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According to this I'd be SLOAN, but I'm actually SLOAI lol. I always test as SLOAI everywhere else, anyway, and my dad says I fit SLOAI more :P
What would be my type based on all this?


According to this I'd be SLOAN, but I'm actually SLOAI lol. I always test as SLOAI everywhere else, anyway, and my dad says I fit SLOAI more :P
What would be my type based on all this?
According to this I'd be SLOAN, but I'm actually SLOAI lol. I always test as SLOAI everywhere else, anyway, and my dad says I fit SLOAI more :P
Do y'all think my flair is accurate or nah?
I'm aware Naranjo mapped certain personality disorders to the types overall, but I'm curious what you guys would map to the 27 subtypes specifically.
Here's what Naranjo mapped to the nine types in general (as far as I'm aware; correct me if I'm wrong down below in the comments):
1 = Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (or "OCPD," not to be confused with OCD)
2 = Histrionicism
3 = Narcissism
4 = Borderline Personality Disorder
5 = Schizoid
6 = Paranoid Personality Disorder
7 = Narcissism (again)
8 = Antisocial Personality Disorder
9 = Dependent Personality Disorder
I'm not a fan of Naranjo's subtypes, but I think it'd be a fun exercise anyway to try and see which personality disorders correlate the most with his descriptions of each. For example, Sx2 definitely sounds histrionic, but So2 sounds a bit more narcissistic while Sp2 sounds like Dependent Personality Disorder. OCD (not OCPD) sounds kinda 6ish. Like, maybe Sp6? Though I could also see it for So6 tbf.
Edit: Oh and bonus question! Which types in general (doesn't have to be subtypes) correlate most with each of the "cluster" personalities in the DSM-5? Like, cluster A, cluster B, and cluster C?
Genuinely curious.
The one that immediately pops up in my head is "Charisma on Command" (Charlie Houpert), who is very obviously a 3 lol. So3, to be more specific.
I'm embarrassed to admit it but ngl, I watched him religiously back when I was in High School and trying to rebrand myself my senior year π
Anyway, cringe aside, I thought this might be a fun and interesting exercise. Because there are so many times I'm watching a video or scrolling through shorts, thinking to myself, "Oh lol, they must be a (insert type here)" after their content repeatedly pops up on my feed and I'm forced to keep watching them cuz of the algorithm and whatnot π
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Try and lock in and type me purely based on these images lol.
I saw someone else quote lyrics to a song and I thought that was fun/funny so I guess I'll do the same:
How you doin', young lady? That feeling that you giving really drives me crazy. You dope, have a player 'bout to choke. I was at a loss for words first time that we spoke.
You lookin' for a girl that'll treat you right? How you lookin' for her in the daytime with the light?
You might be the type if I play my cards right. I'll find out by the end of the night
You expect me to just let you hit it? But will you still respect me if you get it?
All I can do is try, gimme one chance. What's the problem? I don't see no ring on your hand. I'll be the first to admit it, I'm curious about you, you seem so innocent.
You wanna get in my world, get lost in it? Boy, I'm tired of runnin', let's walk for a minute.
Promiscuous girl, wherever you are, I'm all alone, and it's you that I want.
Promiscuous boy, you already know, that I'm all yours, what you waiting for?
Promiscuous girl, you're teasin' me. You know what I want, and I got what you need.
Promiscuous boy, let's get to the point. 'Cause we're on a roll, you ready?
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It is Tuesday, 08/18/26 as of the time of making this post. Please get your comments in before midnight tonight, 12:00 AM CST. Any new comments made after this designated timeframe will not be answered. If you make a comment before the time runs out, and I didn't get to you today for whatever reason, then don't worry. I will answer you tomorrow or later on in the week, depending on my work schedule and if I have too many comments to get to in one day.
If you do not abide by these rules, you will simply be ignored. Sorry!
