u/Paula234156

i’m a woman in my 20s. i have a masters degree and am abt to move to switzerland. my life is good and there is no need to change anything immediately, but i’m reflecting rn on which life i want for my future and i don’t seem to be able to decide. i have two different life ideas which cannot be mixed!! would love if you could share YOUR perspectives on those two different lifestyles. it is not about me- it is about the pros and cons.

in both i am equally wealthy.

life 1: in my 40s

i have a secure job and an even more secure relationship. everything is set, very balanced and “normal” life.

everything is secure, almost boring at times.

highlights are hiking w my partner/friends or going an relaxing trips. or a job promotion.

i collect special experiences 3x a year

life 2: also in my 40s

i have a good job but gotta put more effort in projects and prioritise things, more self reliance.

i life in a non-monogamous relationship, my partner and i are often on trips for work and spend only half of the time together. i party a lot, do the one or other drug and hook ups.

many good friends. i have everything but still want more. very dopamine driven.

i collect special experiences weekly.

ask away if there are open questions, i have both lifestyle as a finished picture in my head.

i’m a woman in my 20s. i have a masters degree and am abt to move to switzerland. my life is good and there is no need to change anything immediately, but i’m reflecting rn on which life i want for my future and i don’t seem to be able to decide. i have two different life ideas which cannot be mixed!! would love if you could share YOUR perspectives on those two different lifestyles. it is not about me- it is about the pros and cons.

in both i am equally wealthy.

life 1: in my 40s

i have a secure job and an even more secure relationship. everything is set, very balanced and “normal” life.

everything is secure, almost boring at times.

highlights are hiking w my partner/friends or going an relaxing trips. or a job promotion.

i collect special experiences 3x a year

life 2: also in my 40s

i have a good job but gotta put more effort in projects and prioritise things, more self reliance.

i life in a non-monogamous relationship, my partner and i are often on trips for work and spend only half of the time together. i party a lot, do the one or other drug and hook ups.

many good friends. i have everything but still want more. very dopamine driven.

i collect special experiences weekly.

i’m a woman in my 20s. i have a masters degree and am abt to move to switzerland. my life is good and there is no need to change anything immediately, but i’m reflecting rn on which life i want for my future and i don’t seem to be able to decide. i have two different life ideas which cannot be mixed!! would love if you could share YOUR perspectives on those two different lifestyles. it is not about me- it is about the pros and cons.

in both i am equally wealthy.

life 1: in my 40s

i have a secure job and an even more secure relationship. everything is set, very balanced and “normal” life.

everything is secure, almost boring at times.

highlights are hiking w my partner/friends or going an relaxing trips. or a job promotion.

i collect special experiences 3x a year

life 2: also in my 40s

i have a good job but gotta put more effort in projects and prioritise things, more self reliance.

i life in a non-monogamous relationship, my partner and i are often on trips for work and spend only half of the time together. i party a lot, do the one or other drug and hook ups.

many good friends. i have everything but still want more. very dopamine driven.

i collect special experiences weekly.

i’m a woman in my 20s. i have a masters degree and am abt to move to switzerland. my life is good and there is no need to change anything immediately, but i’m reflecting rn on which life i want for my future and i don’t seem to be able to decide. i have two different life ideas which cannot be mixed!! would love if you could share YOUR perspectives on those two different lifestyles.

in both i am equally wealthy.

life 1: in my 40s

i have a secure job and an even more secure relationship. everything is set, very balanced and “normal” life.

everything is secure, almost boring at times.

highlights are hiking w my partner/friends or going an relaxing trips. or a job promotion.

i collect special experiences 3x a year

life 2: also in my 40s

i have a good job but gotta put more effort in projects and prioritise things, more self reliance.

i life in a non-monogamous relationship, my partner and i are often on trips for work and spend only half of the time together. i party a lot, do the one or other drug and hook ups.

many good friends. i have everything but still want more. very dopamine driven.

i collect special experiences weekly.

dass es ihr hauptsächlich ums geld geht ist klar. aber nichtsdestotrotz frage ich mich, welche gedanken die von euch zu ihrer persönlichkeit haben, die sich mit psychologie auskennen.

für mich wirkt sie wie ein männlicher psychopath (wie trump), bei weiblichen psychopathen sind debatten ja häufiger emotional aufgeladen (zb meloni), bei weidel scheinen fast nie emotionen durchzukommen.

ich habe letztens ein altes interview gesehen, indem sie meinte, sie wolle politik nicht für immer machen, mittlerweile kann ich mir nicht vorstellen, dass sie die machtgier jemals überwinden wird…

ich schreibe den post nicht um mit ihr zu sympathisieren!!! finde das beispiel nur interessant und bin gespannt auf eure meinungen

dass es ihr hauptsächlich ums geld geht ist klar. aber nichtsdestotrotz frage ich mich, welche gedanken die von euch zu ihrer persönlichkeit haben, die sich mit psychologie auskennen.

für mich wirkt sie wie ein männlicher psychopath (wie trump), bei weiblichen psychopathen sind debatten ja häufiger emotional aufgeladen (zb meloni), bei weidel scheinen fast nie emotionen durchzukommen.

ich habe letztens ein altes interview gesehen, indem sie meinte, sie wolle politik nicht für immer machen, mittlerweile kann ich mir nicht vorstellen, dass sie die machtgier jemals überwinden wird…

ich schreibe den post nicht um mit ihr zu sympathisieren!!! finde das beispiel nur interessant und bin gespannt auf eure meinungen