u/Original_Assistance3

Let me type you. Type me based on whatever, too, if u want.
β–² 98 r/Enneagram

Let me type you. Type me based on whatever, too, if u want.

NOTE: READ MY EDIT!!!

[Edit: Two new rules. #1, if you're asking for a typing, then leave your typing for me at the end of your comment. I'm going out of my way to type and respond to every single person who comments, so it'd be nice if y'all would at least show a little appreciation and return the favor here ):< I wanna be analyzed, too, you know πŸ₯Ί Rule #2, I won't be responding to any comments made after the end of today (Tuesday, 05/19/26), so make sure you get your comments in before 12:00 AM CST tonight. (If you make a comment before the day ends, and I don't get to you, I will try and get back to you tomorrow. I will finish responding tomorrow to everyone who I didn't get to today for whatever reason, or at least get to you by the end of the week if there are just too many comments made before the end of tonight.)]

I'm bored. Let me type you. Just keep it on the post (not in my DMs). Don't redirect me to another post of your own either. Leave a comment here. Give me a short description of yourself and keep it 400 words or less (or else I just won't answer). I may or may not give an in-depth analysis. I might just type you with no further elaboration (lol). It just depends on what I feel like at the moment and/or if I feel like you might actually need more elaboration.

Alternatively, you can ask me questions and I'll answer them. You can try and guess my type based on how I answer ur questions.

You can also try and roast me in general or tell me how deluded I am about what you think I think my type is lol, do whatever you want idc. This post is really just for fun as I'm pretty confident in my own self-typing by now. If you give a compelling argument for why I've possibly mistyped myself, however, I might consider it... maybe. We'll see πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

Let the fun begin 😁

u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 2 days ago
β–² 43 r/Enneagram

What is a character that shares your core type, or a character you've been compared to by others that you do NOT appreciate being similar to?

I made a similar post around a month ago, however I want to turn the idea of that post on its head and make it about characters you don't like being compared to, or chracters you're embarrassed to share a core type with/embarrassed to somewhat relate to (lol).

I'm e2 and probably sx/so, and I one time asked the e8 girl I'm dating right now, "Which character on The Office [our favorite show btw] reminds you the most of me?" She straight up said to me, with no hesitation, "Oh, Micheal."

Just imagine the sheer horror I felt, and the look on my face when she said that, bro πŸ’€πŸ˜­

u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 4 days ago
β–² 8 r/Enneagram

Has anybody else done this test?

https://kisiliktipi.com/

(Note: You'll have to use your browser's in-built translator to do the test if you don't speak/read Turkish.)

This was my results lol. It's pretty accurate!

Do the test if you haven't yet, and share your own results down below 🀠

Edit: Whoever downvoted me, I hope u go bald and if u already are then I hope u lose ur eyebrows too 🫢☺️

u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 5 days ago
β–² 10 r/Enneagram

Physical ailments commonly associated with certain types?

Are there any patterns of physical ailments being commonly associated with certain types? For example, are migraines a consistent issue for head types?

I was thinking about this because my brother, a 7, had a severe migraine this morning and I think he's really stressed out about a friend of his who has cancer and he's now showing some physical symptoms of his stress in the form of really bad migraines (to the point where we almost had to take him to the hospital; my brother almost threw up cuz of the migraines and he was in real pain). Also, my dad (a 5) has severe migraines as well when he's really stressed in life and experiencing personal problems in general.

Meanwhile, my type 1 mom (a gut type) gets really high cholestrol and blood pressure when she's stressed, and the doctors keep telling her she needs to relax more/be less angry or else the problem will get worse.

What are some patterns you've noticed from certain types as it concerns physical ailments? What would the equivalent be for heart types? Chronic depression maybe?

(Note: Obviously it goes without saying that any type could experience any sort of physical ailment, and that certain ailments are not exclusive to certain types. I'm just asking about overall patterns or general trends as it concerns physical ailments and which types we tend to see suffer from said ailments.)

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u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 5 days ago
β–² 2 r/mbti

Do you guys ever do this?