(DISCLAIMER: I may or may not provide more elaboration for my typing of you, depending on whether I think you need it or not. If you don't like the typing I have assigned you, then you're always free to ignore it and/or tell me I'm wrong or what have you. I'm not going to get into an argument with you either way, so don't expect a debate if that's what you're looking for. You might even be right in what you originally thought was your own type if what you tell me afterward is more consistent in retrospect than what I typed you as instead. I'm not always right lol. That said, I'm usually good at narrowing things down to two or three options at most, so I'm usually not thaaaat far off either π)
Happy typing!
The villain prematurely lost his wife and child in a horrific accident that he feels personally responsible for. The villain's grief was inconsolable, and he felt like life was meaningless and purposeless now that the ones he lived to serve and care for have passed. The villain cannot move on from the "Eden" (metaphorically speaking) he once enjoyed in the past. "Nothing will ever be as beautiful, perfect, and fulfilling as things once were. All the ones I love are now gone... forever..." The villain originally thought that his "Eden" would last forever, but was inevitably confronted with the harsh reality and "truth" of life that nothing in this world truly lasts forever. Further, he feels an immense guilt over what he perceives to be his own fault and doing, and seeks some sort of redemption or atonement for his "sins."
The villain becomes disillusioned with "happiness" and "meaning" as traditionally conceived or understood. He effectively decides to manifest into reality a redefined ideal of "Edenic bliss" and "meaning" by making sure that all suffering will be utterly eradicated. He sees all suffering as ultimately perpetuated by man and therefore sees man as unnecessarily cruel or else severely "ignorant of the truth." That "truth" is the villain's newfound conception of God and man's ultimate fate under Him.
The villain's conception of God is that God originally created man so that man can experience the "joy," "peace," and "unfathomable mercy" of non-existence whenever entropy finally runs its full course, but we as humans have prolonged the inevitable instead of simply accepting it. The villain wants to make "actual meaning" exist in the world by making "the most meaningful decision that could ever be made": destroy all life and end all suffering once and for all. He wants to "fulfill the purpose for which man was originally created," which to him is the equivalent of cosmic euthanasia.
In making this decision, the villain is unconsciously creating a scenario where he can finally achieve or receive purpose and happiness once again, but only by completely redefining and twisting these things into something unrecognizable (as the villain feels that "meaning" and "bliss" is impossible to receive otherwise after experiencing the trauma that he personally went through; "real happiness" to the villain is not painful, and never ends).
The villain seeks to destroy all life, not out of malice, but out of "mercy." He believes life is ultimately just suffering, and to resolve the problem, he's decided to extinguish all life (or at least try). He's also come to terms with the fact that this would ultimately mean the end of his own life, but he justifies this to himself by saying that it's what's simply ideologically or "morally" consistent, rather than just admit to others or himself that his own death is what he's seeking out to begin with. The villain feels that he suffered so much in his life that he doesn't want anyone else to ever feel the way that he has, and this partly motivates him. This also motivates him to seek to accomplish his goals with as little suffering as possible, making the deaths of others as painless and "humane" as possible (even those who stand in his way, whom he sees as simply "naive," "misled," or "not yet confronted with the harsh reality of life").
The villain presents himself as rather compassionate and calm, albeit cold and slightly distant. He very seldom loses control of his own emotions, as he believes emotions are a part of what makes life so painful too. Thus, he is very controlled and tries not to let sadness or anger get to him by no longer getting emotionally attached to others. Positive emotions are also supressed, because "sorrow and disappointment inevitably follow joy and excitement at some point or another."
Ironically, the villain's main method of convincing others to join his cause is by appearing very empathetic and emotionally concerned about the suffering of others. The villain usually appeals to someone's emotion rather than logic in order to convince them of his own ideology/worldview. Showing how happiness, hopes, dreams, and, "most important of all," loved ones all die or wither away in the end in some way. Demonstrating how preemptively ending the suffering now makes it so that more suffering won't take place later whenever the aforementioned things inevitably "fade" or end for a person.
