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What would you do if you failed a class?

This is lowkey embarrassing, but I might fail one of my classes tomorrow and was wondering what you guys would do if this happened to you? This semester I got really depressed, and with no motivation my grades now reflect that. I have my last final tomorrow, and although I only need a 30% to keep a C I’m not sure I can do that.

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u/One-Air4801 — 8 days ago

Feeling tired and depressed after a sexual encounter, F19

Yesterday I met up with this guy from a dating app and we ate dinner together and then went to his place. He asked me to watch a movie with him, and being naive I thought watching a movie actually meant watching a movie, so we ended up cuddling and doing other stuff. I don’t want to go too much into detail about what proceeded, but basically we ended up dry humping at one point. Previously to this experience I had never cuddled someone before, and I have still yet to have my first kiss (which to me is wild considering I’ve now dried humped). The whole thing felt super disorienting looking back because I didn’t feel fully emotionally comfortable with him, or really liked him as a person, but when with him my body felt good. It’s been more than 24 hrs later and I just feel depressed. The next morning I was so tired I couldn’t focus on my school work for half the day. Is this normal? There is a lot more I could go into but I’m not really sure how to put words into it, or what I can really say on here. How do I start to feel better again? Will this feeling go away?

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u/One-Air4801 — 9 days ago

How to lose weight over summer break? F19

I’m a college student going back home in a couple days and really want to get in shape over the summer. I’m currently 178 pounds and 5’5”, but want to at some point get to 148 pounds. I’m thinking that going on runs or walks in the morning could be good for me, but I’m not sure because I also have pcos and people say to strength train. What would you recommend to do over the summer?

Also I know this isn’t related to workouts, but I am nervous to go back home because my family eats out 2-3 times a week. How do I navigate that while trying to lose weight?

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u/One-Air4801 — 9 days ago

Advice for a virgin!!

Hey everyone! F19 here! I recently have noticed how I’m a sexual person despite being a virgin, and was wondering if that’s normal. Since I’ve hit puberty I’ve been masturbating, watching porn, and sexting. Yet I’ve never had sex, let alone kissed someone! Does this seem odd to you?? 😭😭

I also don’t know how to approach my first time. I really want to experience sex, but I’m unsure how to find a partner. I’m super shy and have never been approached by men, nor do I have male friends. My best bet is the apps, but I’m unsure about it. I feel like it might be dangerous as a woman, and men from the apps won’t value me as a person. Since I’m not physically attractive it makes me more susceptible to that behavior.

Any thoughts and advice is appreciated. I am at such an awkward place with all of this, anything helps!

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u/One-Air4801 — 13 days ago

I’ve only ever gotten a straight cut and have never dyed my hair before. I want to try something different than my normal. What do you think would look nice? Please help me!! The photo is a picture of what my hair looks like currently, but when I go in for hair cuts I get it cut a couple inches shorter than this photo :)

u/One-Air4801 — 14 days ago

Hey! My college semester is almost over so it won’t matter in two weeks, but my roommates never stop talking, and I want to vent. It’s super stressful as an introvert hearing people yap all the time, and it makes me super anxious. It’s never quiet, ever. Do they not need silence to focus on school and to function?? Anyways they would talk every morning the whole year for 30 minutes at 7:30 in the morning in the kitchen, and I genuinely have no clue how anyone has the energy for that. Why do you need to be talking all the time especially in the morning???I don’t understand, because my mornings need silence, I just woke up and can’t be talked to. And what makes things worse is even when one of them goes home on the weekends the other one still talks on the phone in the mornings at 8:00am, a lot of the time on speaker even. One of them just stresses me out in general for some reason because she is always hyper. When I want alone time, she just wants to talk to me it the kitchen and I find it extremely annoying. Thank god I’m living alone next year, I actually can’t with people, people stress me out too much. So much so it’s hard to focus on school work sometimes. And the thing is I say all this, but they aren’t even doing anything wrong, it just makes me super anxious for some reason, and I don’t know why😥

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u/One-Air4801 — 15 days ago
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I’ve only ever done straight cut, no layers, and have never died my hair. What do you think would look nice? Any specific length?

u/One-Air4801 — 16 days ago

I’m fat and it’s ruining everything but I can’t do anything about it, I’m ugly and useless, no one will ever love me because I’m overweight and look like a man. I don’t have any friends because of how repulsive I look. Why would you want to live looking the way I do, there is no point if you are not pretty. Everyone my age is skinny. I can’t starve myself because then all I do is binge chocolate bars and sleeves of cookies. I hate being ugly and I hate that I was born to suffer. It’s not fair and I despise pretty people who did nothing and get love.

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u/One-Air4801 — 17 days ago