I'll be scrolling through YouTube shorts or Instagram reels or whatever and compulsively analyze the video creator's type lol. Like, I'll just think to myself, "Lol, obvious ESTP" or "Ah, yep that's an ENFJ alright." Like there's this one guy's shorts, I forget his name, but I get his vids on my feed all the time and he's such an ENFJ stereotype it's crazy. I wish I could just tell all these people what their type is, but all these folks don't know anything about MBTI and/or it's just not pertinent to the subject matter of the video so it would just be weird if I did that πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚

My brain does this in general all the time with people I meet, tho. Like I compulsively psychoanalyze every single person I meet, and it's hard to stop. Idk why I do this πŸ™ƒ I've done it all my life tho, even before getting into typology and now being able to put a label on all the archetypes I've had in my brain for people. I get a pretty fast read on people's MBTI and enneagram in general lol. I guess it's just a fun thing for me to do idk haha. It makes boring or mundane conversations kinda interesting and turns each of them into a game/puzzle of quickly trying to figure out someone's type and that helps me know in advance what kind of person I'm dealing with, what I should expect out of them, and how I can "speak their language" if that makes any sense. It's kind of a cheat code for knowing exactly how to get the person to like me πŸ‘€ It's awesome!

But yeah, does anybody else do this haha

Edit: I found the ENFJ channel I mentioned earlier and it's this one. His YouTube name is Byfarzy. EVERY time his videos show up on my feed, I just can't help but think "Wowwww, what an obvious ENFJ" πŸ˜‚

u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 7 days ago
β–² 13 r/EnneagramTypeMe+1 crossposts

You know the drill 😎

  1. What’s your biggest fear?

Dying alone πŸ’€ More specifically, dying without having ever gotten married. I also fear not having some kind of offspring of my own eventually (adoption is perfectly fine and counts here btw; I would be happy with adopting in the future if necessary), but this fear isn't as great as dying without a wife.

  1. What’s your biggest desire?

Getting married and having a family of my own. Right behind that is saving the world in some way (or at least, significantly impacting the world for the better in some major way, like Jesus or Ghandi or MLK; I want to leave a legacy behind of having helped a LOT of people on a grand scale through a radical vision or personal philosophy of mine).

  1. What are you ''the best'' at?

Communication. I'm very good at "translating" people's thoughts so as to cut down on people talking past each other all the time. I'm also pretty good at predicting what people are about to say in general, and helping them feel understood. I can make things that are usually hard to understand into something simple and mass-communicable, and of course something actionable.

I'm not the best at it but I'm also better than most at providing emotional comfort, and compliments in general. I'm pretty good at anticipating what people need, and remembering unique things about them (such as their favorite snack or their own birthday or what have you), even if it's been a very long time since I've seen the person (and I'm talking years lol; as long as the person was special to me in some way, anyway). I'm also just very good at reading people in general.

  1. How do you see yourself right now?

I'd rather not say anything that'll make me look immodest or not humble, but I worry that just by saying this that I'm essentially doing the very thing I'm trying to avoid haha.

I guess if I absolutely have to say something, I see myself as a very perceptive person and someone who cares a lot about other people in general.

  1. How do you see yourself 5 years from now?

No idea. Idk how anyone could see that far into the future tbh lol. Ideally, I'd be married at least. And I'd have at least one kid, too. That would be really nice. I'd also like to have my own cult (jk but also kinda not; I want to start my own "church" or religious movement, so to speak).

  1. How do you express yourself?

I guess the way I'm doing it right now haha.

Nah but fr tho, I talk with my hands a lot I guess. I also have to talk my feelings out out loud in order to properly process them. So sometimes you might catch me off guard and see me muttering to myself when I didn't want you or anyone else to see, because sometimes I won't have anyone I can talk to or feel like I can honestly confide in. Sometimes I'm afraid opening up will make me look weak, especially if I'm the usually upbeat one making others feel better or playing the role of therapist (and especially if the person I want to open up to has, in the past, not listened, changed the subject, tried to gaslight or undermine me about what I know I experienced, threw it back at my face, shared with everyone what I told them in confidence, or what have you).