The villain essentially rationalizes his actions by expanding the idea of euthanasia wide enough to be applied on a grand scale, arguing that it's one's "moral duty" to speed up entropy rather than to continue to try and fight it or run from it. He also justifies his hypocrisy of using emotion to accomplish his goals by arguing that it's "for a greater good" that will ultimately lead to the "prophesied outcome" which "benefits everybody."
He genuinely feels that he's sent by God to carry out this vision, and truly believes that he's helping others by "ending their suffering." He is very driven to accomplish his goal, believing it would "save all life to destroy it." He is active in the way he seeks to accomplish his mission. It was not by mere happenstance that he gained the opportunity to manifest his vision for the world. The villain recruits members to his movement that would have the logistical and technical expertise to create a technology that would allow for this vision of his to come to fruition. The villain speaks with moral conviction in order to persuade these people and others to join him.
He feels like only he can "save the world" (i.e., end it), because he has the actual will, compassion, integrity and sense to do it. He also believes that everyone else is simply sincerely misguided and that most people haven't "thought things through" enough yet to realize what he "realized" to be the truth and what's actually best for everyone and everything. That if everyone just knew the "truth" of his ideology, all would be made right in the world and everyone would collectively work to destroy all life itself with him.
The villain's ultimate goal, whether conscious or unconscious, is happiness via contentment. Contentment that he "obeyed God" and did what he felt was "necessary" and his "moral duty." Contentment that he could finally be "forgiven" by God by carrying out what he (the villain) perceives to be His (God's) "will" and plan for him. Contentment that he can "finally rest" and be in the ether (void) with his family, albeit not literally since non-existence inherently doesn't allow for an actual reunion, but more so metaphorically.
Besides the earlier mentioned justifications, the villain also believes everything he's doing is "ideologically" or "morally" consistent (despite the glaring hypocrisy in how utilitarian some of his methods are) because he believes (after having received his "vision" or "realization," of course) it is everyone's moral responsibility to accelerate entropy rather than prevent it or run from it, and it'd be "selfish" of him to end his own life prematurely without first accomplishing the task he believes is set before him (especially if he wants "actual forgiveness" or "redemption" from God). His pursuit of "actual forgiveness" or "redemption" from God (i.e., happiness via contentment) by forcing a cosmic exchange or "ransoming" through the sacrifice of the innocent on the altar of his new and twisted worldview exposes what are actually selfish reasons indeed for everything he's doing.
The villain/antagonist serves as a mirror to my hero/protagonist, and vice versa. The hero is a strict and absolute pacifist, forcing a moral dilemma for him or her, as my hero is usually very principled and rigid in his or her own values and beliefs. Pacifism is basically the direct opposite of the villain's philosophy. Pacifists seek to preserve life at any and all costs, including the lives of people like the villain. This is going against the "natural order" of things (according to the villain), and going against "entropy." Against "the inevitable."
This will provide for a moral conundrum that forces my main character to not only evaluate what is most important to him or her, but also re-evaluate if he or she even has the right ideology to begin with considering that my villain does reveal some hard truths that my hero is very uncomfortable with and hasn't accepted within his or herself yet. My hero has trauma of their own, and he or she also has problems with letting go of the past, forgiveness (for both others and his/herself), frustration that others do not meet his or her high moral standards, and so on and so forth just like the villain.
Much of the journey consists of the hero having problems finding solutions that preserve as most lives as possible, including the villain's, while risking the lives of the ones they (the hero) love in trying to buy enough time to stave off the "inevitable outcome" of the villain's plan. They find temporary solutions at times to avoid death of both themselves, their loved ones, and others whenever confronted with physical threats by the villain's followers. It is not until close to the end of the story that our hero eventually and finally finds a more permanent solution that can save almost everyone. The only problem is that going through with it would mean their (the hero's) own death...
My hero will ultimately be pitted between picking happiness at the cost of killing the villain and betraying his or her own moral principles (which would weigh heavy on their conscience forever after, so is that truly happiness in the end?), or self-sacrifice at the cost of being happy and getting to live on with the ones they love and care about (leaving behind those who may depend on him or her, meaning their spouse and child as well as the world at large losing someone who could've done even "greater good" in the long run had the hero just killed the villain).
