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Why do some people automatically assume a non hijabi is not practicing well enough?

Imma non hijabi and I support and think it’s amazing to all the girls who wear it, but I’ve always wondered why some people automatically assume that a non hijabi isnt enough of a practicing Muslim which isn’t necessarily the case. I’m curious as to why? Like even if for example still wearing modest clothing some people still assume that
Because imo I feel like a hijab should be something between a woman and God and whether she decides to wear it or not

I feel so lonely. And like I do have a few friends but we’re not that close really I just feel like I’m always chasing people. Like I always put more effort in then others. Maybe there’s just some issue with me 😭but it honestly makes me sad

I feel so lonely. And like I do have a few friends but we’re not that close really I just feel like I’m always chasing people. Like I always put more effort in then others. Maybe there’s just some issue with me 😭but it honestly makes me sad

Just curious. Would u ever marry someone with mental health issues? Like if someone u were potentially going to marry just told you that would you stop getting to know that person? What if they’re like they’re to learn how to manage better? Or would you second guess the marriage?

Staying consistent is the problem 😭

I feel like I don’t deserve anyone😭 even though I may be addicted in another way it’s still a form of p*rn. And I feel really guilty and bad for all this. And like I know I’m young but I still feel terrible. And I’m not saying anyone who has suffered with it is any less deserving and we all make mistakes but I just feel guilty still thinking for myself.

I feel like I’m legit wasting my life. All I mostly do for a hobby is read but that’s pretty much it. And I have so many things I want to do but then end up doing nothing. I’m so tired all the time

Edit: thanks for all the replies!

I’m prob not gonna get married in a while cause I’m only 19 but I was wondering what’s it like getting married young? are you happy? Or do you wish you got married later in life? Like those (19-21)
And like sometimes I think about it but other times I’m like no not yet

I’m 19 and okay I know I’m young. But I deal with mental health issues and get scared thinking maybe it’s just better if I live on my own I’ve seen things firsthand also in my family. My parents say it’s apart of my dean. Even when I expressed it they got upset a bit for that reason.
For me I would prob want to get married later my mom told me I should in five years at least. I don’t know I worry a lot though. I’d want to manage my symptoms better at least. And I know some people than me have it even worse. But I’m an over thinker. Lol

I am a hopeless romantic though just also like idk
Also I didn’t know what to put for the flair 😭

I’m so dumb. Made guy friends I was feeling lonely and it isn’t an excuse and they kept pestering me some of them for a pic of my face. They were Muslim except one but still. But I did and now I’m scared like I don’t even know what they’re going to do with it. Like I deleted it but still.I can’t believe that, I hat e that’s sometimes I don’t think things though and make mistakes so easily. Like even though yes it’s haram why do you need someone’s face pic to be someone’s friend like bruh but omg I so regret it. To be honest I’m
More scared cause of ai and stuff

Salam. So I gave my random face pics to guys and like idk it feels so wrong even though they were appropriate. And I don’t even know what they’re gonna do with it. Some of them kept asking so o just gave in. But omg I really regret and I know I made a sin. Like also I’m a non hijabi right now. But what if i want to be a hijabi in the future? And now those photos are just floating around. Omg idk why I keep making so many mistakes im an idiot.

Salam. How do I repent properly? Also will repenting for my past sins be acceptable because I don’t think I did it the right way. and I’m not sure if my repentance will be accepted for those as they were so long ago. I just wanted to know if it does still count.

It’s so sad. Like people are trying to get better and then others are messaging for nsfw stuff like bruh. It’s acc annoying please stop. Because people are genuinely trying to get better. why’re people so creepy 💔

This is honestly annoying 😭 THERES CREEPS EVERYWHERE, be careful. I’m not even tryna get married right now. But posted something on this sub for advice got a message for nsfw it’s kinda sad. Just be careful

Assalamualikum. I am a Muslim woman and I don’t watch porn or anything but I have read a lot of smut. And sometimes (most of the times) I feel like it’s really addicting I want to know does it have the same effect as porn? And also I am very ashamed by it. Also I like reading books in general but in my early teens I got introduced to smut and would read a lot of it started from there. 😭