Sometimes I'm afraid opening up will make me look like a victim, and I don't want to look like like that. I often feel like it'll destroy this perfect image I have curated to make sure that other people think I'm fine and even great, and that I can still be the "nice," "sweet," "funny," "cool," or "charming" guy I usually am. Because it kinda feels like if I'm not all these things at all times, then others just... don't want me around for some reason.

I see most people, but most people don't see me. And by "see," I mean look at the inside of someone. Not simply the exterior. But it's fine as I'm pretty used to it by now and I accepted this a pretty long time ago, I think. I usually just deal with things on my own, anyway.

So I guess I don't really express myself.

  1. How do you feel about those near you (family, friends)?

I care immensely about them, but it often feels like they don't really care about me as much as I care about them.

  1. How do you feel about strangers?

They're just people, trying to get by like anyone else. I have no reason to feel ill will toward anyone who has yet to hurt me, and strangers fall into this category. In fact, I feel like people don't really care about their fellow man as much as they should. The Good Samaritan is a good example of how we ought to treat strangers, even those who we may be predisposed to not liking (the J3ws and Samaritans did not get along, but most people overlook the historical context of this passage in the Bible, among other amazing things like how the Samaritan was breaking a lot of man-made "purity laws" in deciding to save the J3w).

I really like the quote, "Be the change you want to see in the world." I want to embody what I feel like is sorely lacking in the world, and that to me is compassion. It feels like nobody is genuinely compassionate towards others anymore and it often frustrates me.

  1. How do you deal with conflict?

I try and kill 'em with kindness πŸ‘‰πŸ˜‰πŸ‘‰ I will try to be very patient, and not stoop to the level of someone who is seemingly just trying to abuse me or be mean to me for whatever reason (sometimes they were just having a bad day though, to be fair; most people usually have good intentions and/or are just taking out on me frustrations that really came from elsewhere and not me).

If that doesn't work tho, I can kindaaaaa explode and that can look really ugly (which I will promptly feel extremely guilty and ashamed about immediately afterward, lol). I feel guilty for feeling negative emotions in general, though. Or expressing them, I guess.

If there's conflict between two other people, and it doesn't involve me, I tend to step in and try to mediate if it's at least somewhat civil, or get seriously angry and even sometimes forceful if who I perceive as the innocent party is literally being physically threatened. I don't feel as guilty for my emotions in these instances, funnily enough.

  1. How do you deal with change?

Not great and I'll just leave it at that lol.

  1. How do you deal with your emotions?

See my answers to questions 6 and 9 (lol 69).

  1. What do you hope to avoid doing or being? What values are important to you?

I hope to avoid being an uncaring person, or a person lacking in kindness and compassion and virtue in general. I also hope to avoid apathy, but these things can get to me sometimes if I'm not careful.

Integrity as a whole is very important to me, but a value I feel is probably most important is compassion. Very close behind this is loyalty, honesty, and steadfastness. Being true to your word. Etc. It's not kind to be lacking in any of these departments.

  1. What do you hope to accomplish in your life?

I just want to be a good person. I want to fulfill the purpose for which I and everyone else was created (at least in my opinion), and that is to love others genuinely and fully in the ways that people as individuals need to be loved.

  1. How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

It depends. If I'm in the middle of doing something already (usually for someone else), I can get annoyed (but promptly feel guilty about this and tell myself that I shouldn't be like that). Otherwise, I'm usually glad to help. It feels nice to be nice.

If I decide to help it's because I want to be a kind person, and it's just the right thing to do.

  1. Do you need logical consistency in your life?

Hmmm. Sometimes. I think more than anything I need moral consistency, which I guess might require logical consistency at times. But morality tends to outweigh logic for me in any case, unless I can use logic to show why something is actually evil and should be discouraged or avoided.

  1. How important is your image in regards to how others perceive you? Do you want to be perceived in a certain way? Does it bother you if you are perceived in some other way than the one you wish to be perceived with?

It's admittedly important to me, as guilty and ashamed as I am to say that (I'm working on it, tho).

I want to be perceived as a good person. A kind and compassionate person.