I remember being rejected as a young boy by many girls at school. I interpreted this as me simply being too ugly to meet their standards, as I'd see them laugh or overhear whispers of them saying, "Ewww, him?" I was bullied a lot for my looks as a kid and this really crushed me in general. So I one day vowed to never again allow this to happen to me, and that I would make others like me. I had a makeover, both inside and out. I radically changed my hair, my style, my personality, and just my overall look and the way I present to others in general.
I got more attention after this, but it didn't ever feel good enough, and so I would periodically change my look again and again, tweaking it until I'd find something perfect and something that suited my natural strengths. I focused on minimizing my flaws and accentuating my good features throughout the whole process. To others, this all simply looked like I liked to "switch things up a lot and experiment with different looks" because I was "bored." That's the excuse I used, but really I was trying to perfectly curate myself to be as sexually appealing as possible to the most amount of people. I studied and looked at what women in general seemed to like and not like. Later in life, I began seriously working out. When I was in high school, I forced myself into a million speech classes and even joined the speech & debate team my senior year to become better at speaking overall. And suddenly, I did start to get significant attention from girls.
What happened next was kinda weird. I technically got what I wanted but I felt hollow, and lowkey angry. The same women who rejected me in the past were suddenly showing interest in me. And... it just frustrated me. I was finally an actual option to these girls, but they didn't want the real me. They just wanted the version of myself that I created for them in order to please them. I always felt bitter about this, because I feel like now people only want me or want to get to know me for my body or how I look, how I flatter them, etc., but not the real and raw me underneath. Which is weird and ironic, and I know I shouldn't be complaining and I should instead be grateful (especially since I seriously put in the work, lol) but... I get mad and sad about this regardless. Like what the heck man, why couldn't you like me before I did all this? Why wasn't I good enough to you already? Why do you only like me based on what I do, how I look, and how I present, and not rather for just existing and being my true self instead? Even if I am a bit "weird" or have nerdy interests?
And so here I am now, stunted in my growth as a 25 year old chud who lives with his parents, because I focused so much on my appearance and making sure that I attract a partner that will meet all my needs that I did no real work on the things that actually mattered and are necessary for survival in this day and age (I literally still don't know how to drive and I'm a grown a*s man, it's so embarrassing and ironically it turns off the very person I'm trying to attract rn and makes others look at me as less of a man in general). People think I'm too introverted since I stay in all the time, when really I'm not and I just don't step foot outside my house usually because I don't want to get caught looking ugly by the outside world, and I'm just often too lazy to fulfill my endless morning routine that I've carefully constructed and curated over the years to help me maintain my looks for whenever I do end up going outside.
I hate so much that I'm like this, as people also often get annoyed with me as a lot of folks will want to hang out with me or need me to go somewhere with them or whatever, but here I am stalling them with my endless morning routine because I just CAN'T go outside looking less than perfect. I gotta brush my teeth, tweeze my eyebrows, trim my beard, stretch, workout, shower, and pick the perfect outfit and by the time I do all this the day is almost over and now everyone is mad at me because I got nothing actually productive done and I also basically stopped *them* from getting their own stuff done too.
I've been told a lot that I could be a model, and yet I'm the most insecure person as it concerns looks and physical appearance. It's so stupid and those girls aren't making fun of me anymore and it's been years since I've been out of school but for some reason it just... idk man, the rejection always stuck with me ever since then and it's so hard to get over it. It's so hard to believe anyone actually finds me truly attractive without all the work I put in almost every day to maintain this, and all the things I do to please others. And I feel shameful about all of it because it's incredibly vain and I consider myself a very religious person who wants to prioritize God and others before myself, and yet I struggle so much with what is clearly vanity.
The funniest part about this is that I never really cared much, if at all, about the physical appearance of my romantic interests. But I always felt like if I didn't look absolutely perfect, then I wouldn't ever even get my foot in the door or be given the time of day to begin with. I tend to automatically assume that others will reject me if I don't look physically attractive or hook them in some way, but I never reject others based on this as I know how it feels and I prioritize personality over looks anyway.
