u/Organic_Discount9272

Ho 17 anni e temo di aver sprecato la mia adolescenza: sono sempre stato molto timido e poco propenso a nuove esperienze, non ho mai avuto relazioni sentimentali, frequento gli stessi quattro amici d'infanzia e ho iniziato a fare qualcosa di diverso (andare a feste, campi estivi, viaggi) solo l'anno scorso. Sento però di avere davanti a me solo due o tre anni prima che tutto finisca, quindi cerco di bruciare le tappe, ma il rimpianto mi sta mangiando vivo. Ne ho 17, ma me ne sento 15, e il mondo non mi aspetterà.

Cosa ne pensate?

i'm 17 and i fear i wasted my teenage years, i've always been very shy and i've never been very open towards new experiences, i never had sentimental relationships, i have the same 4 friends from childhood and i started doing stuff (going to parties, summer camps, trips) last year but i feel like i only have 2/3 years left and then everything ends so i'm tryna rush everything in these 3 years but the regret is eating me alive. i'm 17 but i feel 15 and the world isn't gonna wait for me

what do you think

Ho 17 anni. Questa estate sto passando un periodo un po' difficile quindi per distrarmi cerco di uscire di casa e vedere altre persone il più tempo possibile. Il problema è che la maggior parte dei miei amici sono occupati o per lavoro o per impegni di volontariato (fanno gli animatori in un centro estivo), e quindi è da giorni che passo i pomeriggi e talvolta le sere a non fare nulla, guardare il cellulare e stare in casa, e qiesta cosa mi deprime parecchio. in più anche quando usciamo la sera non c'è mai molto da fare.

Allora stasera ne ho parlato con un mio amico che mi ha detto che d'ora in poi saremo sempre più occupati e ci vedremo sempre meno e che ad esempio suo fratello vede i suoi amici 1/2 volte al mese, e questa spiegazione è in fondo ciò che un po' temevo, anche perché mi ttovo in un momento della mia vita in cui mi sembra di essere rimasto un po' indietro rispetto a tutti.

Ma è davvero così la vita soprattutto finita la scuola? è vero che diventerà tutto così "noioso"?

I'm 17 and from Italy, I recently got into the palantir/AI companies rabbit hole and I'm terrified of my future, Thiel is a fascist, he doesn't have morals, he's a MAGA psycho, and i heard his satanic company is being distributed in western countries, I fear I will end up as a slave that works while CEOs rule the world with AI. I was also recently worried about not being able to do what I wish to do when I grow up because of this new technocratic world order, and nobody seems to care. I'm just hopeless.

PS. I'm very pessimistic and whenever I try to think optimistically about this I just feel like a coping loser that this the world is all sunshine and rainbows. Help

I'm 17 and from Italy, I recently got into the palantir/AI companies rabbit hole and I'm terrified of my future, Thiel is a fascist, he doesn't have morals, he's a MAGA psycho, and i heard his satanic company is being distributed in western countries, I fear I will end up as a slave that works while CEOs rule the world with AI. I was also recently worried about not being able to do what I wish to do when I grow up because of this new technocratic world order, and nobody seems to care. I'm just hopeless.

PS. I'm very pessimistic and whenever I try to think optimistically about this I just feel like a coping loser that this the world is all sunshine and rainbows. Help

I'm 17 and from Italy, I recently got into the palantir/AI companies rabbit hole and I'm terrified of my future, Thiel is a fascist, he doesn't have morals, he's a MAGA psycho, and i heard his satanic company is being distributed in western countries, I fear I will end up as a slave that works while CEOs rule the world with AI. I was also recently worried about not being able to do what I wish to do when I grow up because of this new technocratic world order, and nobody seems to care. I'm just hopeless.

PS. I'm very pessimistic and whenever I try to think optimistically about this I just feel like a coping loser that this the world is all sunshine and rainbows. Help

I'm 17 and from Italy, I recently got into the palantir/AI companies rabbit hole and I'm terrified of my future, Thiel is a fascist, he doesn't have morals, he's a MAGA psycho, and i heard his satanic company is being distributed in western countries, I fear I will end up as a slave that works while CEOs rule the world with AI. I was also recently worried about not being able to do what I wish to do when I grow up because of this new technocratic world order, and nobody seems to care. I'm just hopeless.

PS. I'm very pessimistic and whenever I try to think optimistically about this I just feel like a coping loser that this the world is all sunshine and rainbows. Help