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In the comments of a post from a different sub I had seen a comment that it’s really common for people with ADHD to rely on work crushes in order to get through the drudgery of work by dopamine rushes. It was almost like a revelation for me because it is something I’ve been doing my whole life and have met multiple girlfriends and flings through work (I’m a lesbian lol). I always have a work crush at which ever job I’m at and yes it does help give me motivation to keep going because at least I get to look at them or talk to them or show off for them lol is this a relatable thing for people with ADHD or pretty off?

Hey y'all idk if office life is gonna work out for me long term. I really prefer good, honest work where I am active all day. Throw out some ideas for me please if you have personal experience, the route it took to get you where you are, and region you're in (don't have to be specific if you're not comfortable, US or Canada type of description is enough for me). Also how you feel if your butchness is accepted or if it has been a battle. Thank yall

I work at a small tax firm and we do a lot of things to keep the clients happy like increasing expenses or adding they didn’t actually have. Some of the things I’m told to do make me uncomfortable because I know it’s not right, but they do it to keep the clients happy. I understand we are not auditors but it makes me worried if any of this will ever come back to bite me because I’m the one preparing their return, even though I’m not signing it. I don’t like do things that are unethical. Do you have any suggestions for a different accounting pathway that does not allow for such blatant disregard of rules/laws?

I live in an approximately 2900 square foot two story home. About 10 years I got the upstairs bathroom remodeled. During this remodel, they repaired about a square foot of subfloor in the corner by the shower that had gone completely soft and mushy due to water damage. This water damage also was visible on the ceiling directly under that bathroom in the first floor garage and I had that section of ceiling repaired as well. I stupidly did not get the flooring replaced in the bathroom due to believing the leak was due to a leak from the shower which I did have completely torn out and replaced. That brings us to current day. I decided I wanted to take on a home project and install tile in the bathroom instead of the linoleum and carpet that was in there. I ripped up all the carpet and linoleum only to find mold all over the OSB subfloor around the shower from this past leak and partially on some of the drywall after removing the baseboards. There was zero waterproofing in this bathroom. Just linoleum bonded to the OSB subfloor, same with the carpeting, just stapled to the subfloor. This mold was so bad that the next day, I became sick from the mold exposure. Extremely sore throat and lethargy that lasted a few days even after not returning to the moldy bathroom. Because the bathroom now has mold spores up and circulating, how do I fix this? Is it enough to have tile laid down professionally to seal up the floor? The subfloor is solid and holds weight, no mushy spots, but I assume some dormant mold from the former leak were stirred up and released into the air. Have you ever successfully dealt with mold found in subfloor if so please tell your story. Thank you

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I hear that CohnReznick acquired a smaller firm and now have an office in Galveston. Do you or anyone you know work there? Are they planning on having an office on the island permanently? And are there many employees that work at that office if so? I am wanting to move to Galveston in the future and this would be a great opportunity for me. Thank you.

I got a check in the mail from KCC Class Action Services LLC. Its a Bank of America check for $5.87 but it looks fishy. I tried googling "Garcia v. JSCFCU class action" and nothing comes up. The letter gives an email, phone number, and even a website to go to with a specific login to see more information (even fishier). Likely scam?

A pound of tofu is much cheaper and is less cruel! Just funny to see this after hearing the argument that veganism is too expensive.

What does it feel like to be the one on the receiving end of tribbing missionary style? I’ve always been the one on top in the more active role, and I’ve always wondered if it feels as good for my partner as it does for me. I’ve asked multiple partners and they said it felt good too, but I don’t know if maybe due to different sex drives, that they didn’t crave it like oxygen like I did lol so please don’t hold back in describing how it truly feels!

I feel like it’s really attractive to see someone who is good at their job and intelligent. Plus all the time you spend in the office especially during busy season you form almost a trauma bond with each other lol how common are workplace romances in accounting? Ones that you have heard or been in yourself ?

Hopefully someone relates. I had a coworker disclose to me that she went to a party over the weekend and was flirting with every woman there. I had no idea she was into women, she seems like a straight girl lol part of me feels like maybe she said this to make me feel like she’s accepting of the lgbt community. Another part of me feels like she’s trying to make it clear that she’s lesbian or bi at the least because she might be interested in me. She also suggested the convo was more suited for happy hour after..but our company doesn’t have any type of standard happy hour by any means. This wasn’t in person by the way, it was on our company’s messaging system and she’s from a different office lol. What do yall make of it and what ways have seemingly straight girls flirted with you or tried hinting that they were also lesbian/bi?