The girl I love just so happens to be the full package, though, and has both the looks and the personality. But if she looked completely average, I'd still love her. Again, I only really care about personality lol. A heart of gold is really all that matters to me at the end of the day. I just feel like if I don't look above average myself, then no one would like me at all, even the very people who say they still would... I just don't believe it, idk. It's hard for me to believe I guess. It's hard to believe people love me in general.
I lowkey dream of just being a trophy husband, but I know that's frowned upon by most of society (or at least, where I live), and honestly it's just not attractive, so I know I can't really do that as it wouldn't please my partner. So I need to lock in and learn how to drive and seriously try and get a better paying job, but I just don't know how to break the cycle I'm currently stuck in rn where I'm so neurotic about my physical appearance that I basically never get anything done due to trying to always maintain it and experiencing burnout whenever I inevitably can't keep it up consistently.
I'm terrified of aging and losing my looks, because honestly I feel like that's all I really have of value/to contribute in my relationships. It's all I really have going for me. I feel useless otherwise in most respects. I'm only good at being pretty and a pleasing and serving partner. And... yeah, I'm very good at sex ngl lol. Sometimes I feel like a real piece of meat cuz of all this, though, and this kinda makes me feel like crap /:
I just wish I was loved for the real me and for simply existing, but I know that's not really possible usually, so I feel like I'm trapped and like I have to match this ideal physical image and the kind of utility others desire from me in general or else I'll just get abandoned, rejected, and left with no attention all over again.
Ik I gotta lock in. I need to learn how to drive and just man up and stuff, ik π It's just really scary!
Adulting is hard ππ«
Yup! With all the other numbers gone, things are now so simple! Other types don't actually exist!!
You think you're a 1? Nah, ur just a So6.
You think you're a 2? Nah, ur just a So9.
You think you're a 3? Nah, you're just a 6 in disintegration. (That's right! You can disintegrate to non-existent types on the enneagram, because remember, there are NO other types besides 6 and 9 π)
You think you're a 4? Nah, ur just an ISFP 9.
You think you're a 5? Nah, ur just an Sp9 or an INxJ 6w5. (That's right! You can ALSO have wings for non-existent types on the enneagram, because remember, there are NO other types besides 6 and 9!)
You think you're a 7? Nah, ur just an ENxP 6w7.
You think you're an 8? Nah, you're just a Sx6. Or a "counterphobic" 6 in general. 6s definitely don't vascillate between phobic and counterphobic responses towards their fears. They're just one or the other all the time!
And if you think you're a 6 or a 9, then well done! You've found your type! No one is ever going to bat an eye or even bother with saying you might actually be mistyped because after all, everyone knows exactly what a 6 and a 9 is and no one has EVER mistyped as them π There is PERFECT understanding on 6 and 9 as core types, and they DEFINITELY haven't been reduced to stereotypes that eradicate all the nuance and variation found within these two types in general! π
I'd be Sx3, even tho I'm definitely not a core 3 lol.
What about u guys? What subtype would y'all be? :3
Edit: I forgot to include it in the title, but I meant specifically Naranjo's subtypes. Sorry!
Okay so I'm confident I'm a 2 core, right? And I'm confident on my fixes now, I'm for sure the 296 tritype. But BLUD, I CANNOT FIGURE OUT MY DOMINANT INSTINCT FOR THE LIFE OF ME ππ
So anyway, I'm basically stuck between Sx2 and Sp2 for myself as of this moment. Idk what else to say really, as I've shared a lot already about myself on some of my most recent posts. So maybe u guys can ask me some questions and I can answer them? Idk lol.
THE LIST IS HERE (no, not the one for all the Baal-worshipping, ped0philic elites, unfortunately; I mean the list of songs for all the subtypes).
