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Today the men can go out whenever they want for unnecessary things, travel, have fun and stay out late however they like. But how come when it's a woman she shouldn't go out unless necessary, and she should always stay in check, can't travel nor any of that things ?

I could see it happen before in the time of the prophet, men spend time out with purpose and still the prophet always made sure to spend his time with his famillies.

So why is it nowadays that we have all ways of fun (i do not mean haram) like traveling going out doing activities... how is it men can do anything without being questioned but then you see those very men want their sisters, mothers wives and daughters not to leave home unless necessary?

Oh especially the travel they appose to ut as she can not go alone, yet they would never make the effort to go with them, ironic how they like to set the rules on woman but never accompany them so they can actually enjoy as well.

And do not tell me it's dangerous becauae today it is dangerous for both males and females, i would actually like to see men's comments for this.

Because i do not see this fair.

How do you think we can stop this gender war ?

I think men should stop being obsessive and woman should stop being hatefull

Once men stop trying to control everything by giving themselves all rights just because they are men

And by woman to stop hating on men and trying to be superior to them and understand that neither can exist without the other

It can be done

What do you think?

We as humans, need to vent our problems to feel mentally well, we can not just surpress everything, of course we have to turn to allah for everything but sometimes we need someone who listens and validates our emotions.

So where exactly is the line drawn for venting and talking behind people's back, because it is not like we live alone, our experience will certainly include someone in it even if briefly, so how can i vent about that without ghiba ?

I do not see this possible.

Because ghiba means talking behind someone's back about something they do not like, which means that the things you will say about them is true, and still it is not permissible, and if you lie that is even worse and it is بهتان

Ans we wouldn't be venting about something we liked about someone.

So how does this works exactly.

And saying you can vent to allah alone, although that is true but you will still feel mentally exhausted at some point, because humans need validayion and feedback

I am a junior software developper, i can see that finding a decent job in tangier is harder than other cities where more opportunities and bigger companies are like rabat, casa.. so i would like to know how can i make connections here in tangier to be able to get more job offres and interviews ?

I prefer things ti be all based here in tangier as i can not relocate somewhere else.

I am also open for advice form seniors of my field..

And if anyone can help me improve my portfolio (what to change/add/learn in term if skills or projects) to better present myself please dm me

As a muslim woman, i know that in islam there is always a man who will take care of us (in most normal cases) whether it is your father, brother, husband, son uncle...) but i have a question for girls nowadays, do you find it easy to ask your wali or guardian for money, or anything that requires money? My father of course provides for me and my familly, but when it comes to something personal, most the time i just wait and try to save money for as long as i need to buy that thing, or simply make it in my wishlist for when i get a job to buy it myself, i can not bring myself to ask for that thing directly, and when i say that i am not saying it because we can not afford it, simply i feel bad asking for money, my ego just doesn't not allow me, which bring another discussion about marriage and job for woman, men prefer their wives not to work since they will provide for all, but will they really provide that liberty and environment where your wife can ask you to buy her whatever she wants ? (Again speaking about things that are affordable)

I am a 23F, i graduated in software engineering last year july 2025, i had my first job which was a job offre from my last year of studies internship but i quit afer 2months (excluding the 6months internship), (i have always been praised for my work by my professors, and even in my job the client was satisfied with me, i see myself as a fast learner and i can always meet people's expectation) i have been making duah for a job ever since befire i quit my job, and in ramadan i was making the duah all the time, like i litterally made the duah at least once in each prayer, but until today i remain unemployed.

Recently i went on a trip abroad and that was when i realized i was getting depressed about my situation, especially since i have alot of free time now due to my unemployment and graduation, and even if i wanted to do something aside i couldn't bring myself to ask my father to pay for it, and i feel bad each time he asks me about how the job hunting is going.

My city doesn't have alot of big comapnies (and the ones that exists you can only work for by connections, and the start ups do not pay well for my position, nor actually look for juniors, they always want people with experience +3years etc... and i can not relocate to another city that has better opportunities since it will only add to the cost and it would only make my parents worry.

I know that god is reserving what is the best for me and it is still not the time, but the act of praying making duah for a job all this time all day long and each time i get rejected or get no response, or i get bad offers it makes me hopeless.

I can not help but think that at this rate even if i get a job it wouldn't be good paying, and the longer i am unemployed the harder it is to get a job, so what is the purpose of all this ?

I try to repent on all my sins of my whole life and practice my religion at my best, i just do not know what to do anymore, i am getting hopeless by the day

I have whiteheads and acne, especially around my chin, like whole year around, i know the chin acne is caused by hormones but my cycle is very accurate and helthy, so recently i came to realize that stress is the biggest cause for my acne, because i got clear face for few weeks twice in my life that i remember and are recent.

