghahanap din ng kausap/friend and hindi therapist. love u pero wala ako sa tamang headspace para sa heavy problems ngayon

usap tayo tungkol sa random things, life updates, books, movies, crushes, chismis, o kahit anong maisipan natin. lf ka-tiktok streak din

hmu !! send me ur intro pls ayoko ng hi / hello ang haba haba ng intro ko e

parang tanga lang talaga yung mga nagpo-post sa r4r na "looking for friends" or "looking for someone to talk to" or "lf potential gf/bf" tapos kapag may nag-initiate na ng conversation, hindi naman sila marunong makipag-usap nang maayos

LIKE need pa nung kausap nila na buhatin buong conversation. mag-iisip ng topics, magtatanong, at gagawa ng paraan para tuloy-tuloy yung usapan, tapos ang makukuha lang eh one-word replies o isang sagot isang tanong

ayusin naman please ikaw na nga naghahanap eh

gets naman na hindi lahat madaldal at okay lang maging nonchalant. pero paano magkakaroon ng connection kung ayaw rin nilang mag-contribute sa conversation? hindi naman kailangang sobrang energetic agad, pero at least meet the other person halfway.

nakaka-frustrate lang kasi sila mismo yung naghahanap ng kausap, kaibigan, o connection, pero kapag may lumapit na, parang wala naman silang effort na actually get to know the person they're talking to

kakaumay

lf kasama sa ateneo sa geloy conception exhibit. plan ko pumunta ng wednesday pero pwede naman iresched since hanggang june 12 pa siya.

main goal talaga is mapuntahan yung exhibit, pero mas gusto ko sana may kasama kasi mas romantic yung museum/art experience kapag may kadate. lalo na if mahilig ka rin sa written/reflective art at chill museum vibes

pwede rin tayo gumala after, upd or kahit saan chill lang. open ako sa “date vibes” or just getting to know each other, depende sa flow HUHU pero gusto ko na makipag-date ok so date nalang. pag naging crush kita, ligawan kita after HAHAHAHA CHARIZZ

about me:

basta tombs

* infp (yapper kapag comfy)

* marami side quest

* mahilig sa art, org stuff, at random deep talks

* never been on a date in my 19 years of life so far kaya PLS UNIVERSE BIGAY MO NA SA AKIN TO

* not conventionally attractive (3/10)? pero funny naman ako ...

* sagot ko na entrance fee hey 150 lang naman ata

* commute tayo hey la ako kotchi

about you:

* 19–20 🥹

* please hindi nonchalant, sana yapper na oa

* mahilig or at least willing sa art/museum/chill dates

* g sa not so friendly date

yearner malala pero single at walang mahanap na crush kaya wala tayo magagawa hahahahahaha lf fubu or ons na wala pa exp kasi baby para same tayo mangapa

ayoko na iiyak na ako sobrang gusto ko na ng sex pero gusto ko talaga ng genuine love galing sa gf na mabait sobra at kasing-vibes ko at mapagmahal na naka-move on na sa ex pero ang hirap makahanap mas madali pa lumaklak ng zondrox kaya g ko muna tonf curiosity ko gang sa masaktan ako

about me:

- loser les

- around mm

- may kits

- fem (4/10 sa looks pero hey bawi to sa humor at pagmamahal at pagbeg)

- versa (top leaning)

- 42 kg, maliit hahaha

about you:

- pref walang exp kasi nahihiya ako pero ok lang may exp

- versa or top

- around my age pls pls

- hindi conventionally attractive di ako natuturn on kapag sobrang ganda jokerzzz hahahah basta mga 5/10 lang

- pref may vibrator kasi may gusto akong itry hahahahaga

- medyo bobo at uto-uto para maattach pero ayoko ng ddshit o apoloshit bobo

- bubugbugin ako kapag naattach ako hahahaha

check in nalang isang beses lang naman

i still think about the love i have given to people (not necessarily them anymore) but the amount of care, patience, understanding, and love i once carried for them. i think there’s a difference between missing a person and remembering the love you were capable of giving

sometimes i wonder where all that love goes after things end. does it disappear? does it stay somewhere inside us? kasi i swear pieces of it still linger in me.