I first tried to have at least two to three songs for each subtype, but that proved to be very difficult for some. So some of the subtypes ended up with only having one song instead (sorry!). I put e9 up first because y'all deserve to be first since you guys are always shown last in a lot of these sorts of list, just due to being the 9th number on the enneagram, and I always thought that sucked and it made me feel like crap whenever I personally mistyped as an e9 way back then (lol).
Here is the list!:
Sp9 - "aruarian dance" by Nujabes, "Three Little Birds" by Bob Marley, "Once In a Lifetime" by Talking Heads
Sx9 - "Kiss of Life" by Sade, "After Dark" by Mr. Kitty, "Kiss Me" by Sixpence None the Richer
So9 - "You Get What You Give" by New Radicals, "Don't Worry, Be Happy" by Bobby McFerrin (lowkey e7 coded, but more likely just a strong 7 fix), "Calling On Angels" by Train (this one here sounds a bit like it could be So6 but I think it's just a So9 in disintegration)
Sp1 - "How Much a Dollar Cost," "u," and "Swimming Pools" all by Kendrick Lamar (Kendrick is pretty clearly an Sp1 lol; PDB is dumb, he's not Sp4, pls stop mistyping Sp1s as Sp4s y'all)
Sx1 - "God's Gonna Cut You Down" by Johnny Cash, "Okie From Muskogee" by Merle Haggard (could also lowkey be So1)
So1 - "Barber: Agnus Dei" by VOCES8
Sp2 - "Cupid" by FIFTY FIFTY, "I'M NOT CUTE ANYMORE (Sped Up)" by ILLIT, "Lovefool" by The Cardigans (I couldn't decide if this is Sx2 or Sp2 so it's going in both lol)
Sx2 - "Promiscuous" by Nelly Furtado (ft. Timbalind), "Obsessed" by ilykimchi, "Lovefool" by The Cardigans
So2 - "The Promise" by When In Rome, "Without Me" by Halsey, "Don't You (Forget About Me)" by Simple Minds
Sp3 - "Are You Satisfied" by MARINA (could be So3 but I ultimately decided Sp3 for it)
Sx3 - "Grace Kelly" by MIKA, "How to Be a Heartbreaker" by MARINA
So3 - "Applause" by Lady Gaga, "Imposter Syndrome" by Sydney Gish
Sp4 - "Hurt" by Nine Inch Nails (or, alternatively, the Johnny Cash cover)
Sx4 - "Dirt" by Tender Misfit, "Radio" by Bershy, "Bigmouth Strikes Again" by The Smiths
So4 - "Creep" by Radiohead, "Partner In Crime" by Elio Mei, "Heaven Knows I'm Miserable Now" by The Smiths
Sp5 - "Tension" by Covenant, "Tom Sawyer" by RUSH
Sx5 - "Undisclosed Desires" by Muse, "Africa" and "Hold the Line" both by Toto
So5 - "Down a Rabbit Hole" by Shadow Academy
Sp6 - "I'm Just a Girl" by No Doubt, "Dark Red" by Steve Lacy
Sx6 - "Somewhere I Belong" by Linkin Park, "Townie" by Mitski
So6 - "Karma Police" by Radiohead, "Pit of Vipers" by Simon Curtis, "Another Brick In the Wall, Pt. 2" by Pink Floyd
Sp7 - "Who's Ready for Tomorrow" by RAT BOY & IBDY, "Friends on the Other Side" by Keith David, "TiK ToK" by Kesha
Sx7 - "Escape (The Pina Colada Song)" by Rupert Holmes, "Fooled Around And Fell In Love" by Elvin Bishop, "Endless Possibility" by Sonic Unleashed OST
So7 - "Charlie's Inferno" by That Handsome Devil, "Welcome to the Internet" by Bo Burnham
Sp8 - "My Way" by Frank Sinatra, "Ain't It Fun" by Paramore, "A Boy Named Sue" by Johnny Cash (this one could also be So8 tbh)
Sx8 - "LoveGame" and "Poker Face" both by Lady Gaga (lowkey they each could be Sp7 or Sx2 instead, but it was really hard to find songs for Sx8 tbh π€·ββοΈ), "L.O.V.E. Machine" by W.A.S.P.
