i always been an introvert and its very tough to make friends, it was very depressing, trying some changes
I tried making friends but can't as my communication isn't good, at parties I used to feel so alone, but I think this is my issue, as I am not confident enough to try talking to them,
I was reading this book called How to Win Friends and Influence People, and there was a line that changed my thinking totally, the line was:
When talking to someone, talk about the interests of the other person.
I tried this with some people, they told me about their habits of plants, ping pong, and started playing fooseball with some people, I can feel my life changing
btw, the only problem is that personality-improvement books can be long and boring. Even when I find a useful idea, I forget it unless I try it soon after.
So I have been building something for myself that turns book lessons into short comics. You first learn an idea, then go through a situation and choose what to do. Your choices change how the character reacts, so it feels easier to understand how to use the lesson in real life.
I called it BookBii, after my dog :) It is free, and I would genuinely love feedback from people who also struggle with applying what they read (added the app on profile)