It bothers me immensely when I'm perceived in a way other than the way I wish to be perceived. Though it doesn't bother me as much (if at all) if I'm perceived as too aggressive or flippant when I step in to defend somebody I care about/someone I think is being persecuted or abused or bullied or what have you.

  1. How important is financials, security, and survival to you? This includes having sufficient resources, avoiding danger and maintaining a fundamental sense of structure and wellbeing

Meh. I want emotional stability more than anything, lol. Emotional turmoil feels more dangerous than actual, physical threats for some reason. (Except bugs, they're the only exception to the rule and they terrify me πŸ‘πŸ‘ I try and trap bugs that wander into my house in order to throw them outside tho. I reaaaally don't like killing them cuz idk it's just mean and I feel bad if I do that, man; they're just trying to live and they don't even really know what's going on anyway, there's very little reason to kill them most of the time.)

If there ever is an immediate physical threat, I wake up like a sleeper agent and suddenly get super smart and hyper-aware of every little thing going on. That's only happened a few times in my life, though (I'm grateful for being able to live as comfortable as I do in a first world country with good, albeit helicopter, parents that raised me lol), so thankfully I don't usually have to go full on "Jason Bourne" on people and the world in the day-to-day πŸ˜ŽπŸ˜‚

  1. What is your reaction and thoughts to others' rejection, criticism and disapproval of you?

Bad.

I try not to think too much about it.

  1. What is the importance of the concepts, ideas and meaning behind things to you? Are you trying to make sense of your everyday life?

Extremely important. I'm always thinking about the meaning of things. I don't know why more people don't think about these kinds of things, you're going to die eventually lol. You'd think you'd want to get things like meaning and purpose sorted out before the inevitable comes...

  1. What are your thoughts on expressing your vulnerability?

It's hard for me to show vulnerability.

  1. Would you consider yourself a jealous and/or possessive person? What do you think is the cause?

I didn't think I was but recent events have come up that have made me realize that I'm a lot more jealous and possessive than I previously thought.

  1. What makes you feel guilty? How do you deal and cope with such feelings? Do you seek to fix it, or do you dwell on them?

I've kinda already answered this in various ways throughout everything I've written here.

  1. What do you think is an example of an ideal person? Emphasize which qualities are more important to you, and explain whether this ideal is something you’d want to be, or someone you would like to seek out

Jesus.

He has innumerable qualities that I can't possibly expound on in any meaningful way that anybody else before me hasn't already in the past 2000 years (lol). If I absolutely had to say something, though, I'd say the qualities I find most important from him are his self-sacrificial and faithful nature.

I seek Jesus out every day, as do I seek to emulate him 😊

  1. How do you view and judge reality?

Uhhh idek how to answer this tbh lol. Seems more like an MBTI question if I'm being completely honest.

Reality is reality. We all share one objective reality, though some people for some reason think reality is whatever you want it to be (which is wrong, and dangerous). There are underline, spiritual things that need to be discerned with a more careful eye at times, yes, but it's still the same reality we all share at the end of the day (even on the spiritual side of things, which we all have access to in varying ways, with some being positive and some negative of course).

The question Pilate asked of Jesus during his trial and interrogation toward him is the same question the post-modernist asks: "What is truth?" It is just as dangerous and crafty a question as the one the serpent asked of Eve in the Garden of Eden: "Did ___ really say...?"

Reality is also pretty brutal if we don't act to change it or be above it in some way. Like the quote I referenced earlier, we have to "be the change [we] want to see in the world." Reality is, sadly, harsh and often dark. But a city set on a hill cannot be hid, and neither can a lamp in the corner of a dark room...

πŸ™

u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 8 days ago
β–² 2 r/Enneagram

6s whenever they have to present something in front of an audience

Skip to 1:25 for the best part lol

(Love y'all 6s, y'all are one of my top two fave types btw 🫢🀠)

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u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 10 days ago
β–² 51 r/Enneagram

What's your enneagram "hot take"?

I'll start.