So8 - "The Pretender" by Foo Fighters? (This song is kinda e6 coded ngl, but I really couldn't find much else for So8 I'm so sorry y'all; pls forgive me, So8s ππ) Maybe "A Boy Named Sue" by Johnny Cash? Maybe "Big Iron" by Marty Robbins?
[Note: I left out "I Bet On Losing Dogs" by Mitski because I had no more space for the 2 and 9 sections and I GENUINELY can't decide if it's Sx9 or just e2 in general (lol). Super relatable to both types tho, I think. Someone down below help me type this song for good once and for all pls haha.]
Credits to all the people who helped me with a lot of these recommendations in my last post!
Let's all play a game π Here are the rules:
Name AT LEAST one song you think really encapsulates or reflects your subtype.
Do the same thing for the other two subtypes of your core type. (For example, if you're an Sp4, try and name a song you think really encapsulates or reflects Sx4 and So4 as well.)
You can ONLY mention songs for the three subtypes that belong to your core type. However, you can name an UNLIMITED amount for each one. (For example, if you're an Sp4 and you can think of five songs for your own specific subtype, three songs for So4, and just one for Sx4, then you can go ahead and do that if you'd like.) There is no upper limit on how many songs you can name for each subtype of your core type. Just mention at least ONE for each.
When I get enough responses and engagement, I will carefully curate an entire list of songs for each subtype and post that list either tomorrow night or Sunday (depending on how many people participate).
HAVE FUN!!!! π
Like, for example, say you're a Sx4 and you encounter another Sx4 in the wild. Genuinely curious what would happen in that scenario lol. I'd imagine 4s who encounter other 4s irl in general basically turn things into the suffering olympics somehow (lol), but I could totally be off here idk. I'm not a 4, so to you 4s out there reading this, feel free to correct me if need be π€·ββοΈ
Speaking as a 2 (not sure if I've ever met another Sx2 irl before, but I've met 2s in general), interactions with other folks who share my core type basically always end up something like the picture here π
Can't find my fwickin' wing and instinct stacking/subtype. Some tests say I'm 2w1 and others say I'm 2w3. Some tests say I'm sp/sx (or Sp2) and others say I'm sx/sp (or Sx2). Could u guys help me out?
Pretty confident at this point that I'm a core 2 and that I'm the 296 tritype. I'm also confident that I'm ESE in socionics. My "literally me" characters are Ragatha from TADC, Mary Bailey from It's a Wonderful Life, and Calypso from Epic: The Musical. Some of my most recent posts are "type me" posts if you need more details about me, but I was mostly hoping if you guys could just ask me some questions and I'd answer them here (or in DMs or whatever, whichever you'd prefer).
Thanks! π
This is mostly gonna be a "stream-of-consciousness" sorta thing, so I'm just gonna say whatever comes to my mind here.
I'm 25 and still can't drive because it's scary and I honestly just suck at it. I'm really ashamed to admit this and it makes me feel like a failure. If I could, I'd live in a place where you could walk everywhere. I really hate how America is basically designed around cars, and that if you don't have a car or know how to drive, you're basically screwed. I sometimes feel I might have a really bad case of arrested development since I don't really know how to do a lot of things in general that a person my age should already know by now.
Currently an unemployed chud cuz I had to go to Mexico recently to get my braces done (medical care and most things in general are cheaper down there, so that's why), and it was easier to quit the job I had immediately prior + find a new job whenever I'd come back than to ask my then bosses for days off since said bosses sucked and probably wouldn't have let me have had the days off anyway (lol). I was a cashier before, and that's my preferred line of work usually. Most of my jobs have been me being some sort of cashier in general. I had moved out of my parents' house and into an apartment a couple years back, living with my significant other (who made most of the money and handled most of the boring, adult stuff like paperwork and whatnot besides some household chores that I was usually the one responsible for), but I had to move back in with my parents after about two and a half years due to no longer being able to afford it anymore basically. (The rent went up too much after the second time we renewed the lease, and I lost a job at a critical point in time; we were usually living paycheck to paycheck tbh, ngl π)
I dream of living in a cottage and growing old there with a wife and kids and being able to care for the poor and the less fortunate in a village community. I relate to/want to be like Jean Valjean from Les MisΓ©rables (1998 film version). I also relate a LOT to Mary Bailey from It's a Wonderful Life and Ragatha from TADC. I hate to feel useless. I love others how I want to be loved. I'm always acting as everyone's emotional support and therapist. I'm always making silent sacrifices that no one sees. I wish people would just love me for me, not for what I do for them/offer/provide or the mask I put on sometimes.
