u/Practical_Manner69

Women redditor in AIM sub are complaining men do not know how to have sex but thinks it's enough for women to just lie down and spread legs.

Basically wants men to get a master in Kamasutra but women can get away playing dead.

Women are doing the basic act of lying down and spreading legs is enough for men??

For me it's not as I don't support necrophilia with someone alive/s

When i post this in AIM people get confused about the questions :

This is yes or no questions

So yes it is enough

Or no it's not enough

It's kind of like an opinion poll

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Women redditor in this sub are complaining men do not know how to have sex but thinks it's enough for women to just lie down and spread legs.

Basically wants men to get a master in Kamasutra but women can get away playing dead.

Women are doing the basic act of lying down and spreading legs is enough for men??

For me it's not as I don't support necrophilia with someone alive/s

Edit 1: this is yes or no questions So yes it is enough Or no it's not enough It's kind of like an opinion poll

This sub has become epitome of generalization of men by women. Why is it easier for women to post emotional rants here than it is for men to post genuine questions?

It's feels like safe space for indian women than Indian Men

Hi , 32 M have been livin' in with 31F for the past 1.5 years.

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For the last 1 year,we have fought every other day and usually there's an allout war on weekends.

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But both my parents and her parents are forcing us to get married, and do the bare minimum part of the relationship.

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So let's say if we are married but divorce after 1-2 years.

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How much money she could ask from me ??

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Current Facts will continue in case married:

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I earn six times of her salary ,her job is completely remote but I need to travel to my office 3 days a week which takes 2 hour journey both sides.(She wants to live in a specific area of the city)

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We split rent and groceries which is half of her salaries but rest is paid by me.

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I took her for outings each week which cost me around half of her salary.

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I do most of the cooking and cleaning in household around 70%.

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We are not going to live with any parents or with inlaws, but we need to go each other parents once a year.

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Our marriage is going to SMA not fancy weeding and no gifts or dowry.

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I shifted to her city past 1.5 years back , took a hit to my compensation around 30%.

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Does the court look at any sacrifice which i made in the relationship and will be making in the marriage?

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Or i would be more of a burden as I am the one who is supporting her lifestyle.

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Can I do anything to prove, she is self sufficient in case of divorce??

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divorce is not certain and would not happen I'm just thinking about what if it happens, we are fighting for three years but we survived for three years also.

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PS : needed legal advice but not any relationship advice.

Thanks 🙏

Hi , 32 M have been livin' in with 31F for the past 1.5 years.

For the last 1 year,we have fought every other day and usually there's an allout war on weekends.

But both my parents and her parents are forcing us to get married, and do the bare minimum part of the relationship.

So let's say if we are married but divorce after 1-2 years.

How much money she could ask from me ??

​

Current Facts will continue in case married:

​

I earn six times of her salary ,her job is completely remote but I need to travel to my office 3 days a week which takes 2 hour journey both sides.(She wants to live in a specific area of the city)

We split rent and groceries which is half of her salaries but rest is paid by me.

I took her for outings each week which cost me around half of her salary.

I do most of the cooking and cleaning in household around 70%.

We are not going to live with any parents or with inlaws, but we need to go each other parents once a year.

Our marriage is going to SMA not fancy weeding and no gifts or dowry.

I shifted to her city past 1.5 years back , took a hit to my compensation around 30%.

​

Does the court look at any sacrifice which i made in the relationship and will be making in the marriage?

Or i would be more of a burden as I am the one who is supporting her lifestyle.

Can I do anything to prove, she is self sufficient in case of divorce??

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Hi 31,

In our 3 years of relationship, my girlfriend called me a man-child multiple times, how can I confirm if I'm one ??

For the context, I do cooking, cleaning, laundry and maintaining household , lived alone for 7 years before moving in with my girlfriend.

For example:

Today we had a huge fight , it started because I didn't make coffee for her , which i usually do.

Because there was no coffee. While the coffee powder was getting delivered, I made my tea Told her the same but she accused me that I didn't make it because of our fight and if I'm not going to make it i should have said it first. But I would have made her coffee once I finished my tea