u/Ok-Violinist-9502

Can't sleep because of colors

just want to SLEEP but closing my eyes it's grainy and the colors flash like a seizure warning, literally hell, I haven't slept in so long and I just want to cry

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u/Ok-Violinist-9502 — 2 days ago

Do I look like I need surgery?

I have a pretty bad crossbite and was told I had a slight underbite, I was offered invisalign as a kid but I just never bothered (maybe a mistake)

Cosmetically I don't really care, I know it looks ugly but my face itself doesn't look crooked just my teeth (idk how). My lower lip sticks out I think from the underbite but the 3rd pic shows how I can hold it but it looks pouty and stupid from certain angles. I don't know if its worth the risk of surgery and messing with my face, I don't even know how I could afford it.

My main concerns is I have some jaw pain and I have a lisp because of the teeth gap, and sometimes spit comes out when I talk. But everyone I know thinks the idea of jaw surgery is insane and uneccessary

I was thinking of braces but I'm scared they would make things worse with camoflauge. I heard braces can make the face narrower/longer with sunken cheeks/big cheekbones which I really DO NOT want

If I don't touch it at all (no braces no surgery) will it get/look worse over time?

Any advice appreciated

u/Ok-Violinist-9502 — 2 days ago

Surgery for slight eyelid ptosis - worth it or not?

As I get older (I'm in my 20s) one of my eyelids is drooping and the eyebrow is even rising to compensate. I'm extremely upset with how it looks. The pupil is also smaller on the droopy eye, but no eye doctor Ive brought this up to have ever been concerned or offered any explanation. Honestly, it looks worse from a distance. It gets worse in the evening after a long day. Ive thought about ptosis surgery but I'm scared it's not "severe" enough and I'm scared of something going wrong. I've never had any kind of surgery before. Has anyone had any experiences with surgery for mild ptosis?

u/Ok-Violinist-9502 — 7 days ago
▲ 5 r/Anger

My dad has severe anger and it is going to kill him

Its impossible to interact with my dad bc of his severe anger. He will literally start screaming over nothing, he gets mad over your "tone" even if you are just talking completely normally, takes everything personally, works himself up and CANNOT absolutely CANNOT calm himself down. He just explodes. He has screamed at me and humiliated me in public since I was a child. It's gotten to the point sometimes I feel like I'm about to witness him have a heart attack. He will start hyperventilating, talking to himself, and cursing. He's already had one mini stroke

He is completely unhealthy (morbidly obese, bad diet, doesn't sleep) he can't even do simple things without getting out of breath. On top of that he is just not mentally well (hoarding and bizarre habits and behavior). Needless to say I don't have a good relationship with him and probably never will.

How am I supposed to interact with someone like this? He's literally going to kill himself from how insanely angry he gets. I genuinely do not know how to interact with my own father

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u/Ok-Violinist-9502 — 8 days ago

Best way to keep swavy hair straight ?

My hair is mostly straight with random hard waves in the middle, it looks very odd. I have long hair, the top is straight, then it bends at my neck, then it's straight again at the ends. it just looks strange. It looks so much better on me when I fully straighten it, I don't think a lot of waves suits me, despite the usual advice of embracing and enhacing the waves, I just don't like how it looks on me. What's the safest way to keep it straight without damaging it? Unfortunately my hair is very susceptible to humidity, it frizzes right up, then straightens out when I dry off.. I have very very fine hair if that means anything

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u/Ok-Violinist-9502 — 15 days ago

My iphone isn't updated to the latest version because I don't have wifi, but its at ios 26.3.1

I don't know why, but for some reason the secure website warning option was turned off on my Safari settings (maybe I accidentally turned it off??)

Well I was searching for a website, but I typed the URL incorrectly, and it brought me to this weird looking site with a weird picture on it. It was an unsecure HTTP website. I clicked out of it but I'm just worried. Could the website steal passwords or credentials without me entering or downloading anything? Sorry if this is a dumb question

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u/Ok-Violinist-9502 — 18 days ago
▲ 5 r/Makeup

I realized why my lips look so weird and its because I literally don't have a cupids bow. My upper lip has no shape, its thin, no vermillion border, even my philtrum is pretty smooth, it just looks wrong and has no definition. Basically my upper lip just looks tattooed on. I feel like I'm missing an important aspect of the lips that every other woman has, except me. And it makes my face look weird

When I read about the "no cupids bow trend" where ppl overline to hide their cupids bow, I see so many people saying it's ugly and that no cupids bow looks strange. I've even seen it compared to a clowns lips or fetal alcohol syndrome or a blow up doll

Can you use makeup to create a cupids bow?? I'm scared it would look weird. Do I just embrace that it looks weird?

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u/Ok-Violinist-9502 — 19 days ago

I finally realized why my lips look weird- I literally don't have a cupids bow. My upper lip has no shape, its thin, no vermillion border, even my philtrum is flat, it just looks wrong and has no definition. Basically it just looks tattooed on. I feel like I'm missing an important aspect of the lips that every other woman has, except me. And it makes my face look off. And also my upper lip is a little asymetrical but you can't really see it in this picture.

I've been wanting get a little upper lip filler to balance out my bottom lip which sort of sticks out/pouts. Would filler help to give my upper lip more definition and shape? Or would I look like a duck?

u/Ok-Violinist-9502 — 22 days ago

So I remembered an old username I had and saw in my emails I had an account for it, I didn't remember the password so tried to reset it (also its deactivated, not deleted), well instagram really did not want to let me log in, it wanted video selfie verification?? Which I refuse to do. But then I got this email. Wtf?? When I click review details, it takes me nowhrere because the account is DEACTIVATED

I don't really care if I lose this account, it was for posting anime and videogame stuff, but should I worry about my other accounts getting flagged now or something

u/Ok-Violinist-9502 — 24 days ago