I don't have any friends, but tbf I'm not too butthurt about it since I only really want to be close to my significant other and family. I lowkey wish I could just be taken care of while I just sit around looking pretty. I often feel like I have nothing to offer the world but my body and my looks. I've been told a lot that I could be a model, which is bittersweet since it's flattering but reinforces the idea to me that all I'm worth to the world is someone who's nice to look at, as well as reinforces my extreme fear of aging (since those very same looks will inevitably go away one day).
Another reason this is bittersweet is that I want to actually love and help others, and I don't want my body/looks to be all that I provide for others. I want to actually be useful and help others the way I want to be helped, which is embarrassing to say out loud but the way I want to be helped is by others taking care of physical matters for me (e.g., cooking, cleaning, driving others around, etc., all of which I currently suck at). I recently started volunteering at a food/clothing pantry, which makes me very happy and makes me feel useful. I can be out of my house more, socialize and feel like I belong to something bigger than me + I can give back to my community and love others and do the right thing and what I feel I was created by God to do. In general, I believe God created all of us with a purpose, and that purpose is to love others in the ways we were all uniquely gifted to accomplish that task (e.g., someone who is good at handywork can love others that way, another person who is good at therapizing can do it that way, etc.; same broad purpose, but a unique way to accomplish said purpose for every individual). I can often be described as too rigid with my morals and principles, though I do still know how to put mercy and grace before principle and punishment at the end of the day. Maybe too much, in fact, as I can also be described as too permissive at times.
A song that makes me uncontrollably sob every time is "Forever Young" by Alphaville. I miss my youth and miss when I was a kid and I didn't have to worry about anything and I was loved unconditionally and everybody else did everything for me. I hate growing up and being and adult in general. I also really resonate with that song "Cupid" by FIFTY FIFTY. My greatest fear is to die alone, more specifically to die without marrying. I've been described as a very intense and passionate person. The one trait I've always been described by everyone as is "passionate." That's my most consistent trait. Passionate about the things I care about. I'm also often described as very patient and kind. If you push me too far, however, I'll really explode. Especially if you keep taking advantage of my kindness (or start to go after the ones I feel responsible for and/or care about). I've had a few of those "after everything I've done for you" crashouts with a significant other in the past.
I've been described as a "diva" or "princess" sometimes too. I am basically always a passenger prince tbf lol. I've been compared to characters like Disgust from Inside Out. I used to be bullied for my looks as a kid, and I basically vowed to never ever look ugly again, so I can never leave the house unless I make absolutely sure I look as a good as possible (which annoys those closest to me because I often can't get anything done due to my super duper long morning routine every day). I've always been described as looking younger than I actually am (and that's on purpose mind you; I WORK for this, lol). I'm a homebody in general, and like staying at my house most of the time. I also like to hold mini-concerts at my room at night with my LED light strips on and my TV blasting music that I can dance to. I like a lot of music that I grew up with in general, so lots of 2000's pop. I like to go to parties my extended family holds at times just to go dance at them. I really like/relate to that one song "Promiscuous" by Nelly Furtado. As a teenager, my family said I would be a good male stripper (which is weird to say out loud tbh, but I guess now that I think about it, my family has lowkey always made me feel like an object whose only standout trait is their looks). I like when my mom holds parties so I can serve everyone food and drinks and stuff.
Oh and I'm a straight male.