The firat one was after i graduated and quit my job, the second one was after i went on a trip abroad and the first 3 weeks i didn't get even 1 small whitehead, which i get all the time and around ym oily nose, but no my face was sooo clear that the acne scars were starting to heal properly, that was when i bought my current skin care products

So i do eucerin as cleanser since i have sensitive and acne prone skin

Anua niancinamide 10 txa 10 serum in morning after cleanser

Cerave pm moisterizer (i like it because it is light)

Anua azelaic serum at night after cleanser

Beauty of Joseon sun screen water based

(None of these products irritate my skin or feels too much, in fact they get absorbed quickly especially the azelaic and the sun screen)

It has been 5-6 weeks, the problem is i still get whiteheads and acne 🙃

Should i just give it more time to see results or is there something i am doing wrong, i try to keep my routine as simple and light as possible not much products

Please help

Hi, I am a junior developer and I have been struggling to get a decent job for almost 9months now, especially since my city has mostly startups and does not offer good salary, so i want to improve my portfolio but i do not know what to do exactly, and I would like to get advice especially from experienced developers as on what knowledge to add to my cv/portfolio, whether i have to learn something that could make me easily accepted for jobs..

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And in general if my portfolio is actually good for a junior or not..

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Portfolio link: https://raghadisraghad.com/

23F, been lifting for few years, I need a gym partner (girls only) to motivate each other to lift heavier, i do not go to mixed gyms.

Currently in a gym with a schedule of: monday, wednesday and friday for woman.

Up for any other gym with better schedule for woman, preferably within 1.5km max around Castilla roundabout (you can suggest gyms as well even if you are not up for the partnership)

Any girl interested dm me

I always wondered why is the first focus is woman in everything especially religion ? I am a muslim woman who practices religion at my best and always trying to improve as humans are not perfect, but i can't help but notice, all i see, hear all the time is woman focused subjects, "she should she shouldn't she's a sinner and it's always woman that make problems bla bla.."

I searched in reddit muslim, the top posts i found are, is this haram what sister is doing?

Sister do this

Sister don't do this you sin

Sister Sister

I do not see a problem with wanting to advise a sister, but when men focus on woman and forget themselves that is my problem.

Men are the main causes for:

Political corruption, sexual and domestic violence and violence in general, crimes, gangs, unsafety in public spaces, colonialism, gender inequality in things that woman and men are equal in, wars, military aggression, disobedience to parents, consuming the inheritance and alot more..

Yet it is always woman being discussed appon and criticized and called on ?

The hadith of the prophet peace be upon him: لا ضرر ولا ضرار, seems to be prohibited for woman by this type of men, and sadly some شيوخ also adapt this especially in marriages, A woman want divorce because her husband sins, treats her unwell or whatver reason and she can't go back to her father? What will you do after? Prostitution? Because of course it is the only way a woman who has no proper wali can take care of herself, so sad

A man want divorce because every small mistreat from his wife is نشوز then he should divorce and find himself an even better woman

In marriages especially it is expected from woman to sacrifice the most because a woman without marriage life is only unwanted responsibility.

Most men like to impose their arrguments and impose them on woman in the name of islam but neglect other things.

As i said it is not all men, but whether we like it or not alot of men are like this whether are people i encountred at school, at work, in the street, on social media, or pwrosnal experience stories from others, this is reality even in muslim countries.

It is easy to point at someone you see yourself above of, and alot of men believe they are above woman because their actions prove it.

The discussion of course is not about islam rulling because it is perfect, but about what muslim woman actually live, and about men who applies islam ruling on only what they desire and mostly on woman.

So what do you think is the solution to this?

Hi, i just want to know is there a way to unlink the game from the current google account and link it to a different one without loosing my progress ?

I hage seen other posts about people who changed their device abd looking for a way to keep their progress.. but mine is already linked to an account i just want to change the account linked to it

Sooo, I'm a Female, for this post i would like some recommendations and advice, i have small face, and i wear a scarf, but my forehead's width is so narrow, although I accepted this part if me long ago but i still feel insecure about it sometimes.

Fiest of all, I will try to explain my face shape as much as i can for you to understand (appologies if my explanation is bad and i confuse you) , i have an oval face, clift chin, i can hardly gain any weight on my face, so my cheecks are not that full, the worst part is my forehead, it is actually not that long or big, but it is narrow, like my hair line from the sides starts too soon haha, and it's like a clif, so it looks narrow from the front, and from side profile it is not straight, it is inwards. You can imagine, it looks like this from a top POV: \__/

This sounds weird but i promise it doesn't look as weird thankfully, I'm trying to give you a 3D vision.

Anyways, the point is that it is too narrow and that is my problem.

I have hard time finding any glasses that actually look good on me, every new ones are the same design as before because no other choice looks good, my eye sight glasses are same shape as my sun glasses, i can not pull many scarf styles because it doesn't suit me and this is very important because no matter how good i style my clothes the scarf will ruin it. i can not pull many hair styles because it doesn't suit me, even if i try to gain weight my forehead will stay as narrow as ever 🥲.

I know I wouldn't necessarily find people who actually wear scarfs and can help in that sense, but maybe someone who can style and has a vision fir my problem.

I accept my reality as it is, but perhaps someone has tips to pull off different styles for my case ?

I would appreciate it very much, just take into consideration that with narrow forehead and dimole chin my face looks.. too oval