it lingers and lingers and somehow still finds its way back to me whenever i think about you (whoever my future partner is)

maybe i already met you in childhood and we just don’t know it yet. maybe i’ll meet you in my twenties, late twenties, or even during some random ordinary day when i’m no longer looking for anyone at all. maybe we’ve already crossed paths once without realizing we’d matter to each other someday.

i don’t know when you’ll arrive in my life, love, but i hope when you do, i’ll no longer be afraid of love. i hope i’ll have learned that care does not always have to end in pain. i hope i’ve learned not to beg for the bare minimum, not to chase what should already be freely given. i want a steady love. i want to love you in ways i can, in ways you want, and to kiss you in ways we both want.

i hold love so carefully now. not because i don’t want it bit because i know how deeply it can stay with a person long after it leaves

i hope one day i’ll meet someone who makes love feel less like something to survive and more like something safe to return to like a home

until then, i think the love i give will continue to linger quietly in me

lf kachikahan. currently nagbabantay lang ako ng kids sa org namin and super boring na pls. samahan niyo ako hanggang 6pm

about me:

- certified yapper

- 19F

- kanal humor

-:asar talo so go lang, asarin niyo ko hanggang mapikon

about you:

- yapper din pls

- walang ginagawa rn / bored

- kanal humor

- malakas mang-asar

no nsfw pls PWEDE BA MAMAYA NA YAN ? ay sorry camera 😞😞 our father ... (ricci rivera reference)

lf yapper or kaladkarin friends around manila 🥹 yung game sa cafe, museum, kahit anong gala, or kahit sponty walks lang!! pwede rin kainuman HAHAHA or iprocess natin valid ids natin minsan hahahaha. yung tuturuan ako mag-valo or ml

kanal humor pls !! wag masyado aircon humor di ko kaya sabayan… galing kalye lang ako sorry

yung kaya rin makipag-chat almost everyday pls 🥹 wala kasi ako masyadong friends here huhu

ok lang any age! basta hindi ako bubugbugin 👍

problem/goal: 19 and ive been feeling really anxious about life latelty, especially as the eldest daughter. ang daming expectations and responsibilities, and i dont even know if im doing things right.

context: i tried going to a job fair last week and applied to a few companies, pero sobrang na-overwhelm ako. most of the roles didn’t match my current skills (i mostly have experience in pubmat and design but i admit na hindi pa gaano kaalam in that field) and i dont have any formal work experience yet, so i felt really underqualified. parang everyone else has something to offer : (

i really want to navigate adulting as early as possible so i wont struggle as much in the future (though i know it’s inevitable). i just don’t want to end up feeling stuck or directionless. at the same time, i feel guilty when i’m not doing anything “productive” like working or building experience.

i’m planning to start working as a VA or find any WFH job since i’m also a student, but i honestly don’t know where to begin.

- what skills should i focus on if i want to start as a VA?

- where do you usuallt find legit clients or job postings?

- how did you guys build experience when you were just starting out?

previous attempts: i’ve been applying obline (mostly thru job sites and email) for like 6 months now pero wala nagrereply. im using harvard styled CV. idk if may mali sa approach ko or naghahanap lang talaga sila ng may experience.

i’m really open to any advice! i just feel lost right jow and idk where to start. thank you so much in advance.

19 and ive been feeling really anxious about life latelty, especially as the eldest daughter. ang daming expectations and responsibilities, and i dont even know if im doing things right.

i tried going to a job fair last week and applied to a few companies, pero sobrang na-overwhelm ako. most of the roles didn’t match my current skills (i mostly have experience in pubmat and design but i admit na hindi pa gaano kaalam in that field) and i dont have any formal work experience yet, so i felt really underqualified. parang everyone else has something to offer : (

i really want to navigate adulting as early as possible so i wont struggle as much in the future (though i know it’s inevitable). i just don’t want to end up feeling stuck or directionless. at the same time, i feel guilty when i’m not doing anything “productive” like working or building experience.

i’m planning to start working as a VA or find any WFH job since i’m also a student, but i honestly don’t know where to begin.

- what skills should i focus on if i want to start as a VA?

- where do you usuallt find legit clients or job postings?

- how did you guys build experience when you were just starting out?

i’ve been applying obline (mostly thru job sites and email) for like 6 months now pero wala nagrereply. im using harvard styled CV. idk if may mali sa approach ko or naghahanap lang talaga sila ng may experience.

i’m really open to any advice! i just feel lost right jow and idk where to start. thank you so much in advance.