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I have thin, sparse brows and want to upgrade my routine. I need something that mimics real hair... especially toward the inner brow where patches are most obvious.

Must come in deep shades and hold up on oily skin.

What are your holy grails?

1. Get 5-20 minutes of sunlight within 30 minutes of waking. Resets your circadian rhythm.
2. Do physically demanding work during the day. Strength training, sports, labor. Tired body, better sleep.
3. Take Magnesium, Melatonin, and L-Theanine 30-45 minutes before bed. All three are research-backed. I usually take a drink mix powder called Som Sleep. It contains all of these ingredients already and its convenient.
4. Keep your room 65-68°F.
5. Take a warm shower 30-45 minutes before bed. Your body cools itself afterward, which triggers sleep.
6. Don't try to fall asleep. It backfires. Get in bed to relax, not to sleep. You'll knock out faster.
7. No caffeine within 8 hours of bedtime.
8. If you lift weights, finish at least 2-3 hours before bed. Training spikes adrenaline. It lingers.
9. Don't go to bed hungry. Eat something small first.
10. One hour before bed, kill the screens or switch on blue light filter. Blue light kills melatonin production.
11. If noise wakes you, run white noise, rain, ocean, fans. Free on YouTube. Or wear earplugs.
12. Sleep in a completely dark room. Blackout curtains or a sleep mask. Darkness maximizes melatonin.

Tracked everything with an oura ring, kept a nightly log, spent way too much money in amazon. Here's the honest breakdown.

Things that actually helped

• Blackout curtains and earplugs. Cheap, immediate difference. Do these before anything else. I live by a busy road with so these def helped.
• Lowering room temp. Your body needs to drop its core temp to fall asleep. I aimed for 65-67F and it showed up in my scores consistently. Big one.
• Same wake time every day. Yes including weekends. This one sucked at first but its probably the highest leverage habit on this list. Sleep pressure builds up through the day, you get tired at the right time, you fall asleep easier. Simple.
• Morning sunlight. 10-15 mins outside after waking, no sunglasses. Anchors your circadian rhythm and makes you actually sleepy at night.
• Exercise. Better sleep on every day I worked out. Just dont train hard within 2-3 hours of bed. I train brazillian jiujitsu and am absolutely wired after practice.
• Cutting alcohol. Even 1-2 drinks tanked my HRV and wrecked the second half of the night. Alcohol isnt sleep, its sedation. Different thing.
• Supplements
  • L-theanine (200mg). Most consistent thing I tried. Takes the edge off a busy brain without making you groggy next day. Low risk, actually noticeable.
  • Melatonin. Works but most people take way too much. 5mg is overkill. 0.5-1mg an hour before bed is plenty. Its a timing signal not a sleeping pill, treat it like one.
  • Sleep blends. Tried a few. Olly gummies are fine for occasional use, nothing special. Moon Brew is nice as a pre-bed ritual, warm drink, wind down routine, probably half placebo but not a bad habit. Som Sleep was the best of the ones I tried, the formula is actually thought out and the effect was more consistent than the others.
  • GABA + B6. Did nothing I could measure. Not convinced it even absorbs properly. Skipped it after a few weeks.
  • Creating 15g every day, didnt help my sleep per say, but did notice improved cognitive function.

Things that didnt work

• Blue light glasses. Wore them for 8 weeks. Could not find a reliable signal. The issue isnt the wavelength, its that you're watching something stimulating at 10pm. Put your phone down.
• THC gummies. This one is sneaky. Felt like amazing sleep, fell asleep fast, felt heavy and sedated. But my ring told a different story every time. Lower HRV, higher resting HR, less deep sleep. Its the illusion of rest not actual recovery. Felt fine going to bed, dragged through the afternoon. Not worth it.

Boring conclusion

The stuff that acctually moved the needle most was eating better, exercising and getting stress under control. Since fixing my sleep everything else fixed itself. Better mood, more energy, less anxious, sharper at work. Genuinely did not expect how much of my life was being held back by bad sleep.

Any I miss?

My cramps have always been on the worse end, though probably still within the "normal" range. Taking the max dose of Aleve plus a heating pad gets me functional, but that first day is still rough and I'm still feeling it even with all that.

I don't think I have endo and I really don't want to go the birth control route, so I'm looking for something a little more low-key. Has anyone found supplements that actually help with cramps? Either something taken daily throughout the month or just around your period. I just need a tiny bit more relief on that first day without going harder on the NSAIDs (which is what my OBGYN suggested and I'm trying to avoid).

I already take a multivitamin, omega-3s, and magnesium every day and haven't noticed any real difference from those.

I know this is super individual and I'm not expecting a cure, just wanted to hear what has worked for other people. I'll definitely do my own research before starting anything new!

Any of you guys taking supplements that are helping you get sleep during the day? not just falling asleep but staying asleep?

Looking at melatonin, but wondering what others have tried

Graduating college in May and my parents offered to buy me a really nice suit as a gift. I have a tough time with fit (taller/athletic build) so I need something that is actually made for me with a more detailed fit. Not sure if Colorado Springs has a good menswear option like this or if I need to look elsewhere?

Budget is around $1,500 to $2,000. Any recommendations for a custom suit and shirts in Colorado Springs?

Anyone recommend good magnesium supplement for sleep? I see a lot of variations, curious what worked for you in terms of falling and staying asleep?