u/Puzzleheaded-Chart86

Hey! I got a kidney transplant back in 2017 and luckily it's still going strong! As anyone else in my situation I'm on immunosuppressants and I'll be travelling outside of the Schengen area for the first time this year, what do I do with my meds? Obviously put it in a hand luggage, and I have a medicine list as well as a letter saying "to anyone whom it may concern [my name] is in treatment at the nephrological department at [hospital] blah blah blah call this number if there is anything" since I'll be going to Malaysia and South Korea, 2 "stricter" countries regarding medicine, but do I need to say anything at immigration? How does all of this work? Normally when I visit my in laws in Italy we just put it in my carry on and go on with my day

Hej! Jeg er en transkønnet fyr på 23! 2 venner er lige stoppet venskab med mig af to separate grunde, og har nu kun 2 venner og min kæreste, kunne virkelig godt bruge nogle!

Jeg interesserer mig for kpop (desværre ret meget), kulture, mad, at rejse sprog, pokemon, penny board og så har min kæreste og jeg 4 degu hunner sammen, så er jeg også meget langsomt igang med at lære kinesisk :) ved egentlig ikke hvad man ellers skal skrive om sig selv lmao men bare skriv!

Kære banan plantage, jeg (m23) har været bedste venner med en (m21) i 8½år, vi har kaldt hindanden får sjælevenner i mange år nu, og er så tætte at vi har skrevet flere historier sammen, sagen er desværre bare at jeg kom til at læse en situation imellem os forkert, han kom og spurgte om omsorg, men han gjorde det med en kommentar jeg troede var en joke, jeg svarede tilbage med en joke som jeg plejer, men han blev dybt såret, da han følte den gjorde nar med hans situation, det kan jeg selfølgelig godt forstå, men nu har han så skrevet for 3 dage siden og sagt at det gør ham virkelig ondt at sige, men han har brug for space, selfølgelig gjorde det rigtig ondt i hjertet på mig, skrev et svar hvor jeg undskyldte og sagde jeg godt kunne forstår det, og det selfølgelig ikke var med vilje, men nur står jeg så i situationen hvor jeg tænker hvad fanden jeg nu skal gøre.. han bliver opereret den 10 juli og har fødselsdag dagen efter, vil så gerne skrive den 12 og sige jeg håber sæt gik godt og tillykke med fødselsdagen, men han har jo også spurgt om space. Har også det dilemma, at jeg var igang med at lave en pakke til ham, jeg ville sende i start juli (han bor i udlandet) med en masse ting fra hans interesser, ville føle at beholde det eller lade andre få det ville være forkert, så hvad fanden gør man i denne situation?? Vil også lige sige at jeg dsv ikke får social interaktion fra andre dagligt, så sidder nu også i et ensomt problem

Venlig hilsen en deprimeret ensom degu ejer

As the title suggests, my best friend of 8 years (21m) asked for some space after I (23m) deeply hurt him with a joke after reading a situation wrong (thought he made a joke when it was a vent) he asked for "some space" 3 days ago, but my anxiety is now killing me, I cannot get help from a therapist as I am poor and the government waiting lists for my country are 1+ year long for my age group.. of course I have been giving him the space he asked for, other than an apology and explanation when he asked for said space, I have not bothered him since, but this is KILLING me mentally, I have had a dream every night now about him coming back, yesterday was the worst one as I woke up 3 hours before my alarm and couldn't sleep again as my heart was pounding so hard. I'm terrified of losing him, our friendship, and I hate the unknown of some space, is for a few days, weeks, months, years, forever? Can I even write to him on his surgery day next month? His birthday next month? I was going to send him a huge package next month as he lives abroad too, and this is the first time in years we haven't talked every day for those 8 years. How the fuck do I even deal with this??? I'm sure it'll get easier with time, but right now matters

Hello, my best friend of 8 years who called me his soulmate (and I called myself his, platonically) yesterday asked for some space after I deeply hurt him with a comment after reading the room wrong, of course I apologised and plan on keeping the space until he messages me first, as much as my insane anxiety is telling me to ask a ton of questions regarding what that space is and how long, as if he would even know, but after my apology I haven't messaged him, we messaged each other constantly and daily for those 8 years, so it's really hard not to, but I would assume it would get better after some time, of course I'm deeply impacted by him needing space, but I also get it. My only thing is... He's having surgery the 10th, would it be alright to message him the day before/of/after to say I hope it will go/went well? Obviously I cannot ask him, as that would break the respect, but I feel terrible letting my best friend go through surgery silently, so I'm really unsure what to do in this case. If it matters we're both men

Hey! I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, but I'm travelling to msia to visit a friend this sept, and was wondering if there's anywhere I can buy akb CDs in kl? I tried googling, but couldn't really find something.. I can of course buy online, but shipping to Europe and customs usually deter me a good bit so I thought I could ask here! Doesn't matter if they're new or old, used or sealed if that matters :)

Hej alle!

Fik i dag brev i min eboks om at jeg havde fået et første møde med cki her den 29. Maj (hvilket jeg er skeptisk om bliver flyttet, siden det er meget hurtigt) og har hørt massere af horror stories om dem, er der noget nogle her som kom igennem dem og fik hormoner ville anbefale til mødet? For information er jeg 23, har gået med navnet Márkus i 5 år, er komplet socialt transitioned og har været det i nogle år, og er nyretransplantetet og svag synet (hvis det på nogle måder er vigtigt)

How does one even collect an expensive member these days without pulling them?!?! I've collected Chaewon since 2019, took a break when Instagram fucked their hashtag feature, but managed to buy 4 of each ver and mostly pulled the cards I needed up until easy era, since then I haven't had the money to do it, and my collection that I've worked years for, is slowly falling behind... Pocamarket her pcs are too expensive, most being above 10€, Instagram is still a hot mess, eBay they're also expensive, and vinted I just can't find any 😭😭 I don't want to give up on a collection so dear to me, but I really feel like there's no way to do it without spending 10€+ per pc, when it used to be done for 4-6 🥲🥲

Hey! As the title says, what's the best way to learn hanzi? I've been learning well, but for a few characters I used stroke order sheets, but in the end it'll definitely become tedious to keep doing that, so anyone has a good resource to just write them without looking up the stroke order for every character each time? Thanks so much in advance!