u/Optimal_Regret_452

How do i get over the fact that i will akways be stared at by men sometimes double my age. It brings me back to my teenage era of being catcalled. Before i understood the privileges i met with the trauma of being lusted. I am in my 20s and it still makes me upset/cringe/uncomfortable. Especially those who keep staring at me and expect back attention from me. One ete contact and they think I'm interested in them. Makes me so uncomfortable in public everytime.

Some uncles stare at me without blinking and it is so uncomfortable. These are mostly lower class men. They have no shame. If i am in their presence I can't even look at anything over their side because they imagine I'm looking at them and they try to make eye contact hoping for attention from me. It brings all my teenage cat calling trauma back and its been 24 hrs and i still can't forget how they made me feel. Ughh. I feel so mentally upset

How should i respond in such a situation. Any advice. I usually leave that place.

Non chalant men are so hot

Those who don't chase women. Those who are so busy with their work and hobbies and their life doesn't revolve around women. If anyone is interested in them they have to try really hard to get their attention. Those who never dm a woman, these are the guys that have won in life truly. They are the kind who are real keepers and seem trustworthy and loyal. I could write a book on them. 🙈

Edit: i still want them chalant to me if we are in a relationship

They give elite energy.

Those who don't chase women. Those who are so busy with their work and hobbies and their life doesn't revolve around women. If anyone is interested in them they have to try really hard to get their attention. Those who never dm a woman, these are the guys that have won in life truly. They are the kind who are real keepers and seem trustworthy and loyal. I could write a book on them. 🙈

Edit: i still want them chalant to me if we are in a relationship

Those who don't chase women. Those who are so busy with their work and hobbies and their life doesn't revolve around women. If anyone is interested in them they have to try really hard to get their attention. Those who never dm a woman, these are the guys that have won in life truly. They are the kind who are real keepers and seem trustworthy and loyal. I could write a book on them. 🙈

Edit: i still want them chalant to me if we are in a relationship

Both genders have equal need for intimacy but when the woman's hormones are higher during ovulation they become more hornier. And yet they don't act out during this period. Their need for it shuts down if they don't feel emotionally connected and Men would have felt the same if they did not feel entitled for sex. They act like they have higher needs for it while in reality its just entitlement.

26F. If anyone is up for a chat. I have got a lot of time. Any rant or any conversation. Looking forward

I need an iphone as a birthday gift thankyou. 💗🌷Just turned a year older recently. Mera android buht arta hai. Somebody please be cute and kind 😝This is your chance to earn duaen from me.

I am not talking about breakup in a bf/gf setting. (Tired of those stories that reddit is full of).

I want to hear same gender or platonic friendship with opposite gender ending in a bad way kinda story.

So i worked in an all male office. Not many employees i was the only girl there. I used to be so bored for not having any female friend and there was only one dude i used to talk to for work only. And i am very friendly. Worked there for one month and a few months later this guy whom i only interacted with for some 3 weeks, few months later asks to marry me. I ignored and a year later he comes back again.

Like bro why can't you just treat me like a normal colleague. Plus it was so obvious he was less financially stable than me, why would he have the audacity to propose to me. He can't even afford me. I am annoyed bhae. Ache se friendly tareke se mun par har waqr smile rakh kar ap apne male colleague se baat bhi nahi kar skate. Remind me to never smile at a guy again. Koi personality bhi nae thi. Ajeeb.