


AIO for thinking my family is taking this whole situation too far?
I posted here a few times about the whole Airbnb/family vacation situation with my sister
Anyway, things have somehow gotten even worse. My sister still isn't speaking to me and she's not letting me see her kids either. I was supposed to watch the kids this weekend but she cancelled that after everything happened.
I had plans with my parents so I drove into the city where my brother lives.
Decided to stop by just to say hi and he wouldn’t let me into the house. He was watching my sister’s kids and was worried she’d be upset if she found out I was there.
He refused to let me in the house but he did come out to talk to me and he was basically just rushing me back into the car. I said like I wouldn’t talk to the kids most I’d do is just say hi to his wife or his baby but he just said to leave and we’ll talk after
I ended up leaving and spending the rest of the day with my parents and when I got home I texted him because I was genuinely really hurt.
I included screenshots of some of our convo
My sister is upset with me because things got heated and I made insensitive comments about one of her kids. i suggested she leave one of her kids behind in respite because she claimed the child was the reason she couldn't stick to the commitment she made
And I get that my sister’s mad at me and I don’t even really blame her but I feel like my family is taking things too far.
Ik my brother doesn’t want to get caught in the middle of the situation with my sister, but I genuinely don’t understand why that means I can’t even stop by to say hello to him or his family. I wasn’t asking him to go behind her back and let me spend time with her kids. I just wanted to see my brother, his wife, and their baby. Being treated like I wasn’t even welcome at his house over an argument between me and my sister was honestly really hurtful.