The sx3 "subtype" is literally just e2. Probably an e2 with 6 and 9 for fixes, sure, but it's fundamentally e2 nonetheless. Let's stop pretending it's not. Meanwhile, the actual sx2 "subtype" description is just describing an e2 with an 8 fix. Both "subtypes" are probably describing sx-dom e2s, just with different fixes is all. (And the former probably describes sx/so, while the latter seemingly describes sx/sp.)

Not all sx2s are these hyper-agressive people that their description paints them as lol. This is e2 we're talking about here. Yes, some of them are like that, sure. But again, it's not always the case that they are. In fact, more likely than not, we're encountering something closer to the sx3 description whenever we're actually touching grass and interacting with e2s out in the real world. "Sx3" description is much more socially acceptable, and thus probably contains coping mechanisms and behaviors that most sx2s that are out and about are going to find an easier time getting away with/practicing around others on the day-to-day.

Thank you for coming to my TED talk 🀠

Edit: Made post shorter and to the point.

u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 12 days ago
β–² 7 r/Enneagram

How I understand "holy will" as an e2

The "holy idea" the e2 learns when becoming healthy is "holy will." In my interpretation, it's the idea that true love is unconditional, and an e2 must respect the will of others if they genuinely want to find the kind of love that they've unknowingly been looking for all their lives. The kind of love that they actually need. You can't "make" other people love you. Paradoxically, you have to love others without expectations in order to get the love you actually need (and, deep down, want) as an e2. In fact, this kind of love can already be found within yourself!

If you're an e2, you can't expect someone to love you in exactly the way you want them to just because you happened to have loved them in that way. You just have to accept that some people won't do exactly what you want them to, and respect people's free will. You have to accept that maybe some people won't even love you to begin with, no matter how much you do for them.

"Holy will" is also the idea that good things will continue to happen without your involvement. You can drop the savior complex and realize that you're not the main character. Someone else might be. You don't need to save the world (or at least, the burden isn't entirely on your shoulders alone). There are many other good agents in the world that can help you out here and might even finish the good things you started for others, since said agents have a will of their own too. They might even get all the credit for whatever it is that you felt you were mostly responsible for. And that's okay! Imagining yourself as being remembered in the annals of history for how much you loved others and impacted the world through what you did to save it (yeah it's pretty obvious I'm a so2 lol) is a pretty prideful thing, and you need to admit that. It's not truly altruistic to save the world if you expect a statue to be made for you or a book to be written in your honor after your "sacrifices."

You want to honestly love others? Drop all the expectations. Love people as they are, and not what they "could be." And learn how to set healthier boundaries for whenever you realize that you yourself might not actually be loved by someone for who you actually are, or might not be loved by those who only seek to take from you until you have nothing left of yourself. And if you just can't think in these terms yet, at least learn how to set healthier boundaries for all the other people who may need you more. An empty cup cannot fill others'! After all, if a person only wants to take from you until you have nothing left to give, and they've proven to you that they have no intention of changing after all the chances that you've already given them, then maybe that person isn't the one that you should be helping. Maybe... it's someone else. For example:

YOU!

Anyways, I'd love to hear how you guys understand "holy will" (whether you're an e2 or not) and the other "holy ideas" through the lense of each of the types themselves (e.g., "Holy Love" from e9, "Holy Truth" from e8, etc.) 🀠

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u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 14 days ago
β–² 9 r/Enneagram

I'm well aware of some disagreeing that he had an enneatype to begin with, due to some Christians being of the belief that he was God incarnate and thus "possessed no type or unhealthy fixation." I'm also well aware that some believe he never even existed in the first place. Finally, I'm well aware that Jesus (whether as a person who actually existed in history or simply as a character portrayed in the pages of what some think is a book that consists of purely fiction) is portrayed differently from gospel to gospel, and even possibly portrayed inconsistently within each of the respective gospels themselves (given earlier versions of the manuscripts for each gospel and/or embellishments and innacurate details within the texts' sequencing of events and records of what actually happened itself).

But humor me for a moment, and answer the question based on what you personally think or feel is the most consistent portrayal of Jesus throughout all known records, descriptions, and depictions of him, regardless of whether or not you personally believe he was real or even God himself.

What do you believe Jesus' enneagram was (or is)?

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u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 17 days ago
β–² 14 r/Enneagram

I can think of very few movies off the top of my head where an e2 is the main character. My favorite one would be "Dead Man Walking," as I REALLY resonated with the main character (played by Susan Sarandon). She is a 2w1 and an xxFJ like myself (tho I'm male; my dad said her character reminds him a lot of me lol). Another great movie, but for 2w3 instead, is "Clueless" (whose main character is played by Alicia Silverstone). Both really great movies in general and I'd recommend them to anyone, regardless of their enneatype and even if they're not into typology haha.

Do you guys know of any other movies where an e2 is the main character? I've always had the sneaking suspicion that Stanley Ipkiss, the MC of "The Mask" (played by Jim Carrey, RIP to my boy ✊️) is an e2. I know he's typed as e9 online but I don't knowwww. I think PDB might be wrong here (but tbf, when are they not? πŸ˜‚). I could be wrong tho, I'm open to hearing arguments for both sides either way πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

I'd also honestly just settle on movies where e2 is not the main character as well. Probably better that way actually since we need to be humbled and our general character arc involves us learning/realizing that we are not the main character, and that we need to step aside and just support the person who actually is if we honestly seek to help the most amount of people (and love others unconditionally) lol. I'm thinking of Boromir from Lord of the Rings, for example, fitting this idea and archetypal story arc for e2.

Also, mention your favorite e2 characters in general! Preferably e2 heroes (or e2s that at least become healthy through being humbled and shedding their pride by the end of the story), but e2 villians are okay too I guess. This community already villainizes us tho soooo maybe let's focus on the hero versions of us, okay guys? 😭 We already know about Annie Wilkes and the Other Mother and Lots-O and so on and so forth lol, any e2s that are active in the typology community are reminded ad nauseum about our dark side πŸ™ƒ

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u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 19 days ago
β–² 8 r/mbti

Genuinely curious because my mom is ESFJ and I think I kinda get it? If she's in a Ti-grip for example, she starts to get really critical of everything and everybody, but to be fair that might just be because she's an enneagram 1 and they kinda just do that in general lol (tho it does ramp up significantly when she's really unhealthy).

So what exactly does inferior Ti look like, in both the ESFJ and ENFJ (regardless of health levels)? I think I might know since I sorta see it in my mom, but I'm not exactly able to articulate it for some reason lol. Somebody help me out here.

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u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 23 days ago
β–² 4 r/EnneaFiction+1 crossposts

Here is the story in question. (And yes this is a link to my alternate profile lol.) I'd also like to get my main character's MBTI if possible, preferably.

I'm flairing this as "Type Me Tuesday" because I didn't know how else to flair this.

Bonus: Type me, the author, based on my short story and its message(s)/the way it's structured/etc.

Enjoy!

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u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 23 days ago
β–² 17 r/Enneagram

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Idk how to caption images on mobile so I'll just make a list here for which memes belong to each type:

E1 – slide 9

E2 – slide 12 (they could be either person in that pic lol)

E3 – slide 20

E4 – slides 15 and 17

E5 – slides 10 and 18 (both of these are more 5w6 tbh)

E6 – slides 3, 4, 8, 13, and 16

E7 – slides 1 (could also be E9), 3 (this slide is 7w6/6w7 in general lol), 6, and 19

E8 – slides 12 and 14

E9 – slides 1, 5, and 11

So-dom – slide 7 (I feel like this could be so6 butttt I wasn't sure; I could be way off, I just didn't know where else exactly to put this one lol)

Sx-dom – slide 2

(I know there is an over-representation of 6s and 7s here but I mean c'mon, we all know they're the funniest types lol)

Edit: Upon further reflection, I guess slide 5 could be sp-dom? Not sure, someone correct me if I'm wrong lol.

u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 24 days ago
β–² 24 r/mbtimemes

Categorizing each middle two letter temperaments by what their most likely line of work is.

This meme was brought to you by the NF gang 😎 (I have a job as a cashier but I won't for much longer if these customers keep PUSHING ME to use my ENFJ SWORD ON THEM!! Love everyone, tho! ✌️☺️)

u/Original_Assistance3 β€” 25 days ago